| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 9/12/2005 8:55:17 AM | 
Wowza.. I'm lgad that you feel that way and that some of the other posters do as well!
All hope is not lost! LOL
I agree with Irish..........and Isn't it good to see her back! Yee haaa! wb gurlfriend! (yes that was typed with an accent!LOL) | |
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Gremmy
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Joined: 5/28/2005
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:01:41 AM | | I'm one man who appreciates mature women. No offense to you young cuties, but as a woman gets older, she gets better. She has learned some lessons in life, hopefully, that have made her wiser. And there's just something about a woman as she matures that makes her sexier and sexier. | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 9/12/2005 12:19:05 PM | | I've never felt so satisfied with the way I am in my life. I can't do any better than I am. I've accepted what I am and who I am. I actually look forward to the next step in life. I work hard for the way that I do look at this stage of my life I could never compete with the perfection of a younger woman, but I don't need to try. I'm 51 and perhaps I have a little more wisdom, a little more experience and patience to offer. Maybe I've learned a little more empathy than I used to have and I certainly am not arrogant. They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that is all that I want, one man who will look at me now and see beauty and see the same beauty in me no matter how old we are, because love is really all it's about and to know that is to have more than perfect skin and muscles. I would not want to be 25 again. It's difficult to understand things when you've never been there before. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 9/12/2005 3:27:27 PM | Sierra....always the charmer!
Personally,I like myself better now than when I was 30..
Life's lesson has taught me a different perspective,a better perspective.
Not that I would knock any under 30 ladies..I know some really great people of that age group.
I just feel, for myself,that my view of myself is more confident now! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/30/2006 7:36:35 PM | I love what has been said on this site. So positive and uplifting........see that is the difference. No offense to being younger........man, what I would give to have figure at 20, my energy at 25 and my beauty at 28, but I gotta tell ya, I have had so much life......and at 35 there is alot Ihave learned.
When I was 20, I would not dance unless I had a few drinks in me first......for fear of being looked at
Now that I am 35, I could care less who looks at me........and actually pride myself on the ability to just give'r in my running shoes and jeans.
When I was 25 I was looking for a fella who could complete me............
Now that I am 35, I am complete and anyone who comes into my life.......is an added bonus
when I was 30, I was insecure about my looks and the fact that I was inevitably aging...
Now that I am 35, I love how I look and feel and dream and wish nothing more than the best for all those in my life past and present
Being mid thirty is a wonderful place to be..........I have lived, I have learned and I am positive I can handle what is coming next for me.........it's such a journey
Ladies and gents.....it's all about living and loving the best we can...........
I am no expert but I do love "The Propohet" by Kahlil Gibran
as said:
"and a poet said, Speak to us of Beauty.
And he answered:
Where shall you seek beauty, and how shall you find her unless she herself be your way and your guide?
And how shall you speak of her except she be the weaver of your speech?
The aggrieved and the injured say, "Beatuy is kind and gentle.
Like a young mother half-shy of her own glory she walks among us."
and the passionate say, "Nay, beauty is a thing of might and dread.
Like the tempest she shakes the earht beneath us and the sky above us."
The tired and the weary say, "beauty is of soft whisperings. She speaks in our spirit........................
I will leave it at that......
Cheers! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/30/2006 8:53:28 PM | I've come across a few girls I knew in high school on this and other 'community' sites. They invariably look better now in their mid-thirties than in their late teens and in their twenties at the class reunions.
Of course, "...start getting good after 30" goes for much more than looks. For the most part, 30+ ladies:
- are done playing the games
- know what they want in life
- know how men and women are different, and why that matters
- have learned the life lessons that make them better people
- remember when MTV actually played music - LOL! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/31/2006 3:25:25 AM | VERY wonderfully worded, Menmy~
A very positive posting. And so very true!! :o) Women after 30 have "lived a little", and posess a more grounded, realisitic outlook in life.... we have ALL been "20 something". I don't think I have ever heard any woman over 30 preferred being in their twenties. Of course we all like to feel young and energetic, but I am happy with aspects of my life and mind now in my 30's, that were not present while in my 20's.
A very rude immature 22 yr old girl on this site, makes reference to my "38" in her profile as "Middle aged" wannabe model yada yada, whatever! With age definitely comes maturity (mental) that can only be attained from life experiences.
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/31/2006 6:46:01 AM | I spent my twenties trying to figure men AND other women out(no I am not bi!)hehe.....and then in my thirties I realized.....it doesnt matter!...
everyone has their own personality..and it makes us who we are..man OR woman....
I just laugh.....and enjoy life...and keep my peepers and my ears open for my soulmate..(yes...alas.."sigh"..still looking).....
I feel great...I am healthy ..happy..successful....and well loved by God and family..what more can a woman ask for?......(whispers....well..darn...a sweet sexy...best friend would be great)LOL
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/4/2006 12:25:58 AM | | I prefer women in there 30's after dating one for a bit, they seem to know what they want and they dont BS you like some of the younger girls in there 20's do, I guess it has to do with the fact they have learned to be comfortable with who they are e.t.c.. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/4/2006 3:33:32 AM |
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
I dont know i was an am good no matter how old i am..something for all of you to think about...does this mean when the next posts askes are you better at 80 then you were at 50 what are you gonna answer.... ahhhhhhhhhhhh HELLOOOOOOOOO... Wowza I am glad you feel that way etc... OMG a forum done up by a pull tag,,I never like to be rude but..how stupid..go to other over 30 groups and watch and listen and take notes...this was done in 2005...no wonder nobody has answered to your forum but i could not restrain myslef . | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/4/2006 6:38:34 AM | Definately not just you. I find the same thing. I'll probably get slammed for posting in here as I still have 2 years to go before I'm 30, but I've been after 30 + women since I was 24. The only thing I remember from highschool is that women hit there sexual peak sometime in their 30's so that is probably why over 30 women seem so much better.
Only thing is I hope when I'm 30 I don't get an attraction for the young 20 year olds, nothing bugs me more than turning into an old dirty man. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/5/2006 3:22:06 PM | I just recently started dating women younger than me. There has been an absence of common ground between me and younger women even when I was 22-25 even when I was 27.
I connect better with older people. Now that I have both older and younger friends it is easier ... but I still feel that the younger women I get along with are just more mature (probably first born or first out on her own = independent).
Hair, number of tat's, who's doing who, celeb gossip, which friend is pregnant, and 'did you hear ... ' subjects don't really interest me. I doubt that will change with age.
Turning 30 means I can date and meet older women ... things are looking up finally :) | |
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