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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/8/2006 3:00:38 PM | Before or after 30 is irrelevant...I think a woman IS a woman, because of the way she comports herself...and that comes at many ages...some early on, some a little later...but you can't generalize and put everyone into a category like that...
Just find a partner you think is a woman in YOUR eyes, above or below 30, and go with it^^.
How's that grab ya? | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/8/2006 3:55:53 PM | | I think you might have something there. before my 30's sex was great..but now that im older I feel more confidant in myself and not embarassed to tell you how or what i like. I think that is the difference at this point. Its our self confidence that exuberates...(big word..spelled wronge no doubt) ..it boils down to a woman knowing how to please jer partner & having the know how to tell / show her man how to please her..make sence? | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/9/2006 7:53:40 AM | A woman is good at any age..the only thing that truly changes is the confidence.
Women that have loved and lost, and gone through the joys and heartaches of life will have a much different attitude about things...something that can only come with time and maturity.. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/9/2006 8:03:22 AM | Maturity for both of the sexes makes most better.......
Life experiences, knowledge, mental and physical growth......all combine to make us better within and on the outside.......Just a matter of knowing how to maintain it and deal with it as we age.....   
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 4/9/2006 8:09:15 AM | In my experience, women after 30 are more mature, more confident, and have more realistic goals in life. Plus 20 something women look like kids to me these days. Being 47, I don't identify with pop culture to the extent I used too. For instancce. Young people at work love fancy rims and low profile tires. They look weird and stupid to me.
But beside all that, women in their 30's and 40's have always been more attractive to me. I think it has to do with the way they carry themselves and are self assured.
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:38:31 AM | I know that since I've turned 30, that I've come into my own. I feel more confident and I'm attracting a lot more attention too. The hormone driven increase in sexual appetite is a really nice change too. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 10:24:51 AM | I'm totally with singledads original message. Since turning 30 something kicked in with me and I won't look at or date a woman I assume is under 30 now. There is a sort of wisdom and experience (not necessarily sexual) pheremone that I think kicks in.
Quite a mental/physical turn on. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 3:23:31 PM | | Very True! because by then they have learned who 'they' are and know what they want! and they dont give a s*** what people think, when I was younger I sometimes worried what others thought of me e.t.c.. as you get older and get close to '30' I guess you learn to live in your own 'skin' alot better and take on a different attitude and alot of things that you liked when you where younger lose there appeal. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:11:10 PM | | Thank You very much, since I'll be celebrating my 39th in a couple months..This really helps!! I think we do get better, women and men..What doesn't kill us makes us stronger..When I turned 30 my ex-husband of 15 yrs said I had lost my mind, I replied "No, I have just found it"..I finally decided no more B.S., and I was going to be happy with myself in area's of my life..I think it's cause we realize what we truly want and we're not as afraid to go after it, and get it... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:54:30 PM | | Yes!..40s are fantantic... Increased self esteem, confidence, life experience and asserting your needs, and knowing what you want, making wise choices, plus sexual peak all occur to women their forties...Im more confident about my abilities and gifts and my body than I ever was at 25 | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:14:47 PM | It's nice to hear a man appreciate us women over 30 ... I can't speak for all us women at this stage of life ... but as for me ... the one thing I know for certain is that I never expected to still be single at my age ... however time and experience have given me much more insight than I ever had in my 20's ...
Sadly I've discovered that even tho' women seem to mature as they get older, most men don't ... whether 18 or 68, they still seem to remain in the same mindframe ...
however, my kudos to all those men like 'singledad101' for acknowledging that like fine wine, women do get better with age ... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/7/2006 9:00:20 PM | I love this thread and the fact that all the women are in agreement!! I had a great time in my 20's, but they were just a stepping stone, to the woman I've become. I LOVE being in my 30's I feel great, the sex is amazing and I'm not afraid to go after what I want!! Now if only we could get the men on the same page.... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/8/2006 4:39:09 PM | Now that's a thread/topic I would like to be involved in...futility of games and drama and such.
I have to admit that since I've been dating 30+ that, luckily these women are at the point now where they are pretty sure of what they want and how they're going to get it. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/8/2006 8:05:52 PM | | We do...because we are no longer the "innocent bystander" out to please and not get pleased. At least I speak for those with confidence, and self esteem, and those who are tired of "pretending" (i.e. When Harry Met Sally). | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:46:15 AM | never been married and definitely don't hate men. lol
personally i'm more confident, wilder, less worried about what others think of me, less inhibited, and much happier with myself than i ever was in my 20s. i think i hit my prime when i turned 29, and at 33 i'm only getting better. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/10/2006 7:52:56 PM | No offense meant "double cabin". However, there is surely a short supply of "the classy, appreciative of older women" type here in Florida. For some reason all I personally run into down here are the "old farts" looking to hook up with younger women, and men who are my age (or close to it) who are looking for the 30-somethings.
Dont you believe it Maddie
There are a few old farts getting round with younger women but it's the younger women who are looking to hook up with them, not the other way round. Half of those younger women are still young enough and stupid enough to think that if it's old then its rich. The idea that a rental trailer park, away from the main tourist areas, where you dont' pay heating bills, might be the cheapest pleasant spot for an old fart to live is beyond the thinking of these young women.
There's a second reason.
A lot of these young women try to tease the old farts. but because the old farts have been so badly hurt by previous relationships, they don't take the bait and they just walk away. This offends the ego of the young women and they hotly pursue the old farts. | |
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