merpo
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/11/2006 9:38:33 PM | Lets see.
From the young mans point.
- All girls are princesses and should look like that and behave like that. So I will treat them like princesses and expect them to conduct themselves as such
From the young womans point. -
- All young men are supposed to be handsome princes and had better be the handsome princes that they are pretending to be or I'm going to treat them like dirt.
From the older mans point. -
No women are princesses. There are women and there are ****es. The women I will treat like women. The ****es I will just avoid like the plague.
From the older womans point
- Men are either men or bs/ds. I won't treat men like dirt if they arent princes. I will treat them like men.
I don't know if the women get any better. In fact I very much doubt it. I am absoloutely sure that the men get totally intolerant of being treated like dirt and any woman who does so is left totally bewildered that they men arent still beating a path to her door. ie The men ONLY see those women who have gotten their act sorted out. The rest they avoid like the plague. | |
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WRBH
| Joined: 2/23/2006 Msg: 79 | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/15/2006 6:29:46 AM | Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30 What about hardbodies over 30? Yes, you can have it all. 
Life was great in my 20s, but it totally got better after 30. I definitely agree with that one, I am living proof of it. | |
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Budgie
| Joined: 11/5/2005 Msg: 82 | |
| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/16/2006 12:46:30 AM | I can't believe I am 30 now! I thought it would be terrible but must admit I feel so much better. I feel like people take me more seriously now then before. I get called "cougar" a little more often now but usually by guys that can't believe how old I am. I look better now then I did in the previous years. I feel like I know what I want. I just hope I find it before I hit menopause! haha | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/16/2006 3:21:40 PM | I definitely think I've gotten better after 30. My looks have matured into what I have been told is 'sexy and alluring'. My self security has grown into a full confidence and I am comfortable in who I am.
Approaching 40, makes me wonder...Can it get any better than I am right now?
Only have a few more months to go before I turn 40 so....will find out soon. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/16/2006 9:28:31 PM | Im 36 and I often times still mistaken to be 26 which is flattering to me. It was funny few years back i went to my Stepdaughter & my Stepson's school to meet with the Guidance counsellor.... i was standing in the hallway with my backpack seeing i just came to the library & borrowed books the Principal thought I was a student who is lost finding my way... to me that was flattering that at 35 I can still pass as I am in high school that was funny....
When I go to the liquor store Or the bar they still ID me for thinking I am younger than how I look....
Women after 30 like I am.... we tend to be aware of the fine lines in our faces & BOTOX is not the answer either.. its good health, good man & lots of good sex I tell u....... the younger the better as my friends would say.....
Like recently I brought a friend whom I was out with on a date & my friends/co workers look at me like I am an ICON.... that i still have the magic touch.
I am confident of who i am & Having that guy with me was something I am proud of. Not only did he impressed my friends but I was impressed with him also. I dont say it quite often but he was A nice man who I would wish to date bec he made an impression to everyone that my age never bothered him one bit & to me that impressed me about him..... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/16/2006 10:15:01 PM | I think we all do - men and women alike. I am a few months short of 40, and I've never felt healthier - intellectually, emotionally, financially, physically, spiritually - you name it. Am I perfect? No! But I never was, and I'll trade a little physical prowess in exchange for the wisdom, grace, confidence, prosperity, and yes, even silliness and playfulness (No more worrying about being "mature", or caring what others think). No more angsting over my imperfections. I know who I am, appreciate the gifts and blessings of my life, and am surrounded by loving family, friends and community.
I am always amazed, I must say, by the number of profiles from both genders saying something like "looks/acts younger than my age." Personally, I don't want someone who's wishing they could go backwards! Someone who prides themselves on being less than they are is supposed to attract me? I want someone who feels like I do - that these are the best years of their life, and is ready to share the abundance. Congrats to the OP for recognizing the difference between a girl and a woman. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/18/2006 4:55:23 PM | we mature like a great bottle of wine with age we get better we know what we want we are not afraid to go for it we have more confidence and have learned to love ourselves so we are better able to give full love to that other person we know how to treat are men like kings, cater to them we are f*****g amazing in bed which comes with experience and learning to be more comfortable with our bodies imperfections and all we are past playing games and we dont put up with bulls***t what more could you want huh?
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/21/2006 1:24:02 PM | HAH.. Good at 30 But so much better at 40. And you might want to make a note of this...
After 40, not only do we enjoy sex more, but actually get better at it, and we get more selfish.. which means.. PLEASE US FIRST.. then we might reciprocate.  | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 8/21/2006 1:28:45 PM | ^^^ Women in their 30's actually give before receive? Since I can remember I like to make sure I have a man who comes over, gives (for as long as it takes) and then is willing to go home without asking for or getting anything - even if that's not what happens in the end. It's a walk on faith. As my ex has said many times - men get what they want by default, but it's a much more enjoyable experience if they make damn sure we are satisfied before that happens...
Then again, I AM almost 40. So maybe that's why. Nevermind. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 1/11/2007 2:14:00 AM | My own 2c on the subject...
I personally think that age doesn't really matter. I know some very mature 23-year-old women, and some very -immature- 38-year-old guys.
And hey, we are in the age group right now where sex isn't really an issue. I have my own criteria for someone that I would like to date, but they are limited...can hold down their half of a conversation, is happy with herself and her body (self-confidence is sexy, girls), and wants a 'real' relationship. But as far as age goes, I would date a 25-year-old woman or a 45-year-old woman, age is not important to me.
Last criteria for me would be if she thinks -I'm- sexy...because if one person isn't into it it is the kiss of death for the relationship. This may sound like a no-brainer...but the last thing I ever want to be is someone that was 'settled on' because nothing better came along. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 1/11/2007 6:25:40 AM | The reality is is takes most that long to feel comfortable in thier own skin. They are at that point financially secure, know what and how they like sex and are not afraid to tell you! (Thank heavens for older women growning up, thanks for the training and the memories) Then, they're are divorced or separated women that have delt with the same inconsiderate lover for God knows how many years and are finally free to be treated like they deserve to be! Overall, I've always enjoyed older women older than me that is and as I push 40 (next yr) older is my my age to me and I feel very comforatble with women now. Unless they are twenty something and you are trying to prove something but don't really feel right doing so. God bless WOMEN in general! You start out enjoying the wiggle in the tight pants and then it morph's into so much more if you allow it and takes you to another level of appreciation that one can only decribe as "Euphoric!" | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 1/11/2007 11:04:04 AM | | I agree women do get better after 30. They get even better after 35. From my experience women reach their peak attractiveness with mind and body collectively at about 40. Maybe I like getting older because the women are getting better. | |
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