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 merpo

Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 76
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:07:12 AM
I think it's all about how comfortable we become with our own bodies!! I can honestly say I am now a lights on girl...heheee!!!
 MaggieMae42276

Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 77
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:58:02 PM
I can only speak for me ....... and I did get BETTER when I hit thirty .... and continueing to do so .... just now figuring out what I WANT and NEED...... exploring and discovering is most of the fun
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 78
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:38:33 PM
Lets see.

From the young mans point.

- All girls are princesses and should look like that and behave like that. So I will treat them like princesses and expect them to conduct themselves as such

From the young womans point. -

- All young men are supposed to be handsome princes and had better be the handsome princes that they are pretending to be or I'm going to treat them like dirt.


From the older mans point. -

No women are princesses. There are women and there are ****es. The women I will treat like women. The ****es I will just avoid like the plague.


From the older womans point

- Men are either men or bs/ds. I won't treat men like dirt if they arent princes. I will treat them like men.


I don't know if the women get any better. In fact I very much doubt it.
I am absoloutely sure that the men get totally intolerant of being treated like dirt and any woman who does so is left totally bewildered that they men arent still beating a path to her door.
ie The men ONLY see those women who have gotten their act sorted out. The rest they avoid like the plague.
 WRBH

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 79
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:20:49 PM
That's because we are no longer girls, but have become Women
Thanks dad, you made my night!!!!
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 80
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/15/2006 6:29:46 AM
Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30

What about hardbodies over 30? Yes, you can have it all.

Life was great in my 20s, but it totally got better after 30. I definitely agree with that one, I am living proof of it.
 Kerenliz30

Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 81
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/15/2006 8:12:35 AM
HELL YEAH we are better at 30!! THis is the BEST year of my life so far....
 Budgie

Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 82
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 12:46:30 AM
I can't believe I am 30 now! I thought it would be terrible but must admit I feel so much better. I feel like people take me more seriously now then before.
I get called "cougar" a little more often now but usually by guys that can't believe how old I am. I look better now then I did in the previous years.
I feel like I know what I want. I just hope I find it before I hit menopause! haha
 lilmsangelic30

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 83
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 8:57:18 AM
woooooooohooooooooo that is great news being I will be 31 next month...

Donna
 balletdancer

Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 84
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 11:33:27 AM
A good wine grows sweeter with age.
 goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:30:54 PM
we are like fine wine we are much more pleasent to drink when we become 30 or over
 chrisdelta

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 86
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:44:55 PM
god yea i prefer someone over 30 they know all the bits places how to deal with them and just generally treat people better younger girls ive dated
 angelleys

Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 87
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 3:21:40 PM
I definitely think I've gotten better after 30. My looks have matured into what I have been told is 'sexy and alluring'. My self security has grown into a full confidence and I am comfortable in who I am.

Approaching 40, makes me wonder...Can it get any better than I am right now?

Only have a few more months to go before I turn 40 so....will find out soon.
 pebbles_2006

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 88
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 9:28:31 PM
Im 36 and I often times still mistaken to be 26 which is flattering to me. It was funny few years back i went to my Stepdaughter & my Stepson's school to meet with the Guidance counsellor.... i was standing in the hallway with my backpack seeing i just came to the library & borrowed books the Principal thought I was a student who is lost finding my way... to me that was flattering that at 35 I can still pass as I am in high school that was funny....

When I go to the liquor store Or the bar they still ID me for thinking I am younger than how I look....

Women after 30 like I am.... we tend to be aware of the fine lines in our faces & BOTOX is not the answer either.. its good health, good man & lots of good sex I tell u....... the younger the better as my friends would say.....

Like recently I brought a friend whom I was out with on a date & my friends/co workers look at me like I am an ICON.... that i still have the magic touch.

I am confident of who i am & Having that guy with me was something I am proud of. Not only did he impressed my friends but I was impressed with him also. I dont say it quite often but he was A nice man who I would wish to date bec he made an impression to everyone that my age never bothered him one bit & to me that impressed me about him.....
 Nishama

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 89
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 10:15:01 PM
I think we all do - men and women alike. I am a few months short of 40, and I've never felt healthier - intellectually, emotionally, financially, physically, spiritually - you name it. Am I perfect? No! But I never was, and I'll trade a little physical prowess in exchange for the wisdom, grace, confidence, prosperity, and yes, even silliness and playfulness (No more worrying about being "mature", or caring what others think). No more angsting over my imperfections. I know who I am, appreciate the gifts and blessings of my life, and am surrounded by loving family, friends and community.

I am always amazed, I must say, by the number of profiles from both genders saying something like "looks/acts younger than my age." Personally, I don't want someone who's wishing they could go backwards! Someone who prides themselves on being less than they are is supposed to attract me? I want someone who feels like I do - that these are the best years of their life, and is ready to share the abundance. Congrats to the OP for recognizing the difference between a girl and a woman.
 Top It

Joined: 5/26/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/16/2006 10:32:50 PM
This is very true, after thirty every woman begins to age like fine wine. The longer they age, the better thay are altogether.
 JesseJames67

Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 91
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/18/2006 3:52:14 PM
IT'S CALLED EXPERIENCE
 wifeymaterial35

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 92
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/18/2006 4:55:23 PM
we mature like a great bottle of wine
with age we get better
we know what we want
we are not afraid to go for it
we have more confidence and have learned to love ourselves so we are better able to give full love to that other person
we know how to treat are men like kings, cater to them
we are f*****g amazing in bed which comes with experience and learning to be more comfortable with our bodies imperfections and all
we are past playing games
and we dont put up with bulls***t
what more could you want huh?
 Skeena Rivers

Joined: 8/14/2006
Msg: 93
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:09:50 AM
No we "start getting good after 30."

I try! I try!
Anyway...LOL
 bachelorsheaven

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 94
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:24:02 PM
HAH.. Good at 30
But so much better at 40. And you might want to make a note of this...

After 40, not only do we enjoy sex more, but actually get better at it, and we get more selfish.. which means.. PLEASE US FIRST.. then we might reciprocate.
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:28:45 PM
^^^ Women in their 30's actually give before receive? Since I can remember I like to make sure I have a man who comes over, gives (for as long as it takes) and then is willing to go home without asking for or getting anything - even if that's not what happens in the end. It's a walk on faith. As my ex has said many times - men get what they want by default, but it's a much more enjoyable experience if they make damn sure we are satisfied before that happens...

Then again, I AM almost 40. So maybe that's why. Nevermind.
 oompa

Joined: 8/18/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 9/4/2006 11:30:27 PM
hmmm, maybe it's just you.....but then again, has been helping ugly and phat people have sex since the 1862!
 Harpoonz

Joined: 11/25/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/11/2007 2:14:00 AM
My own 2c on the subject...

I personally think that age doesn't really matter. I know some very mature 23-year-old women, and some very -immature- 38-year-old guys.

And hey, we are in the age group right now where sex isn't really an issue. I have my own criteria for someone that I would like to date, but they are limited...can hold down their half of a conversation, is happy with herself and her body (self-confidence is sexy, girls), and wants a 'real' relationship. But as far as age goes, I would date a 25-year-old woman or a 45-year-old woman, age is not important to me.

Last criteria for me would be if she thinks -I'm- sexy...because if one person isn't into it it is the kiss of death for the relationship. This may sound like a no-brainer...but the last thing I ever want to be is someone that was 'settled on' because nothing better came along.
 Optomistic One

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 98
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/11/2007 6:25:40 AM
The reality is is takes most that long to feel comfortable in thier own skin. They are at that point financially secure, know what and how they like sex and are not afraid to tell you! (Thank heavens for older women growning up, thanks for the training and the memories)
Then, they're are divorced or separated women that have delt with the same inconsiderate lover for God knows how many years and are finally free to be treated like they deserve to be!
Overall, I've always enjoyed older women older than me that is and as I push 40 (next yr) older is my my age to me and I feel very comforatble with women now. Unless they are twenty something and you are trying to prove something but don't really feel right doing so.
God bless WOMEN in general! You start out enjoying the wiggle in the tight pants and then it morph's into so much more if you allow it and takes you to another level of appreciation that one can only decribe as "Euphoric!"
 FriendsFirstTO

Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 99
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/11/2007 10:30:49 AM
it's not just you ... they do ....

:-)
 susndeca

Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 100
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/11/2007 11:04:04 AM
I agree women do get better after 30. They get even better after 35. From my experience women reach their peak attractiveness with mind and body collectively at about 40. Maybe I like getting older because the women are getting better.
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