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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/19/2007 3:14:17 PM | I can only speak from my own perspective here...But personally, when I was in my 20's I really had no idea what I really wanted from life and from love. If you don't know what you want, how can you expect to find happiness? I am also much more comfortable with who I am as a person now! Sure...I'm not as "hardbodied" as I was at 22; but I sure know soooo much more what I will or will not put up with, and what feels right to me! Experience is SO much sexier when it's from learning from our past mistakes... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/20/2007 3:49:42 AM | Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30
I totally agree, women over 30 are REAL women - we know what we want, we have experienced enough life to be secure in who we are - we don't need to play games, or lie, or cheat like younger girls tend to do. We can be ourselves, and not worry so much about impressing anyone by trying to pretend to be something we aren't. We also aren't as inhibited as younger women..I love being over 30 myself. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/20/2007 8:23:04 AM | | I think, I look and have a much better outlook on life then I ever did in my 20's. I think women are taking better care of themselves longer and really are searching for what they want. Not settling on just wanting to get married like we were told to in the past. I do find that men in the 30's look much older. Sometimes looking at pictures of guy's online, I'm shocked at how old some guys look. I know 50 year old that look younger. I can see why all the 30's year old women I know are dating and marrying younger men. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/20/2007 9:04:09 PM |
Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30
Now, this is one of the best things that I could have seen tonight  I just turned 30 last month, and am going through the 'OMG I am 30' thing lol
So THANK YOU! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:09:18 PM | | All I can add to this line of conversation is this: If you think over 30 is great, wait until 40...these really ARE the best years of your life; at least they have been for me in terms of being 'good'. :D | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/24/2007 8:57:29 PM | | Amen Dusty! I know myself so much better in my 40's than I ever did in my 20's when I was a little hottie with a hardbody! There's so much more depth in your 40's. I am much more comfortable with myself and my body than I ever was when I was 30 pounds lighter (I was a stick) and 20 years younger. If a man wants more than just eye candy then he should keep his eyes and heart open to women over 40. Personally I usually date men who are younger than I am (30's) and they don't seem to mind. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/25/2007 3:08:23 PM | | nope...its not just you its true,im 42 well will be in june,i have never felt better or looked better in my life.Im told all the time i dont look my age,or do i look old enough to have 2 teen daughters,when the 3 of us are togeather we are mistakin for sisters.I think it has alot to do with good genes,or us women at this age are just like a fine wine we get better with age. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/26/2007 6:21:45 AM | women are like a fine wine, they improve with age!
so we may not have the fit young body but we have the mature mind which most men find more of a turn on!
and how many men can say that they don't find a child bearing womans body attractive? | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:38:46 AM | Yes, thanks to all you ladies over 30. There is nothing more sexy than a mature woman, other than the ones that are also great moms. At this point in my life single hard working moms are one of my biggest turn ons.
The other night I needed to waste some time and decided to go to a local pealer bar for the first time in a long time. The whole time I was there I could not shake the feeling of it being some sorta twisted low quality highschool play. The only truely sexy woman in the place was an old friend of mine that I had not seen in years. I was blown away that she still worked there. She is not a stripper. She was a single mom working two jobs and trying her very best. We did not get a chance to talk much, but I will tell you she has only gotten better with age. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:01:52 AM |
Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30
What about hardbodies over 30? Yes, you can have it all.
Life was great in my 20s, but it totally got better after 30. I definitely agree with that one, I am living proof of it.
Over 40 too. Why do people think it's "normal" to become fat and "fall apart" after 30, or 40, or 50? Unfortunately I guess it is normal for most North Americans... but it's not a given. This goes for both sexes, and for women who have had babies too.
Most of my friends around my age, late 30s and early 40s, blend in perfectly with the twentysomethings at the pool, the volleyball court, and in bicycle clothing, until you're close enough to see the crow's feet around the eyes (which are sexy, IMO).
Yes, most of us are active or genuinely athletic, and disciplined (a lot of PhDs and other high achievers), but even that's not a given.
I'm attracted to lean, fit bodies, and not attracted to fatties, or even what most people would consider "average." I'm more attracted to women my own age than younger. Among the kind of people I hang out with, both at home and while travelling, I don't find there's a shortage of fit, attractive women over 30, 40, or 50 (or men, if you're a woman).
This might seem shallow to some, but isn't it possible that body type can send personality signals? | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 2/2/2007 10:49:36 AM | ^^Exactly newinva. Things don't have to go downhill after 30, unless you want them to. And it's not vanity, it's better on your body, your mind and your self esteem to stay healthy fit and young minded. In life body, mind and spirit if you don't use it, you will lose it.
Granted, everyone is where they want to be in life or they would change it. Live and let live, but for me I decided that I would keep my shape for as long as I could. Actually at this point in my life I'm in better shape than I was in my 20s. I didn't work out much then - I didn't have to really, but you can totally see the difference.
So some of us women do keep the stamina and shape of our youth after 30, and then add in all the wisdom and experience, and financial stability. Killer combination.
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robjam
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Joined: 12/27/2006
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Joined: 5/30/2006
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 2/14/2007 11:55:23 AM | | Even though age is nothing but a number to me but it seems that most women over the age of 30 are much better in all areas than in their 20's. Of course, there are some rare exceptions too. I just find that they are more comfortable in their own skins, more stable and most important, they know what they want and don't want... | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/2/2007 4:26:18 AM | More agreement from me - for sure! Personally, late 30's and on is when I started to feel great! I may have been "hotter" on the outside in my earlier years... but I am without a doubt "hotter on the inside" now... and I'm not refering to hot flashes - LOL. I just feel far more comfortable in my skin than I used to - happy to be me - and far more comfortable with my sexuality!
THANK YOU to all the guys - young and old who know this little bit of wisdom about us more mature girls and appreciate it... and to my sisters also in their prime... GO GIRL and ENJOY EVERY MINUTE!!!     | |
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