Algy
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/2/2007 10:10:39 AM | 30 is just a number. Some women seem to have it together a lot earlier than that. Some seem to become more bitter and worn out as they age. This is true for men too. If I HAD to limit myself to a particular age range, I'd say late twenties to early forties - with exceptions of course. They are old enough to know better and young enough to still have it.
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/2/2007 12:39:32 PM | I agree... turning thirty was a milestone for me. I was newly divorced and "broken". I had to figure out a way to make myself happy, so I dove into myself... headfirst and without biased only to figure out I am the same girl i was at 15, only less confused and strong enough to take on the world(only if need be). Once I started to simplify my life and my feelings, I began to enjoy myself more and finally love who I am... faults and all! It is amazing that once we relax and take the time look at ourselves instead of looking for someone to blame or change, loving is pretty simple and exciting... wayyy exciting! (but that is a different topic all together!)  | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/5/2007 4:53:21 PM | Personally I don't think a woman fully blooms until late 20's early thirties perhaps. The young ones look too gangly, hardbody or not give me a gal with maturity and self confidence that a 30+ year old has any day.
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/18/2007 5:33:33 AM | Besides the day my children were born, turning 30 was the happiest day of my life. I was still young, but old enough not to be treated like an idiot by people who assume that if you're young, you don't know anything.
One thing that has always cheesed me off--and I'm so showing my age here, which is significantly over 30-- is hearing a newlywed man complain that his bride doesn't cook, clean, etc. as well as mama does. Well, look how long mama's been doing that, in comparison to the new bride. Give the lady some time to generate experience! Should she complain that her new groom doesn't make the money daddy makes? Daddy's been in the work force for decades longer, and has moved up the ladder...not a fair comparison, is it?
This said, let's fast-forward to the 21st century here...my daughters are both in their early 20's. And it seems like anything I can do, one or the other or both of them can do better. It scares me to think what powerhouses they'll be when they get to be my age! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/18/2007 5:58:40 AM | It's not so much "over 30" but maturity and experience in a woman is good thing.
I think in a lot of cases age and experience bring self confidence and maturity with it. It's more fun to be with someone who's confident and knows how to deal with things than not. A lot of young women bring this to the table aswell, but as I get older myself, "the young hard body fantasy" isn't so prominent anymore. Sure it still exists, but young girls are just eye candy these days. I don't see myself with them. I look for maturity (and hot and exotic) in the women these days.... Even my profile, 25 and up.
Just my humble opinion.
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/20/2007 6:00:09 AM | | I believe 30 is a good starting point.Younger women may have better toned bodies but they just don't know them.As you get older you feel more at ease with your self and are able to admit your likes and dislikes.Once you do this your sex life takes off like a rocket! I got fixed at age 34 and now I perform better and more often then when I was a horny teenager.Some of the most sensous and sexy women I have ever met and had the pleasure of loving on are all older than 30.One is near 60 and makes me work very hard to keep her happy.to all you women over 30,go baby go.Your time is now! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/21/2007 2:32:46 PM | Hmm...for me it is not about 'performing', it's about connections. I agree that younger women have nice bodies, but forming that mystical 'connection' with them is close to impossible. They don't speak or act at a level you can communicate with. Now, this is not limited to just women...you have the same thing talking to boys in that age group. But I also agree that it isn't about age, not really. A 20-year-old can be more mature than a 40-year-old, sometimes.
One day I was walking down the road, going to work. I saw a woman walking by. I thought to myself "Damn, that's a nice ass!"
Then she turned around, and I thought "WAAAY too young."
Then I thought. "Since when did I start thinking of girls in their twenties as 'too young?'
(Yes, regardless of what men may tell you to your face, they will always notice a nice ass. Whether they actually ACT on it, is of course, dependent on their age, relationship and maturity level) | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/24/2007 1:33:35 AM | It's more like a stronger sense of self that occurs every time you get near or hit another zero marker in life, (30, 40, 50) there seems to be a little more surge of who you are becoming that comes thru that results from cumulative life experiences . At least its been like that for me.
Someone posted this somewhere and it gives me a smile each time read:
Vanity turns into CONFIDENCE
Sexy turns into SENSUAL
Pretty turns into BEAUTIFUL
Intelligence turns into WISDOM
Caring turns into SELFLESS GIVING Lust turns into UNCONDITIONAL LOVING
We know WHAT we want and we know HOW to get it........with class ! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 4/12/2007 3:31:29 PM |
Young hardbodies are nice, but I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. So if anyone agrees or disagrees heres your chance to say so. Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30
Sharon Stone - 49
Pamela Anderson - 39
Jennifer Aniston - 38
Heather Graham - 37
Uma Thurman - 36
All among the hottest of the hot by the usual standards, and all well over 30. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 4/17/2007 6:53:07 PM | | Haha Pirate, that is hilarious. Of course you are right.Women do not get better looking the older we get, that is reserved for the male gender. No we cannot compete with a perky young 22 yr old. However; we do get sexier. We get more confident and more experienced. We get wilder and just plain better. Men on the other hand, unless they are very good orally do not get better. Men just get older. Women always get better and the attractiveness is in our confidence, not the perky tatas. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 4/17/2007 8:02:30 PM | Well, obviously u have been looking at women all wrong then b/c I had a terrible upbringing but I turned out to be a very level headed, fun, outgoing, funny, self-confident person who works hard and plays just as hard. Regardless of what happens as u grow up the decision to be a better person and live a better life is totally up to u and how bad u want it so to generalize women or anyone for that matter is just wrong. And as a woman over 30 I must say that my determination to succeed and my desire to be a better person only increases...along with my sex drive...lol. | |
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Jemue
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/2/2007 6:11:08 PM | | I agree...30 is the new 20 I say and it only get's better after that. I love women who find that comfort zone and stop worrying about the social expectations of life like they did when they were younger. Realistic, sexy and they know it sort of women who don't have time for games, know who they are and know maybe what they want. The strange thing is that when I was 25 or so, 25 years old girls turned me right off as I enjoyed the younger ones. Now that I'm 32...the 30+ years old ladies drive me insane yet I find that they are looking up the age scale now to older men. Quite frankly...it's frustrating | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/3/2007 11:33:25 AM | I am glad to be in my 30's, it seems like you recieve more respect overall, because you are more mature..
I wouldn't ever want to be in my 20's again!! But I could deffinitly stay in my 30's forever, and love it!! | |
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