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 smiles0527

Joined: 6/20/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/10/2007 8:32:44 PM
Happy to see that many of the men seem to be aware that we really do get better with age! I will be 42 this month and feel that I have earned the right to know what I want, how I want it and am willing to work at getting it....the trick is keeping it!!! Happy hunting , and looking forward to more years of experience and growth!
 BlondeBomber69

Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 177
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/19/2007 4:19:49 PM
not a chance
the younger the better
all men know that
its a fact
30 for a female is over the hill...accept it
 funblonde2

Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 178
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/20/2007 2:41:39 AM
Yep, its a fact!
 cooaach

Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 179
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/22/2007 10:57:42 AM
well yes but also i think we figure out its not a wham bam thank you mam and we learn to take the time to meet her needs more than just ours. when that happens it becomes a revolving circle of constantly getting better
 sillyhead

Joined: 8/5/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/22/2007 8:53:53 PM
My life is way better now that I'm in my thirties! I may not be the "hottie" I was when I was twenty, but I have way more self-esteem and self confidence. I'm so happy to have those awkward twenties in my past!
 lush1964

Joined: 3/21/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/23/2007 2:56:44 AM
Actually I think you're right...women over 30 and particularly over 40 lol know what they want from life...more together I suppose I mean....Hence why younger men go for us and older men aspire to knowing us !!!!
 lush1964

Joined: 3/21/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/23/2007 2:59:26 AM
haha blonde bomber..........come over here and say that lol.......
 Mountain Lion 1

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 183
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 5/23/2007 6:14:00 PM
Around 30 women experience an awakening of sorts. In simple, they loose the girlish ideas of looking for the stable male provider, white knight, or macho man and look to experience life, becoming more active and adventurous in every respect and also knowing that they can have much what they want. At the same time the male tends to become the more stable loosing his boyishness, OK midlife crisis excluded LOL. Kind of a change to the opposites. Hence many break ups at that time; neither seems to understand the other anymore.
Most women would be considered to be in their sexual prime as the newly found self-awareness and confidence sets in and at the same time the biological clock ticks louder.
 silivros

Joined: 10/16/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2007 9:05:36 PM

Young hardbodies are nice, I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. ... Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30


Suck up.

But then again you have a point.

P.S. Man I wish I'da posted this thread
 thanatos2007

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 185
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 6/22/2007 5:50:08 PM
After having only dated women younger than I (i'm 35) I tend to wonder about women my age and older. I found the women I dated (and one I was married to) were all nice but lacked a maturity that I needed. So I'm hoping to find a woman in her 30's (possibly 40's) so I can experience a relationship that fits my maturity. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants and also knows how to get it
 hearttoheart07

Joined: 7/1/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:10:25 AM
Thank you! You are a sweetheart! Yes us women in our 30's know ourselves well, and we know what we want and like. And us 30 something women know what you men like and want. And it's a fine thing that as more mature, thoughful people we can usually meet in the middle.
 chip99

Joined: 9/15/2005
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 10/26/2007 2:43:13 PM
no --its just you
 ren32

Joined: 6/7/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 10/27/2007 2:45:23 AM
I find that women know what they want when they reach closer to their 30's. This is not to say that it does not happen during their early 20's but that is pretty rare. Most people are still young and stupid at that age.
 thatgirl_next_door

Joined: 10/22/2005
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 10/27/2007 9:05:39 PM
Woo hoo! Thanks for making me feel better about hitting 30 this year!
 icartb

Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 190
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 10/27/2007 9:46:35 PM
I think it also depends on life experiences. If she had to pay her way through college and live on her own in her twenties, she's probably a lot more mature than some trust fund girl in her thirties why may have never had to work.

However, women in their thirties and most definitely in their forties know what they want and what they don't want. They've made up their minds and there is no wishy-washyness to their life, so to speak. Personally, unless I man wants some trophy or Barbie Doll, I don't know why he'd want to deal with the 'spoil me' attitude of many girls in their twenties. Early twenties, of course. :-)
 NancyGooGoo

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 10/31/2007 9:13:35 PM
Honey, wait until you approach women in their 40s...saaaawweeeeeet! LOL
 simplelady66

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 192
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/1/2007 8:21:14 AM
I am biased, but I have to agree with this statement. I am far better mentally and emotionally at 41 than I was in my 20's.
Smarter, wiser, more sure of myself and what I want.
 dwood24_86

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 193
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/14/2007 8:55:38 AM
LOL......if you think 30 is good, wait til you meet 40 thats where life begins, and it's a great ride.....but thank you, and to all of you, you are appreciated as well.....D
 Johne102

Joined: 3/1/2006
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/14/2007 1:53:18 PM
You are far better mentally in your 30's then you are in your 20's but you look better in your 20's. I usually date women in their 20's.
 smilesxoxo

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 195
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/14/2007 11:46:47 PM
i personally feel that i got better after 30. i felt very insecure in my 20's, and feel that i am more confident in my 30's. confidence is a great thing. i could careless what people think of me, and i am more adventurous (in so many ways).
 wickedlovely

Joined: 9/16/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/15/2007 4:46:43 AM
Great thread, singledad101! I have experienced my own personal little renaissance in my early 30s. I have really matured in almost every area (okay, maybe not in mathmatics...ha,ha,ha...). Divorcing really magnified my personal growth emotionally and I'm so excited about the future...and going without sex for 6 months and counting will certainly make me quite the dynamo in the bedroom (was just fine in this department before but, I'm ready to make up for lost time!!). I've always worked hard to stay in shape and look good but, now that I am "back on the market" so to speak, I've put a little extra polish on my personal appearance...sweet!
Thanks for the cool thread! I'm sure there are plenty who don't agree with the women over 30 just start getting good idea but, thats cool with me...under 30's should have their sugar daddies if they want them! That is mutually beneficial (shallow and gross but, since it doesn't involve me...I say sweet, go for it!).

Best,
A~
 life_of_leisure

Joined: 1/4/2007
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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/15/2007 10:00:54 AM
Women of ALL ages love shallow cheap flattery and fall for it every time.
 SarahIsSillySometimes

Joined: 11/5/2006
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Posted: 11/15/2007 1:07:01 PM
Wooohooo some guys actually prefer women over 30?
And they're over 21??
lol
 geezerbloke08

Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 199
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 11/15/2007 1:20:31 PM
they mite have the odd thing going south,but i'd rather have an over 30 anyday,well that was when i was nearer to the age.
 jasonlain

Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 200
Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30
Posted: 3/1/2008 7:35:30 PM
more mature, sure. focussed? yes. better? no.

look - your handle says it all... your priorities have shifted. you're no longer looking for a hot piece of ass to tag, you're likely looking for the next woman to take up the roll of mom.

so in that respect, yes - women over 30 are your prime demographic (and likely single parents themselves) - they're better... FOR YOU.

the rest of us like to hang with females who are fun, come without serious baggage, look good, have a bona fide energy about them, and aren't gapped out like a thanksgiving turkey after popping out a few puppies (that you're going to have to look after in the end).

hey singledad101... better get some leykis 101
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