| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/10/2007 8:32:44 PM | | Happy to see that many of the men seem to be aware that we really do get better with age! I will be 42 this month and feel that I have earned the right to know what I want, how I want it and am willing to work at getting it....the trick is keeping it!!! Happy hunting , and looking forward to more years of experience and growth! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/22/2007 10:57:42 AM | | well yes but also i think we figure out its not a wham bam thank you mam and we learn to take the time to meet her needs more than just ours. when that happens it becomes a revolving circle of constantly getting better | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/22/2007 8:53:53 PM | | My life is way better now that I'm in my thirties! I may not be the "hottie" I was when I was twenty, but I have way more self-esteem and self confidence. I'm so happy to have those awkward twenties in my past! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/23/2007 2:56:44 AM | | Actually I think you're right...women over 30 and particularly over 40 lol know what they want from life...more together I suppose I mean....Hence why younger men go for us and older men aspire to knowing us !!!! | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/23/2007 6:14:00 PM | Around 30 women experience an awakening of sorts. In simple, they loose the girlish ideas of looking for the stable male provider, white knight, or macho man and look to experience life, becoming more active and adventurous in every respect and also knowing that they can have much what they want. At the same time the male tends to become the more stable loosing his boyishness, OK midlife crisis excluded LOL. Kind of a change to the opposites. Hence many break ups at that time; neither seems to understand the other anymore. Most women would be considered to be in their sexual prime as the newly found self-awareness and confidence sets in and at the same time the biological clock ticks louder. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 5/23/2007 9:05:36 PM |
Young hardbodies are nice, I think women really don't become women till after they turn 30. ... Oh and thanks to all you ladies over 30
Suck up.
But then again you have a point.
P.S. Man I wish I'da posted this thread | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 6/22/2007 5:50:08 PM | After having only dated women younger than I (i'm 35) I tend to wonder about women my age and older. I found the women I dated (and one I was married to) were all nice but lacked a maturity that I needed. So I'm hoping to find a woman in her 30's (possibly 40's) so I can experience a relationship that fits my maturity. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants and also knows how to get it  | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 7/26/2007 3:10:25 AM | | Thank you! You are a sweetheart! Yes us women in our 30's know ourselves well, and we know what we want and like. And us 30 something women know what you men like and want. And it's a fine thing that as more mature, thoughful people we can usually meet in the middle. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 10/27/2007 2:45:23 AM | | I find that women know what they want when they reach closer to their 30's. This is not to say that it does not happen during their early 20's but that is pretty rare. Most people are still young and stupid at that age. | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 10/27/2007 9:46:35 PM | I think it also depends on life experiences. If she had to pay her way through college and live on her own in her twenties, she's probably a lot more mature than some trust fund girl in her thirties why may have never had to work.
However, women in their thirties and most definitely in their forties know what they want and what they don't want. They've made up their minds and there is no wishy-washyness to their life, so to speak. Personally, unless I man wants some trophy or Barbie Doll, I don't know why he'd want to deal with the 'spoil me' attitude of many girls in their twenties. Early twenties, of course. :-) | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 11/14/2007 11:46:47 PM | | i personally feel that i got better after 30. i felt very insecure in my 20's, and feel that i am more confident in my 30's. confidence is a great thing. i could careless what people think of me, and i am more adventurous (in so many ways). | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 11/15/2007 4:46:43 AM | Great thread, singledad101! I have experienced my own personal little renaissance in my early 30s. I have really matured in almost every area (okay, maybe not in mathmatics...ha,ha,ha...). Divorcing really magnified my personal growth emotionally and I'm so excited about the future...and going without sex for 6 months and counting will certainly make me quite the dynamo in the bedroom (was just fine in this department before but, I'm ready to make up for lost time!!). I've always worked hard to stay in shape and look good but, now that I am "back on the market" so to speak, I've put a little extra polish on my personal appearance...sweet! Thanks for the cool thread! I'm sure there are plenty who don't agree with the women over 30 just start getting good idea but, thats cool with me...under 30's should have their sugar daddies if they want them! That is mutually beneficial (shallow and gross but, since it doesn't involve me...I say sweet, go for it!).
Best, A~ | |
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| Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 3/1/2008 7:35:30 PM | more mature, sure. focussed? yes. better? no.
look - your handle says it all... your priorities have shifted. you're no longer looking for a hot piece of ass to tag, you're likely looking for the next woman to take up the roll of mom.
so in that respect, yes - women over 30 are your prime demographic (and likely single parents themselves) - they're better... FOR YOU.
the rest of us like to hang with females who are fun, come without serious baggage, look good, have a bona fide energy about them, and aren't gapped out like a thanksgiving turkey after popping out a few puppies (that you're going to have to look after in the end).
hey singledad101... better get some leykis 101 | |
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