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| Don't know what to think!!!!
Posted: 11/22/2005 7:27:09 AM | | Oh the webs we weave and then get all tangled up in them. Ok, so you don't have that little piece of paper saying you are officially divorced. So what? Does that mean your marriage isn't over? I have a niece living out in California who had not been living with her husband for a couple of years. He was dating, she was dating, but neither had filed because Ca. is an alimony state. Anyway, where I'm trying to go with this is if he knew that marriage was over...knew the circumstances....and then tried to throw it back in your face....SHAME ON HIM!! If you were honest and upfront, that's all you can be. Also, on a Christian note....we're not perfect. We ALL fall short of the Glory of God. It's an every day struggle....just like keeping your weight off. Sounds like this guy was either deceitful or got just plain scared. Being scared of how you feel about someone can make you run in the total opposite direction. I am really sorry that you got sucked into the web! | |
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| Don't know what to think!!!!
Posted: 11/22/2005 8:15:10 AM | | I read your post, and found that in some of the relationships Ive encountered the men start out by building up your self esteem by saying such nice things, treating you well etc. Than all of a sudden it changes to being demanding of you, lack of respect on his part for you, his part not being happy with anything that you do etc - Im sure you get the picture. Anyhow, I dont really think what he did had anything to do with you - I think he just isnt at a place in life to be able to fully do the freind to relationship thing and count your blessings - you found out this out about him prior to getting into deeper with him. So, it holds the opportunity to meet someone who is more on your level. | |
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