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 nycegy83

Joined: 10/19/2009
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Posted: 10/27/2009 12:59:59 PM
Most primates (including humans) are not monogamous by nature.
 Wishes Granted

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 1:09:24 PM

Whoops , guess i gotta wait until i'm drafted
lol.. Ahh, the dodgers were most sexy.. something about knowing they won't be dictated to I guess

You mean to tell me an American President LIED !?
Most people who are in a position of power (no matter at what power level they administer) lie.. Power corrupts dontcha know?

Next thing you know, you're gonna tell me he's having "jollies" with a 21 year old kid, and i have to pay for it !!
none of you would have had to pay for anything if you hadn't equated a man's consentual sex life with how well he could administer his duties or, if the opposition didn't feel it was an ideal time for them to weld their power .. the way I look at it anyway.


Depends on what is, is I suppose
"Is" stupid is what "it" is.

*convices self this is on topic due to Clinton Affair reference*
 Rickeyes58

Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 10/27/2009 1:24:33 PM

Ahh, the dodgers were most sexy.. something about knowing they won't be dictated to I guess

Unfortunetly, (after the mess they created, they came back , and are currently "dictating"
Right down to what a CEO can earn, or what manner of medicine i can practice .


none of you would have had to pay for anything if you hadn't equated a man's consentual sex life with how well he could administer his duties

I've always had trouble with that "Military exercise " the very day M. L. Testified.
The first attempt on the 9-11 reference, was in 1993,

Why do men have affairs?

And when they do , ................ Why do i end up paying for them ??
 propurpose

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 1:38:23 PM
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men have affairs to satisfy the (desire) to love nature.

women ... same purpose.

behaviours and manners which serve the desire to love nature and are exposed and hid by the many relationship explanations and some of which follow the op.

rave on
 Strings6

Joined: 7/14/2007
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Posted: 10/27/2009 2:22:36 PM
Cheating is a question of character...those who do it have none.
 propurpose

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 2:37:31 PM
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"cheating" is an evaluative term showing that someone feels/thinks that betrayal has ensued...of an agreement by which conditions of relationship are known.

many many relationships are begun and endure the certain discovery of personal human relationship conditions which had not been discovered or considered prior agreements. that is....if there were conditions to agreement whatsover...which bolster and inspire the traditions of exchange and permanences which had been transmitted...

for social if not personal rendering.

love is unconditional ... what humans put conditions to diminish its full capacities in the mind of the bearer of relationship.
 propurpose

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 2:46:09 PM
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the "cheat" person may not be open or honest about what are the conditions which satisfy their desires and purposes....usually unexplainable... but the cheat has character enough to know it would be greater cheat to live a lie after an conditional agreement which has nil of substance or spirit to support it.

contracts to partnership require much consideration and are not clearly defined for benefit of persons of humanity if they are unsubstantiated of ideas or feelings and material considerations by relationship.

the purpose of relationship is to relate. not to own or exploit.
 tempfile

Joined: 10/1/2009
Msg: 707
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:30:53 PM
They have affairs because

They are thirsty for different seasons - Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter
They want to taste different fragrances
They want to feel attractive in different ways
It is a way to fullfill their fantasy
It is exciting not to get caught
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:36:25 PM
^^^^^^Wow you almost make it sound justifiable..................
 Rickeyes58

Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:40:15 PM

Wow you almost make it sound justifiable..................

Actually ............ experienced was the first word that came to mind ...........
 Inpune

Joined: 9/12/2009
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:43:32 PM
Op and why do women have many affairs ! Yes life deals us a double edged Sword sometimes it cuts both ways. and boy does it hurt badly when it does.
 on a wire

Joined: 6/21/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2009 8:00:38 PM
Bcause we are all dogs.... in one form or another....
 Czech Roma

Joined: 10/7/2009
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Posted: 10/28/2009 4:41:59 AM
Its easy, two people take each for granted and often do not realize what they have until the damage is down. Often one mate is not interested in sex or they do not treat the other with respect. Lack of communnication is another, maybe the man or woman is not mature or ready to be in a commited relationship.
 NuDig

Joined: 6/10/2009
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Posted: 10/28/2009 8:49:29 AM
love is unconditional

What a load of crap. Love is conditional, there are automatic boundaries you do not cross when you're with someone you are supposedly in love with. Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. I agree with message 17, these turds are sociopathic, narcissistic monsters. They haven't got the guts to end the relationship before embarking on a new one. The damage people do is incalculable. If you're not happy with your partner, end the relationship, there is no need to inflict so much hurt on to a person.
 propurpose

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Posted: 10/28/2009 9:06:58 AM
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love is unconditional. and when you nudig realize that you can stop blaming the other which hurt you by betrayals of conditions you presumed knowledge much about...then your acceptance of your own love ability shall begin to heal you and the next you seek to share any conditional love by.

for further explanation....simply contradict by some fear condition in your non-trusts.
 kalkan

Joined: 2/10/2009
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Posted: 10/28/2009 2:27:29 PM
so true, my husbands went on for 4 yrs top secret......
 RHARHA2711

Joined: 8/13/2005
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Posted: 10/28/2009 2:51:57 PM
people cheat because there not ready to fully commit to one person. they claim they love you n your the only one for them but as long as there a new****or **** out there n they can get it they will.
 pikej77

Joined: 2/28/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:31:52 PM
There are many reasons.

Women are emotional beings and men are visual creatures.

No matter how great two people get along there are things we like to do that our better halves do not. No matter if it's having fun, sports, sexual.

If a woman has every trait a man can ask for except a few and he finds those few missing traits in another women he may have an affair. It depends on how much he desires these traits.

Example: If a man loves certain sexual positions and his partner isn't as sexual as he is he will eventually get bored just as a women would.

It's all about trying new things with your partner and to do this there must be 100% trust between the two. If you have that there is nothing you won't try.

Never be to bold, stubborn or selfish to try new things.
 JackeeF

Joined: 7/1/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 5:11:47 AM
same reasons women do.
 BBW_4_U

Joined: 4/18/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 6:01:48 AM
Because men always wanna eat the juicy green grass on da otha side of the fence they cant help themselves they always thinkin of gettin it wet an no matter how hot their wife or gf is they will always want something else its like they are never satisfied
Even if they dont cheat man they wish they had da balls to do it lol
 discreetphillyguy

Joined: 10/24/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:46:19 AM
men cheat because after a few years of giving all they can they realize the brick wall they are with, for reasons they will not explain, simply will not give. They don't want to break up the family, so they stay loyal and true, but, really, after a few years, even masturbation loses it's fun.
 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:54:09 AM
Only the man cheating knows that....
 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:55:30 AM
For what reason would you cheat on someone...?
 kittencat2903

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Posted: 11/1/2009 11:08:09 AM

they're not getting "attention" at home


doesn't fit the description of my situation....I felt lonely and certainly wasn't getting attention at home, but he cheated....he's now married to the secretary he still SWEARS he wasn't fooling around with.
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