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 passionfly
Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 26
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depends on what part of your body she tries to kiss first lol
 buzzingbee
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 27
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 1:26:09 AM
If a kiss is classy then some inspirational 'grains' must have been in it and that is welcome;
if trashy? Cannot comment, did not occur.

bzzzzzzz
 ladyaries *
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 28
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 5:18:39 AM
Well I don't know you tell me. I not only kissed my ex but had sex w him on the first date and we stayed married for 20 yrs, and I kissed and had sex with my last b/f on the first date and we stayed together almost 4 yrs...so I think if you feel a REAL connection, then it is ok. I did not know either for more than 3 days.
 SHE-DEVIL-36
Joined: 7/28/2004
Msg: 29
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:11:28 AM
Kisses can be a sweet way of showing affection......or a naughty temptation that you want more.....or just outright HOT!! ...how can a kiss given freely be slutty?.....I dont always kiss a man on the first date......it will depend on what I feel for that man.....if I feel close to him....like him.....AND find him sexy....well....yessss...I am gonna give him one to make him go Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....hehe

kisses...She-DEvil
 imsensual
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 30
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:27:59 AM
and things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm will bring you back
 buzzingbee
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 31
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:54:01 AM
...very very true

bzzzzzzzz
 amust2c
Joined: 9/28/2005
Msg: 32
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is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:58:24 AM
Depends on the date, if the feeling is there, both will know, go for it.
 peachy38
Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 33
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 5:58:08 PM
Im one up on you ladyaries.I not only kissed and slept with a guy on the first but he also moved in the same night.We were married for 12 years.
I wouldnt go to that extreme anymore,hell no,but a kiss is fine if you like him enough.
 scarletsparrow
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 34
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:26:03 PM
im not turning down a kiss after any date first or fifty a part of the whole evening i think
but whatever a person is comfortable with i guess
 callendargirl
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 35
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:23:06 PM
he is back, damn is this guy on every thread!


back to the post.......... a kiss is just a kiss,,,,,,,,,, you can learn alot from them!
 callendargirl
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 36
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 8:11:00 PM
ManOMan,, i knew that you really wanted me! thanks!
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 37
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:49:56 PM
if there is chemistry/sparks on the first date ..... why not ?????? A kiss can tell me alot about a guy hehehe...... has to be a great kisser.. or there won't be any more dates !
 Shake Me
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 38
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:43:55 AM
I love getting a trashy kiss on the first date
 Gr8kisser
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 39
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:00:39 AM
Exactly Countrypeach!

If there's chemistry on the first date then go for it and see what happens... it's all down to reading the situation and making the right choice. She may be wondering if you're really interested in her as you HAVEN'T kissed her yet!! LoL

That first kiss tells you a LOT about someone and if there's no spark there's a hint.

Is it classy.. trashy... hmmm if you're getting on really well with the person that shouldn't matter...
 the man mr right
Joined: 11/7/2004
Msg: 40
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is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:22:31 AM
some cultures view a kiss as a friendly hello or goodbye. (aka kiss = hello = goodbye) that is what i believe it is orginally meant to be. in those contries even hetero guys air kiss each other. it's not a big deal. of course when you wanna fk someone it can get carried away when there is tongue and hard palate invovled. IMO a friendly "hello or goodbye" kiss is always acceptable after a 1st date. while i do not think a frenchy style is trashy, i do think it is a bit over the top and ya'll ladies out there better be sure it's welcome before trying one of those.
 pastagirl
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 41
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:23:54 AM
a kiss is very important to me. if i feel connection and i think he feels its too then yes i do want a kiss on the first date. if he kisses terrible then no second date................lol
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 42
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 11:29:55 AM
sort of depends on the feel of the kiss and the moment....no?
 Dog Mommy
Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 43
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 4:33:49 PM
If you both are into a kiss, then why not?
 ksue44
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 44
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 4:54:49 PM
A kiss on the cheek is okay, but if you want to "suck" my face, not on the first date, that's way too fast for my taste!
 salamander000
Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 45
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is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 5:06:12 PM
Oh god, I would hope I didn't 'kiss wrong' on a (second) date with this woman!~!
 Ericmoss37
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 46
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 5:53:38 PM
Personally, if I don't kiss a girl on the first date, that means I am not intrested in her and I won't be going out with her again. I like it to be hot and heavy only to have the girl pull away and tell me she has to leave before things get to heavy.
 searchnfind
Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 47
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 6:51:24 PM
Determining whether it is classy or trashy depends on how you personally feel the date is going. If the sparks are mutual....it's classy. If the sparks are one sided.....it's trashy.

However, a kiss can tell a lot about a person. Someone who gets my entire face wet during a kiss will probably not get a second date!
 SpanishBurgundy
Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 48
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:18:20 PM

... just because you can't assume that someone is that comfortable with you after an hour. I think that people should wait til the comfort level rises a little between the two people before doing that.


I'm with lilacprincess on this one. I would prefer to wait until I was a little more comfortable with the guy. That doesn't mean I think kissing on the first date is slutty or trashy...its just my comfort zone, you know?

Plus, its so sweet (and flattering!) when the guy is a little bit shy and it takes him a couple dates to build up the nerve to kiss me!

~Spanish~Burgundy~
 Dr.Nick
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 49
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:41:12 PM
are you kidding me this is not the twenties where people got pregnant just from holding hands. I think thats what most people are shooting for, and if you're not you probably shouldn't see that person again.
 Blastkist
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 50
is a kiss on the first date classy or trashy
Posted: 10/6/2005 9:15:51 PM
If I've already given you f*ck me eyes, yeah you can kiss me, if I haven't...ummmm NO!

Oops, did I say that? I meant...ah well, whatever...
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