nightd
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Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 26 | |
| My fiance....
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:15:19 AM | | i'm taking responseibility i mean if i didn't i would definitly not be talking about this subject you know? andi know it takes two.. it was our decison and i'm not backing out on her now...just want some peace of mind you know? | |
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| My fiance....
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:15:47 AM | | Hey xander. I like the american ed shot. So true. I wonder if he has played a little russian roulette. You only may only have to pull the trigger once. | |
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| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:18:24 AM | | Well, I work in the medical field and let me just say....the odds are very good she will get pregnant. Being her first time does not have any thing to do with it. Missing her period also, not really much of a factor. Your boys are swimming.....but if you love her and plan to marry her, do you think this will pose a problem? | |
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xander
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Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 29 | |
| My fiance....
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:18:27 AM | You've gotten a definite answer - yes, you can get a woman pregnant on her first time.
Don't forget the possibility that she's scamming you.
She might not have been a virgin and might already have been pregnant. You might just be a ticket to a Green Card. | |
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nightd
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Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 30 | |
| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:20:02 AM | | definitly not a problem...early yeah but i do love her...and i will do whatever it takes to provide...i'm just really worried about alot of things right now and preganancy is one of em. well not really worried jsut very very curious lol... | |
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nightd
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Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 31 | |
| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:24:15 AM | | not possible we spent the whole summer together. and she had her period regularly. she was really stressed out when it came time for her to leave which she chose to i begged her to stay...but we made a plan to get her back over her so she wanted to go and see her family and then come back. but she was only with me so i know if she is then its mine. | |
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| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 10:38:34 AM | I just learned this, and I have always thought of myself as an open minded and well informed indiv......but...
Sperm can 'live' in the uterus for up to 78 hours after they arrive, so even if she didnt ovulate 'till 'tomorrow' then she could get prego...... | |
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nightd
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Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 33 | |
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| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 11:02:51 AM | Planned parenthood has some good info on this, they suggest sperm can remain active for up to 7 days(depending on the health of the male, and the energy source, "fructose" in the semen)...
http://www.planned.org/site/PageServer?pagename=HS_FAQ | |
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nightd
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Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 35 | |
| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 11:08:57 AM | | i never knew...that....so basically she has 7 days to get her period and if not then she has a high possiblility of being pregnant right? you see i'm glad i brought this topic up or i would have never had know that | |
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| My fiance....
Posted: 9/16/2005 11:16:15 AM | Looks like the American educational system still sets the bar on Sex Education.
Hey now!
Some people just did not pay attention or did not get the education.
You can not blame that on other peoples ignorance.
OT: Take a test. EPT...(emergency pregnacy test) | |
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 37 | |
| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 12:26:39 PM | SexED - all it takes is one drop! You could be in & out of her faster than you can say cat in a hat. If a sperm goes to one of her eggs and it becomes fertilized, guess what?First and foremost is for her to have a home pregnancy test.
Her period could be off due to emotional stress, chemical imbalances, or hormonal changes. Doesn't guarantee a pregnancy, only a home test will determine that. I've been through that twice in my life, it is rather scary to say the least.
Words to the wise: No Glove, No Love. | |
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| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 9/16/2005 12:47:03 PM | | If you put coffee in your milk does it not spread.....liquid is liquid ya know, so no "Oh just for one second ill take it out right away." Ya know our ovaries and uterus are in a conspiracy wiht your sperm they just think we dont know about it...... | |
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| sex-ed questions - preg first time?
Posted: 10/8/2005 11:02:03 PM | EPT stands for Early Pregnanct Test. Not Emergency. Maybe you should get a basic biology or reproduction book. If you guys don't want to get pregnant have an emergency "morning after" contraceptive pill incase other means of contraception fail (or you fail to use one when inhibitions slide). If she's pregnant now and you aren't ready for a child, maybe she would consider an abortion. She likely has 2 choices at this point depending on how long she's been pregnant. One would be vacuum aspiration, the other would be a medication abortion. See here . Of course deciding whether or not to have the baby it yours and her decision alone, but you should be aware of all your options.
[Link added 'cause the long URL was screwing up the page. /forum_moderator] | |
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| My fiance....
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:11:18 AM | ok the whole figuring out your period thing is a myth...you are supposed to be most fertile two weeks from the first day of your last menstrual cycle..but i am living proof that i got pregnant one day out of a month that we had sex and it wasn't my most fertile..my son in the pic with me...
and yes you can get pregnant the first time...so all these people saying chances are slim...wrong...
love her and be a great dad...good luck | |
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