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 NervousMrMister
Joined: 8/24/2004
Msg: 26
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*sigh* yep. If i wanted just sex, I could get it anytime. It aint about the sex. Women think thats what men think, but it aint. Know what I mean, meanjean?
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/15/2005 11:48:29 PM
w3rd.
 Just Me:
Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:17:28 AM
I've had a number of friends who have been through this enough times now...to know better now...and just rather not go there.
 Celyne
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:28:03 AM
I have one for "hard times" lol but it's not very often at all!
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:40:49 AM
ok guys ...What exactly sex mean between two ppl?
 The Greek Guy
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:44:38 AM
What Does Sex Mean between 2 ppl ?

It could mean pleasure , relaxation, stress-relief, sexual frustration release, passion, sensuality.. this is what it means between 2 ppl who are friends and care about each or even lovers... its depends if both parties have passion / sensuality...
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:44:56 AM
Personally, sex is the most personal thing IMO that two people can share....and i would rather not complicate a good thing with sex. But i am just weird.
 The Greek Guy
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:46:54 AM
I forgot a very very important thing in the beginning of my topic...

i said 2 things are important...

Honest / Trust
Comfort

but there is a 3rd...

RESPECT !!!!
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:51:07 AM

RESPECT !!!!



Well ya that too...hence i persoanlly believe there has to be more than just the physical part...otherwise i think it's just being selfish...Ideally (ugly word) your partner would be someone u trust / respect are comfortable with and love i hope....
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:53:14 AM
sweetguy and jfalkin i like both of yours answers....... good job!!!!!


Then what bout got drunk at party....what is one night stand mean?
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:54:32 AM
do u really want to know?
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:55:17 AM
I m a big girl...i can handle
 The Greek Guy
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 9/16/2005 12:58:24 AM
The only thing i have not done...

i dont wanna do a one-nighter.. i think its just disrepectful MORE to the girl..

like i said .. i love sex and it should mean something, anything, but a one nighter means absolutely nothing !!!

and if you do a one-nighter that person could leave a something behind for you to remember them by ( not a baby !!! ) ... if you know what i mean !!! YOU DONT KNOW THE PERSON ... definitely a NO !!!
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:00:32 AM

The only thing i have not done...

i dont wanna do a one-nighter.. i think its just disrepectful MORE to the girl..

like i said .. i love sex and it should mean something, anything, but a one nighter means absolutely nothing !!!

and if you do a one-nighter that person could leave a something behind for you to remember them by ( not a baby !!! ) ... if you know what i mean !!! YOU DONT KNOW THE PERSON ... definitely a NO !!!


what he said...but i was just gonna say the S word.

Disrespectful to both parties....
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:02:19 AM
Greek sweety...I like it..that was awsome.......wow you made my night...bcz i found somebody who thinks like me.....yahoooooo


ya i like you tooo jfalkin....that makes it two...you guys ROCK...
 The Greek Guy
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:07:16 AM
Believe ive done everything...

ive had my 3somes, 4somes ( only guy involved was me those times ), sex in different places .. etc..

BUT NEVER will i do a one nighter.. !!!

one-nighter = someone you have sex with thast you met for the first time that night.... !!! NO GOOD


but if you been talking t othem online for a week or so... and have sex thats first tiem you meet.. THAT i do NOT consider one-nighter...

Becuz with me, im going to wanna have sex again the NEXT DAY/NIGHT :)
 crazycurlz
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:07:55 AM
well if someone wants the casual sex thing...a FWB is definitely the better situation to be in. one nighters, playing with strangers...risky stuff...easy to get burned. I haven't always been "innocent" and I've learned a lot of lessons about myself and other people in the process...casual sex (of either sort) just isn't what I emotionally need in my life right now. no judgements of people who enjoy the casual thing, its just not my scene.
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:08:36 AM
/\ he's in a whole other league than me.

and by he i mean Greek not crazy...
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:08:50 AM
HAHAHAH........VERY FUNNY.....Greek sweety

One Night I stay AWAY.............



not mine either..curlz...and how are you doing
 crazycurlz
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:10:43 AM

and by he i mean Greek not crazy...


I sure hope so, cuz the last time I checked...
 vancitylady78
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:10:59 AM
I had a FWB for over a year, and yes us darn girls go and get feelings in the way.. so anywho had to walk away from that one, cause the feeling were not mutual.
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:11:20 AM

casual sex (of either sort) just isn't what I emotionally need in my life right now. no judgements of people who enjoy the casual thing, its just not my scene.


well that's exactly what we are sayin i think...and if there is no emotion IMO not worth it.Agreed with the judgements thing...but i think they are just cheating themselves.
 Scorpio 07
Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:12:20 AM
VERY true........
 crazycurlz
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:13:02 AM
there's a time and place for everything...at one point I was okay with flings. it was a very short-lived experiment a few years ago, but overall not entirely a bad one. just not where I am now.
 jfalkins
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 9/16/2005 1:13:20 AM

I sure hope so, cuz the last time I checked...


i hope so too otherwise i would have to wonder how u come up in my local matches....

or shall we just call you Andy....
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