| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/17/2005 1:18:54 AM | | I wish I can answer your question. I can't tell if he's trying to insult you or if he's on crack. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/17/2005 9:00:06 AM | I feel sorry for that guy! He does'nt know how to treat woman period! Reguardless of what a person looks like! I read that letter aleast 5 times! When you put down honesty in your profile, that has nothing to do with what you look like! Honesty to me means an emotion or a quality that you are looking for in a companion. Thats just plain ol rude! Its a sad situation when a guy does that! I myself, look inside of a womans heart. And I don't think that you are asking much of men at all! You neednt worry about that guy! There are men like myself that would enjoy just getting to know you. Aleast you know what you want from a man! There are women that dont know at all what they want from a man. If you really like someone, treat them the way you would want to be treated! That guy obiously dosent know how to treat a lady! Reguardless of what his profile says! I have had women treat me the same way! All I did was delete them or control their emailing to me. I wish you the best of luck in your search for a companion.
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/17/2005 9:55:37 AM | "Okay, his spelling sucks - just another victim of public school education. But it looks like he got at least a "C" in his creative writing class. You might want to latch on to him while you can, because he's got a terrific future awaiting him in the political arena."
Hey wattafind--this remark just slayed me...too much...where can I find more of you? | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 5:32:52 AM | Goodness gal, delete him, he has issues, and projecting them on you, Your a gorgeous woman and there are inner strengths that tell you, dont listen to this nor open his mail... you know it is him, he needs to get a life... you are so special inside and out, and no man has the right or woman to judge you in a disrespectful manner.
Gal, I read some of the responses, positive, and you are that and more, believe that. Do not give him another thought, as there ARE men out there who will be continuously knocking at your door and treat you HOW you should be respected, and You my gal, have nothing to worry about.... Raechz Keep on fishing... he is out there FOR you so smile | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 5:54:22 AM | The guy needs manners! You DO have a beautiful face, & I'm sure the rest of you is beautiful too. Don't let this guy put you off about the rest of us | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 7:04:29 AM | OHMYGOD is right!!!
Let me see if I can give a male opinion to this without suffering from Foot-To-Mouth disease too much :)
Yes, most men are pigs, but there are some of us out there who do have more than two brain-cells to rub together...
I looked at your profile and pictures Robyn... Number one, You aint fat! To me, you are "normal sized"...
Do you know, at an autopsy, the Medical Examiner when examining one of these Barbie-Doll-Women, would write down that she is "emaciated"? Sure, I can look at the "deformed creatures" on TV like Jill Hennessy and Angelina Jolie and say they're beautiful, but, give me a woman with a normal body anyday!
Now, just cuz I happen to prefer normal size women, doesn't mean I go around advertising it like this guy did! I wait untill the woman brings it up - when she says something like "I have to tell you, I'm no Barbie Doll", that's when I say, "That's great! I prefer BBWs"...
To me, ti doesn't matter what a woman looks like. Her size, shape, color. Tall, short, skinny, a couple extra pounds, or a LOT of extra pounds. EVERY woman has something about her that makes her beautiful. Looking at your pictures Robyn, you are GOEGEOUS!!!
In closing, needless to say, this guy is a complete idiot!!! Please don't think he represents the rest of the male-species :)
Well folks, that's my 2.6 cents worth (GST added). Alleycat5050 Kingston, Ontario | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 7:16:54 AM | [Are people telling her that she isn't fat to bolster her self esteem concerning the issue or simply be nice, because they truly believe that, because they want to believe that looks don't matter, or what exactly? /]
I dont know about anyone else, but when I looked at the OP's profile, no where did I see a fat person, and I am not just being nice. In my mind, there is a difference between large, plump and fat.. Large boned women usually have an hourglass figure, think Mae West, Marilyn Monroe, and perhaps fits the OP body style. One can be large and toned, with no flab. Usually the larger body types also have the chest to match (Lucky them) I dont know if I every seen a thin woman with a really large chest, unless its artifical.
Fat or plump to me means no muscle, rolls of fat , not toned, and a double chin, or two, none of which the OP seems to have according to her pictures. I do think though, she should have ignored the guy, and not stroke his ego. He sounds like a jerk. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 8:10:31 AM | Well you can be honest and still have some tact. I hope you blocked his sorry ass. Men like that are only looking for one thing, and that's to feel powerful over you. By trying to cut you down, he's taking his anger out on you.
Don't give it another thought. Just hit the block button and know that he's going to spend his life alone being miserable.
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 1:55:10 PM | Very entertaining. There is little I can add that others haven’t already said. But I’ll highlight this from the gentleman from Michigan:
… his spelling sucks - just another victim of public school education
More than his spelling sucks, of course, and in terms of his syntax, I’d guess English is not his first language. Leave it to us Americans to assume that it is, and that he was educated in our schools. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 2:07:32 PM | It was clear from the letter that he was trying to hurt her in a psychological way, and if the OP does not open her eye's and appreciate this fact it CAN hurt her. BUT, his problem is that he THINKS he's intelligent, or more so than the OP. This is as far as he can take it in life - he knows it, we all know it. It took him all of this effort of writing to simply state, "you're fat, & I hate you!!" Thats all he wanted to say....chalk it up to another encounter with a head-case - TRUST ME, you'll meet another. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 3:33:59 PM | | Sheesh, that's ridiculous. But I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt since I've run into several online guys that just "don't get it", when it comes to tact and manners. I know that most of us have blurted out things before really thinking it through. I certainly have. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 3:42:12 PM | Honey the guy is an IDIOT. No doubt he can't get laid and if he did they'd find a .... as small as his IQ. He knows for real you'd never give him the time of day and he's being an insulting a..hole. Let it go.  | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/18/2005 4:31:14 PM | | I would say everything is wrong, he is rude and screwey. Email him back and tell him that you can tell by his dialogue that he has a very small penis and probably doesn't know how to use it. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 12:47:20 AM | YAY IM NOT BOOTED FROMT HE FORUM ANYMORE!!!! LMAO anyway... you guys are ALL very very right. while ive been banned, ive been reading everyone's posts. i couldnt agree more that it was a case of... "she must be desperate, so ill talk to her however i want and get away with it." HE DONT KNOW ME!!!!  | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 6:06:57 AM | Wow, that says it all... and to top off his illuminated personality... he likely works as a janitor since he spells at about Grade 5 level... fat girls like us should be so lucky... NOT  | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 8:45:35 AM | | well, one good thing to come of this. i feel pretty good about myself now, and my status as a man!!! i know ive said some stupid things in the past, and will again, but i dont think ill ever top that one. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 9:01:58 AM | at least some men who have responded to you know where to draw the line when giving a compliment to a pretty woman...robyn there is a difference between honesty and stupidity and that guy is definitely showing his lack of grey matter especially when saying he could sleep with you then not be afraid to walk down the street afterwards; holy crap does this guy think he's gods' gift to women and any woman regardless of how she looks or her size should be kissing the ground he walks on....maybe your final message to him should be with words froms Aaron Tippin "Why don't kiss, hey kiss this and I don't mean on my rosy red lips"
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 9:22:16 AM | That guy's a ****ing ***hole. He obviously has some mental problems and needs some therepy. If size is a problem, why did he mention it? Maybe he was an orphan and thus never learned any manners. | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 2:55:35 PM | Do women get these kind of emails alot?
I wish these idiots would stop giving the impression that all guys think this way. Even if you women don't vocalize your disdain for the male species, it's gotta be on your mind after reading stuff like this.
Robyn, there's plenty of guys that won't be such d!cks, you know that. Stop getting your butt suspended, and have fun with your man! | |
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| omg read this message i got Posted: 9/19/2005 4:55:52 PM | Actually, I think we need more guys like him. That way more of the ladies will change their 'accept messages from' settings so they can read his privates and then...........we can sneak in and write em dirty haikus n stuff. Chance favors the prepared mind you know | |
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