| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 1/31/2009 7:57:45 AM |
Maybe they like playing with jelly or rolling marbles down the stretch mark tracks i am not sure .
How disappointing to see someone my age having to resort to such vile and sexist language against people HIS own age....where did this unprovoked attack come from exactly? I can't even imagine coming on here for the sole purpose of disparaging older men's body parts...how disgraceful.
Gawd...
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Because some of us are interested in them, in the same way that we're interested in men who are the same age or older.
Because some of us were in a twenty year relationship with a younger man and age was never a factor in the relationship nor the cause of the breakup.
Because I would rather be with a younger man who respects and ACTUALLY likes women than be with some older man who obviously failed to take a look in the mirror at his own aging self before opening his mouth.
By the way...no stretch marks here, not one (just luck and good genes I guess)....and no rolls either. Jelly? Oh sure...I have jelly; I also have hair and just one chin, so it's all good really:).
JMO
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 1/31/2009 5:21:08 PM | most become interested in one or another or a few or some or a lot, sometime or other sooner or later, so the odds of them giving up on trying is nil since the odds of scoring are in their favor, most just for a fling, a few for a little more, some more and a very few for a lot more, but when suddenly they desire to leave their legacy in the world and you aren't up for it, well... | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 1/31/2009 7:55:54 PM | ^"Maybe they like playing with jelly or rolling marbles down the stretch mark tracks i am not sure"
With comments like that sir .....I think youll have to find your marbles first since it appears youve lost them  | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 1/31/2009 9:29:26 PM | To each his/her own and I'm not here to judge. I disagree that young men are better lovers. I am with Sierra the first gal. I'm not into teaching or being with someone I could have mothered. I feel that men in their forties and fifties are much better lovers. They have more experience and know exactly what a women needs, how and when she needs it. I would rather be an old mans princess than a younger mans old maid.  | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 12:21:48 AM | | I think that the younger men often think that we are more established in a career, have more money than the younger women and they think that we are so gullible as to assume that we are the ONLY women that they are paying attention to. We will pay for a lot of things and they will have another younger woman elsewhere, while we supply the money. We also have already had our family and do not intend to become pregnant and have already taken steps to prevent it from ever happening again. Often they feel that we are trying to hang on to our youth and are flattered to have a younger man to date. Not this gal. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 1:26:32 AM | I do not mind younger MEN, but the boys(18-25) PLEASE I would reall prefer to date someone older than my children.
I have dated younger guys and had some very poor results, most of it was due to the person they were more than age. However at 50 I now get to add a whole new set of questions to my pre-meet list. I don't mind going out with a gentleman in his 30's, but I want a long term relationship and in 5 or 10 yrs I do NOT want to do this all over again. If a younger man has no children I am uncomfortable believing he wants a life long comitment with someone that (Thank You Mother Nature) can NOT give them children of there own. Unfortunatly many young men are now doing what young woman have done for a long time-trade youth for security at least untill they are established and can attract someone to share children with.
I know it may sound strange, but I have never had a problem finding a partner for sex and do not care to support you in exchange for sex. I want someone to share the rest of my life, and not just a few short years just to be back here looking again. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 7:49:02 AM | Post 432 hinted at some of what I am to write.
A lot of mature women have their own home. This is very appealing to the younger guy. The younger guy also believes that the older woman will be GRATEFUL for the easy and available sex. Or maybe he wants a mommy.
It is equally ugly for the younger woman with the older guy. Except she is not into the sex and uses it for material gain.
Of course there are exceptions. But if you are going to date someone younger, do it with eyes wide open. You are a source of financial security, temporary or permanent.
And older women who get the emails from the young guys have to understand that the same guy probably wisked of forty more similar emails that same day to other older women. Just takes ONE nibble to get set up.
You are also a more ready, dependable source of sex than tempermental younger women, and less fickle.
For a young guy who is not serious, it is win win win win win.
I usually am not so blunt and I apologize for that, but I think people should stick to their own age range, if they truly want a chance at happiness.
But if it is just for sex, and that is what you want, hey, go for it.
Wow, I sound bitter and lonely in this post don't I? (Sigh) | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 8:00:49 AM | I just saw a recent movie in which Robert DiNiro is having a relationship with a woman who appears to be in her early thirties. There is no nudity other than the shirtless, paunchy DeNiro panting as he attempts to bring things to a conclusion, but I keep thinking
YUCK EW SHOW SOME DIGNITY!!!!! EWWWWWWWWWWWWW How much did they pay her to even SIMULATE THIS!? | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 2:37:00 PM | How disappointing to see someone my age having to resort to such vile and sexist language against people HIS own age
You reckon thats vile and sexist do ya .
so whats so vile and sexiest about stretch marks and jelly
oh and i guess 20 year olds and up dont have stretch marks
Most young men go for older chicks because they are an easy lay especially the ones that seek out the young ones .
Good to see you old ladies fire up every now and then its good for a laugh . | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 3:48:29 PM | | I know many older women who are not desperate or needy or an easy mark for meaningless sex. Guess I am lucky in that my middle aged female friends and myself like men our age who value us as women, not sex objects. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 3:58:58 PM | Wow, lebanese lion,
I never thought of that. I know the laundry guy at work kinda likes me, he is 28, I am 38. I like him I flirt and call him my studmuffin, but actually I don't want to date him or anything. I mentioned that I am at a different point in my life than he is.
My sons are about grown and he is never married no children. That would not be fair to him. It was flattering the other day he hasn't seen me in awhile. He comes around stuttering. this is only at work though. If I can make a guy, stutter these POF guys can't break my heart. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 4:05:54 PM | | It happens to me all the time, I have written in my profile that I am not interested in guys that young so I just ignore them. If they'd read my profile they wouldn't have bothered to message me. Each to their own but they are not for me | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 5:40:39 PM |
Maybe they like playing with jelly or rolling marbles down the stretch mark tracks i am not sure .
 Hey, that's pretty funny! I had a good chuckle over that one.
Seriously though, from your photos it looks like someone may have practiced that on you and I feel for ya.
However, just tell your wife to go on the South Beach and join Planet Fitness and possibly pay for her to remove those telltale signs of bearing your children.....lol
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:15:12 PM | Zephyr2553 Send us your address and ill send you some glasses where on my profile does it say i am married lol
And i dont have any problems with women having stretch marks it is a sign of a woman having beared new life .
And as for the women that carried on like pork chops well what can one say to you except lighten up .
i am glad you saw the funny side of it because thats how it was meant to be seen
But thats ok .
Of course I love ya darling
You're a bloody top notch bird
And when I say you're gorgeous
I mean every single word
So ya bum is on the big side
I don't mind a bit of flab
It means that when I'm ready
There's somethin there to grab
So your belly isn't flat no more
I tell ya, I don't care
So long as when I cuddle ya
I can get my arms round there
No sheila who is your age
Has nice round perky breasts
They just gave in to gravity
But I know ya did ya best
I'm tellin ya the truth now
I never tell ya lies
I think its very sexy
That you've got dimples on ya thighs
I swear on me nanna's grave now
The moment that we met
I thought u was as good as
I Was ever gonna get
No matter wot u look like
I'll always love ya dear
Now shut up while the footy's on
And fetch another beer. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:35:26 PM | Your remarks were vile, sexist, and ageist. I can understand someone younger being all those things, but for a "mature" man to make the remarks you made about jelly and stretch marks show that some men never mature--they just age. There is little less appealing than a clueless old man who continues talking about women as if they are object to be ridiculed.
The remarks were vile because they indicated that middle aged (or senior) women are fat and unattractive because of the "ravages" of age. Making a comment such as this also indicates that somehow, you are beyond the same ravages. You aren't.
The remark was sexist because your unflattering statement disparaged women--reducing us to "jelly" and "stretch marks" where in fact, we are much more than the sum of our abdomens.
It was ageist because you targeted older women. You backpedal when you say:
oh and i guess 20 year olds and up dont have stretch marks but you are just trying to CYA. You were making a swipe at older women and every mature woman in this forum knows it--you know it, too. Keep backpedaling, it's like putting on a condom after sex: useless.
Most young men go for older chicks because they are an easy lay especially the ones that seek out the young ones .
At least older women are getting laid. And if I am going to be an "easy lay," it might as well be with someone who can maintain an erection. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:48:44 PM | Far out heres a tip i dont back peddle anytime lol
well we were talking about older women with younger blokes lol
Are you saying older men cant maintain an erection lol ... bit sexist yeah lol
Cant believe a mature women would say
At least older women are getting laid. And if I am going to be an "easy lay," it might as well be with someone who can maintain an erection.
Now the poor young fellas are just a****
see what i mean you lot are funny ****ers
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/1/2009 8:02:50 PM |
And as for the women that carried on like pork chops well what can one say to you except lighten up .
See, dude, you are the very reason that women like me take a walk on the younger side. Your "pork chops" remarks stem from your flagging ego. It sucks for a former self imagined "studley" to realize the women of his own age group still have it going on while their libidos wanna do it, but the equipment just doesn't rise to the occasion....
So deal with it. I just thought you seemed to be speaking from personal experience. So you were married to a "Pat", so sorry for ya. There is someone for everyone so if you don't like it that a few of us think the younger guys are hot, just go to another thread for the old and the restless. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/2/2009 1:38:01 AM | | And vice versa, I'm 27, someone should explain to me why men over 50 think that I'm in any way on the same level, let alone on the same life path as them. I'm always polite but it gets really frusterating when you have five new messages all from people old enough to be your father. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 2/2/2009 2:42:52 AM | Kinda funny that people put profiles up to be noticed...and then when someone notices them, they get offended.........I personally think people are people,each has something to contribute...its not just the age difference that puts people on different paths....
Connections arent necessarily about age differences,or physical attributes .....they are about individuals and how they make each other feel....never anything wrong with making another person feel good | |
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