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 HB2

Joined: 5/11/2005
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/16/2005 3:12:23 PM
waiting to get old enough to be cougars!
 tweetie

Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/16/2005 3:27:18 PM

tweetie,

I wasn't eluding to my mail, or complaining, just referring to the various forums on the same topic on the question at hand. And I'll say whatever the hell I want to, and if YOU don't like it, then don't read what I have to say!!!!!!!!!!!!


well sierra, my appologies then if i misread your initial post:


Although I am flattered by the amount of email I receive from guys 19-27(which is a majority of my mail) why do these men think I would ever be interested in them? By the way, I'm 44!


sounded to me that you were commenting on the amount of emails you get from 19-27 yr olds, not the posts in the forums on the subject, my mistake...but i see i'm not the only one that thinks the age restriction is a good solution to this situation...now you go ahead and say whatever you want to, makes no nevermind to me...and have a super weekend too...
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 28
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/16/2005 3:29:47 PM
Sierra, I bet you enjoy the attention. Don’t you girl ?
 Sierrasman

Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/16/2005 3:30:57 PM
tweetie, Thanks, I appreciate it! And my apologies to you as well. It's easy to misread posts. Thanks again!
 Stairwell

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/16/2005 3:34:42 PM
I'm not sure why guys think older women like them, but hey, I'm not ego-like.
I prefer the company of mature women. Age, money, and marks in school are just numbers, and not indicative of anything concrete. What's important is the discussions, good time that goes along with interaction.
I don't think all or most (or even a significant number) of older women are attracted to me; most women attracted to me are older than me (but this does not equate to being a majority of older people, as the numbers aren't as high as I want them).
 sleepless_in_Newmarket

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 9/16/2005 4:08:24 PM
To the OP, I have always found myself attracting older women. I've been hit on by much older women at work. I even have this female customer, married, who is easy close to 60 and she phones me up just to chat and asks me to come over for tea! Last year a women contacted me 10 years older and dated me for awhile. My mom's friend is 21 years older than me, and is always telling my mom that is she wasn't married she would scoop me up in a minute. Never stops flirting with me. This has been going on my whole life. I don't know why.

But younger women flirting with me? Or even my age? Never. Not happen once. That's why I'm still single.

So it is true, there are lots of older women interested in younger guys. Just not you. But they don't know that, so say so in your profile.
 WallsOfRaiford

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/16/2005 4:12:57 PM
I like older women.... They relate to me better.... Plus a lot of them know how to cook. Cooking is a good thing. I need a woman that can cook for me 6 days out of the week.... I'll take her to a really expensive and nice dinner on the 7th day. That'll be my way of thanking them. If this sounds good to you, drop me a line....
 Sunshine_30

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/16/2005 4:57:44 PM
I get that too and I'd be interested in knowing the answer as well... Maybe it's for the conquest? An experienced lover? I guess they don't know men over 30 are better lovers :)
 2GOOD2BREAL

Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/16/2005 5:05:12 PM
You sound like me but the other way arround.

Hmm Some 26 are mature, I'm not! lol runs away.
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 9/16/2005 5:33:24 PM
Being called a cougar is a compliment. The alternative is being called a cow.
 fred0606

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 9/16/2005 5:44:46 PM
One thing i love is milfs. Now i my self have never been with one anyone want to change that? hope that chages soon. I almost did, but in the end she baked down oh well. I do like girls my age, but for bf/gf somtimes there just so annoying. I dont know why older sexy women are so HOT for me.
 cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/16/2005 6:00:49 PM
People always want what is harder to get or might be out of the norm. When men are teenagers they want to have an affair with an older woman because they know it's a novelty and kind of taboo. When men get older they want a young girl to relive their youth and get an ego boost. Same goes for women. Not that I think it's not possible to find a match at each end of the age spectrum I just don't think the large amount of these relationships are real.
 † §weet £eaƒ †

Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 38
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/16/2005 6:37:42 PM
I'm always going to be into young men, till I'm old, decrepit n decaying, send them to † §weet £eaƒ † I have not dated anyone over 25, since I was 25. I realize I have over 25 filters set on my incoming messages, but I'm not looking for conversation from most of them. If they are under 25 creative and smart, which I like, they will find a way to get ahold of me. I'd love to find one as a keeper, but I won't hold my breath!!!
 terran991

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 9/16/2005 6:46:37 PM
Have you been out lately? LOL there are bars full of cougars looking only for younger guys. Well at least in TO where I live.
 OzzieMan

Joined: 7/28/2005
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Posted: 9/17/2005 12:38:48 AM
re: the men that say older women pursue and flirt with them. That may be because you display a higher level of confidence with these women because you have had experience attracting them in your past. From my experience, if you are confident and think women will be attracted to you, then they will be. Women respond to the vibe you put out there...if you walk in like you are the shiznit and hold yourself with confidence, then you are going to get the attention of women, regardless of their age. If you already have in your mind that you attract older women, then you are going to act more confident around that population...so they are attracted to you.
I like the movie Bull Durham. There is a line where Annie is telling Crash, how dare him tell the pitcher she is dating to not sleep with her because if he did, he would start losing games. Crash responds, "If you believe you are winning because you are not having sex, or wearing women's underwear, or whatever....then you are". Basically, your perceptions create your reality. Same here. If you think you attract older women...then you will.
Ozzie
 BambiWoods

Joined: 7/21/2005
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 coffee_cognac

Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 9/17/2005 1:28:25 AM
If you grab yourself an old Playboy Magazine and meditate on the cartoon about the naked little old lady you will find your answer to this question...it's because we suck at putting on a good poker face.
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/17/2005 6:36:31 AM
I only date cougars because they are my age :)
 OzzieMan

Joined: 7/28/2005
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Posted: 9/19/2005 2:24:36 AM
What is a cougar?
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 45
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Posted: 9/19/2005 2:54:14 AM
hmm ...for the sex?moooo
 luvsbasil

Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 9/19/2005 9:37:02 AM
: 39 :

a guy im'd me yesterday-he is 35 and he said he has another profile of him as 15!?
I told him it was prob.impossible as i thought the age 2 reg. here was 18-lol
& he im me again 2day-I do not know what 2 say?
 HB2

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Posted: 9/19/2005 9:50:45 AM
block him...sounds like he's just playing games to me


There are many men who are into the whole "Mrs Robinson" thing
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/19/2005 10:09:49 AM
why??? because they are
 HB2

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Posted: 9/19/2005 10:11:01 AM
smooches hon!

Same reason older men like all the sweet young things!
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
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Posted: 9/19/2005 10:13:23 AM
go go ga joob, Mrs Robbinson
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