dud
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 10:36:31 AM | I get this alot too.....and they are very persistent! I just tell them that it all comes down to experience......and any guy that is 10+ years my junior has not had the life experience that I have so what will we talk about?
I usually tell them "thanks for the interest, but no thanks"
I once dated a guy that was 11 years my junior.....I went to meet his parents....was closer in age to his mother and she and I hit it off!
I knew at that point that "this is just too weird."
So just say thanks but no thanks!
As to the remark from the gentleman that says there are older women interested in much younger men...........if a woman is mature and has her head screwed on right ....NO she won't be interested! | |
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dud
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Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 53 | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 10:48:15 AM | As to the remark from the gentleman that says there are older women interested in much younger men...........if a woman is mature and has her head screwed on right ....NO she won't be interested!
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 12:40:42 PM | wow all the young guys have that same answer??
age is just a number??
me personally am trying to get you women in bed!!!
noone give better sex than you women....and the conversation before and after is a whole lot more interesting then the girl my age...
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 1:28:36 PM | Interesting thread.
I'm 31, and my most recent 'date' told me I was too old for him. I'm six years older, and I never realized the age difference until he asked. For him, it's a no go, period.
For me, it's usually the +/- 5 years thing that does it, but there have been a few exceptions. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 1:39:13 PM | | Ahhh Sierrasman....I have my head screwed on right....thank you...and I have always been attracted to younger men. I am interested in younger things for the most part, music being one. And Gosh Napoleon Dynamite is my favorite movie....I like the younger mentality...and that does not mean that my head is screwed on any differently...remember different strokes for different folks :) | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 1:55:39 PM | | Well I guess that's what I get for only reading the last few posts...oops. Please accept my apologies...and thanks for not thinkin I'm old...but alas..I am....ooops I meant to some I am. :) Again thanks for the clarification :) | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/19/2005 1:58:39 PM | Finally, something I can relate with. I am 30 years old and men my age/younger do not appeal to me. An older man is the way to go, there is alot to be said for experience not to mention in most cases(not all) the conversation is just that much more stimulating. I do not date a man less than 5 years my senior and perfer him closer to 10. To the younger men I say ty I am flattered but not interested.  | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 12:24:31 AM | i just saw Napolean Dynamite today and laughed my a** off,So does this make me any younger at 45?I sure hope so,my mentality tends to swing towards a mid 20's fella,Musi,movie and sometimes womenwise also,and to your answer on your headline eniceguys,i consider myself one.what do you think?  NYKID. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 6:23:22 AM | You go Catt!
I've never been a cougar either! And don't plan on it!
I'm sorry that we older women get stereotyped immediately solely because of our age!
Yes, and some women my age and older are looking for just sex. That is fine..and to each her own....but don't assume we ALL are desperate!
Actually in my case it is the opposite.
I have had a 21 year successful career...as a camera women for ABC sports....raised a son on my own, own my own small fitness company, and am working on my Master's degree...just for the fun of it!
I now moved to the country to relax and enjoy the rest of my life with close family and friends. Finally for me after a long hard struggle..all the pieces have come together...and I'm here to fully enjoy it!
We older women are confident, emotionally secure, usually financially secure, Mother's who have raised their young and most of all ...
looking for a mature man who has come to a place in his life where he is balanced mentally, physically, and spiritually.
And usually for the most part, that is a man in their mid-30's to early 50's I have found. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 1:00:39 PM | | neniceguysleft, I definately have to agree with you. I love younger men, I can just relate better with them. My head is definately screwed on correctly. I am an independant woman, mother of four, own my own house, own car, work a full time job, attend college full time, and all with no help from anybody. My preference is guys in their 20's, usually 24 or 25. That's about 10 years younger than me. So what, I mean if they make me happy and they are happy, what does it matter how old they are. We are all consenting adults, right. Just because one person is not interested in younger guy/older woman, does not mean it is wrong in any way, shape or form. Besides, men have been doing it forever, so now it's the ladies turn. | |
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| Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 1:04:41 PM | | Oh and just to clarify, I have been in a relationship with a 25 year old for the past year and things couldn't be better, so I think it's all about the individual person, to each their own. Luck and happiness to all in their search for love. | |
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