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 rphjrtampa

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 76
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 1:17:12 PM
For the same reason we think the young women are interested when we're older?
 mouser30

Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 77
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 3:05:53 PM
why is it , in your mind that the young women are interested? just wanting to get a male perspective.
 rphjrtampa

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 78
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 3:39:05 PM
I was kidding...
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 79
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 4:00:30 PM
I don't think I know that younger men are interested in me because they keep writing me asking me out. I think that is interest, isn't it?? Whether I'm interested or not..well that's different.
 Tick Tock

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 80
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 4:12:46 PM

why is it , in your mind that the young women are interested? just wanting to get a male perspective


A very interesting question, indeed. I think that a lot of younger women are interested in me because I look younger than I actually am and I am more intelligent than most men their own age. Oddly enough, they don't seem to run when I inform them of my real age. But that still doesn't explain why I get email from women on this site who are younger and ARE aware of my age. Last year, I was dating two women who had an age difference of 22 years between them.
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 81
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 4:20:23 PM

Don't knock it til u try it


That's what they say of heroine.
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 82
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 8:39:20 PM
I don’t care about the guys thinking it.

I am worried about women thinking that young men are interested in them. I don’t want to have to compete with guys 10 years younger
 hopelessromantic28

Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 83
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 8:50:05 PM
guys like older women because they're more mature, they know what they want, they don't play head games. Maybe that's why they're trying to get a hold of ya. Don't automatically think it's because they wanna get in your pants.


Joe
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 84
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 8:55:07 PM
Hopeless. Let me get this. you don't want to get into anyone's pants? just romance them and then get married ?
 deecide

Joined: 8/24/2005
Msg: 85
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:01:43 PM
Man! I'm getting this too! So many younger men have approached me than say guys my age. Ok, and it doesn't help that I look like i'm 25 cause when I want to look at a man my age, he sometimes writes me off as too young for him. Yeah, I like younger guys (like up to 5 years younger), but they have to be the RIGHT kind of young guy: ambitious, intelligent, funny, and HOT don't hurt either!
 Human

Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 86
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:29:41 PM


Although I am flattered by the amount of email I receive from guys 19-27(which is a majority of my mail) why do these men think I would ever be interested in them? By the way, I'm 44!

...

sexual invitation...? Most claim that "No it is not"...Some say "they are serious!"

Mercy, I feel like calling teir Mother's!!!!


You never know who you may meet. The maturity level for reasonable conversations may be there...though the odds are against you.

btw, is 34 old enough? :-D
 ColoradoJen

Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 87
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:41:19 PM
Hi, I am 46 and I have had the same situation happening to me...the age group you mentioned are also contacting me. It is something I was not expecting at all and could not understand it. I started to ask each one why they contacted me and made certain they read my profile to see my age. They have all told me that they prefer an older woman because of the maturity level, the fact that we know what we want, can perhaps teach them, and the biggest reason is that they are tired of the "Barbie Doll" young women---meaning that they can't have discussions, they are too concerned about their hair and matching shoes with their purse. They want to be taken out for dinner and dancing and partying and not a serious relationship. Yes, there are plenty of older women who like younger men, but I'm with you...it just doesn't seem comfortable to me. But, I have explored the younger man every once in a while but I go into it knowing that it won't be anything terribly serious.
 badboy197769

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 88
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:44:13 PM
Congratulations on achieving maturity at your age.
I would have to say in many cases with woman and men of your age, age comes alone.
Answer me this. I'm 28 and I get a lot of emails from older woman. Why do older woman think I would be interested in them?
Don't be so defensive and appreciate someone wants you at all.
 shore66

Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 89
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:51:56 PM
Why do they think older women are interested in them?

Because some of us are!
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 90
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:56:30 PM
^^^^ Cellulite and droopy breasts in exchange for maturity.

Now here is a question for the younger guys ... why do you write ... I know lots of you do ... and lay it on thick?
 deecide

Joined: 8/24/2005
Msg: 91
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:58:42 PM
badboy197769, No offense to my sistas in here! BUT I think that's a little creepy myself!

I think young guys (younger than 30) are like puppies: fun to play with, fun to watch, but wouldn't want to take them home (wait! NEVERMIND!)
 lassiter

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 92
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 10:00:05 PM
Why shouldn't they be? I don't have to wait 45 minutes for the Cialis to kick in yet...
 shore66

Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 93
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 10:10:32 PM

Cellulite and droopy breasts in exchange for maturity



Honey, you have never seen my breasts. They are gorgeous.
 The_Magician

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 94
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 10:14:39 PM
shore darling :) ... you know I love ya
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 95
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/20/2005 10:54:37 PM
they don't play head games.


Not ones that THEY understand.



fun.

They like their toys. Their rabbit vibrator gets lame.
 fundude5000

Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 96
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/21/2005 2:33:49 AM
I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THERE SEX LIVES {OLDER WOMANS]are not exciting. every older woman i have sex with are extremly happy,relievd and most importantly satisfied. SIMPLE...
 knoxgirl

Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 97
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/21/2005 7:32:07 AM
Hey Magician!
Cellulite and droopy breasts?
I know alot of young women that are in alot worse shape than myself.........and what about those disgusting rolls that hang over their low risers?
 caddyman1

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 98
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/21/2005 4:41:34 PM
older women are intrested in younger men. firsrt because younger men can keep it up longer , and alot of women still need that feeling of being with a younger man just for that resion sex, next is a statis did you see so and so did you see that young stud she is with dam . where can i get one of those she is lucky, and last its how he makes her feel as a women I may be old but i can still pick up younger men that are intrested in me. its the same for men with younger women so get off your high horse and admit it .if you did not have a son there age and your husband and you were divorced yes you would go out with them . but its mostly women who are just divorced from thir husbands and need the extra feeling of some one thinking that they still sexy and attractive to be with . and for the young guy all he is thinking its cool to be with an older women the trick is can he learn from you all about sex can you teach him to be the best lover and how to please other women and not to think only of him self but to think of the womens needs first way before his own can you do that .
 caddyman1

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 99
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/21/2005 4:46:48 PM
young women want securty, a man that will treat them good not like younger men that do not know how to . they look at what an older man will buy them , and teach them how to make love to a man as well as how much older men know about pleaseing women most older men can please a younger women more then there young boyfriends . younger women feel comfortable with an older man rather then with someone there own age .
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 100
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 9/21/2005 4:59:48 PM
^^ My thoughts exactly here.

(every example I have ever seen points to just EXACTLY that)



well said; and bang on the money too.
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