| jerking off is great too
Posted: 11/15/2007 9:44:00 AM | | I thought someone had rifled through my suitcase at the hotel the last time I was up in BC. Now I am thoroughly disgusted...or was it flattered? | |
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| jerking off is great too
Posted: 11/15/2007 10:35:28 AM | Personally, often. Also, I think of my man. I remember what it feels like to be under him with his chest tight against me, the look on his face as he's thrusting, the feel of him moving, and essentially the way his body tightens around me, his arms and the look on his face when he releases.
Seems to work for me. ^_^ | |
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| jerking off is great too
Posted: 11/15/2007 12:48:33 PM | | Whether I'm with my man or on my own I really don't think about much other than the sensation of what's going on... | |
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Posted: 11/15/2007 2:20:12 PM | I cant believe no one has mentioned phone sex. I dont like doing it alone anymore. I like to get me and a female off together over the phone. Theres nothing sexier than hearing a woman coming to completion.
It can be any random person you meet on the net and are attracted to and vice versa. Try it its fun! | |
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Posted: 11/15/2007 2:25:42 PM | | To Rhyder43 we are all adults and comfortable in our sexuality. obviously you re not. It doesn t hurt to talk about it. We all do it. Lighten up. | |
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| jerking off is great too
Posted: 11/16/2007 2:44:18 PM | to Hustla,
yes, your correct my sexuality has been a problem for me, lol! Thanks for the advice!! | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 12:13:25 PM | | DO YOU THINK THAT ALL WOMEN HAVE A UNIVERSAL TIMECLOCK FOR HOW LONG THEY DIDDLE THEIR CLITTLE? WHY DONT YOU ASK THE INDIVIDUAL WOMAN, WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT.... | |
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| jerking off is great too
Posted: 10/20/2008 12:34:20 PM | Sorry I was busy jerking off...what was the op again? lol
I have always assumed that women played with themselves about as often as men. I think, based on nothing but some very limited and casual observations mind you, that while adult men often open up more as they get older about how often they masturbate (especially more recent generations), many women still don't admit to doing it at all. I think there is still a lot of pressure on women to not acknowledge their own pleasure/sexual needs with or without a partner. Men on the other hand are often encouraged (to the point of blatant lying) to boast about it.
I dunno, I'm just coming up with this off the top of my head, need to warm up the brain to come up with some posts today, its possible I have no idea what I'm talking about lol. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 12:36:33 PM | If guys are with a partner and they have frequent sex, do they still do it if they aren't going to see the gf that day? Or how about morning sex. If they have sex in the morning, then take a shower before bed, do they still do it in the shower?
I am very curious about this. My bf has a high libido and I always wonder about this. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 1:58:35 PM | Oregon...
In case the guys are embarassed to admit it, I'll try to answer your Q.
LOL Ready for this?....
It depends on the guy.
Yep, that's the answer. Seriously.
One guy told me he masturbated 6 times that day. I know of some guys who say they do it 2-3 times a day.
Some who do it at some point every day regardless of when they have sex.
THink of it like sex drive...
When drive is high, if you can get it, you will have sex morning and evening every day.
When drive is low, you might only have sex once a month.
If your bf has sex with you in the morning, who knows, one day he might jerk off before bed when he showers... another day he might not. One day he might have sex with you after jerking off in the shower, another day he might not.
If you really want to know, ask him.
I've known guys with nice high sex drives that rarely masturbate. They'd rather wait for sex and even if no sex is to be found, they still don't masturbate - but if a partner is there, they'll do it 1-2 times a day. I've known guys who don't have a partner for a year, but still don't masturbate b/c their drive is low.
And...fwiw....the above describes ME as well, tho I am female - my drive varies and my urge to, um, play solo varies as well. :) Although, nowadays, 90% of the time my drive is helluva high!
Kaylie...and by "knowing" guys, I dont' mean in the Biblical sense... LOL | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 5:42:35 PM | ^^^^^^^^
Men stroke, women rub!
Men lick, women.......oh, wrong topic!
Kaylie is right.
But, not only does it depend on the guy. It also depends on the gal that he is with!
One said guy might masturbate more with one woman in his life, but masterbate less with a different woman in his life. Is either one good or bad? No.
Just need to watch out for over-masturbation.
It's kinda along the lines of snow blindness.
Too much of any one thing can impair the senses and make them more immune to stimulation. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 8:57:17 PM |
If you really want to know, ask him.
I have asked him. He says he doesn't do it and I don't believe him. I seriously doubt that he would tell me the truth about this. For some reason, I think he is embarrassed to admit this, since he knows he can have sex any time he wants. Maybe it's just easier than having to go through all the foreplay and he just wants a quickie. He just happens to want it with himself. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 10:57:10 PM | | I donot sleep around with every woman I can. I have to be in love in order to sleep with a woman. I have not had a g/f for about a year. My last g/f I had to let go of, 'cause she was married, and never separated with her husband or divorced him, as she had promised numerous times. So, of course every couple of days, three days me and my 10 g/f get together and have a ball. Thats the safest sex one can have nowadays, anyway. No laws broken either. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2008 12:50:06 PM | I'm old enough to remember hearing that masturbation would make you go blind. However, clinical studies have found that it's a great stress reliever. I had a great liason with a young lady who told me she did it all the time, whenever and wherever she could.
I'm relieved to hear this because I thought that my failing eyesight and inability to find all of my laptop keys was a result of my prior sins....
Whew.............. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 7:54:19 PM | So you need some material for next jerk off?
Having ladies telling you what they think of?
Well I think of diarrhea and a big pile of sh*t
and then
I imagine serving it on a plate
on a date
on a silver plate.
There you go! | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 8:53:29 PM | Re the Opost
True masturbation can be fun (reminds of "Hair") but it does not alas have the aerobic advantages/benefits of sex. | |
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| jerking off is great too
Posted: 12/19/2008 9:10:09 PM | I pleasure myself as often as possible when ever,and where ever....good for the soul ya know...not that I have to, however I so enjoy it, especially in front of others.   | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 11:00:37 PM | uggghhhh very often. It is a wonderful thing for those of us with no man! HA HA  | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 11:02:03 PM | | Oh yeah and phone sex!!! lol but that is *ahem* something for another day! | |
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Posted: 12/20/2008 5:59:53 PM | Errrr phone sex for me, does nothing more than tease me, a I cannot look into that persons eyes as I'm releasing then follow-up with some hot passionate sex yummy. Nothing like wearing some well fitting jeans to get my clit stimulated,,oolala! round, and round I gooooo.  | |
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Posted: 12/25/2008 3:54:13 PM | Actually, it's more fun if I can watch him do it. 
Masturbation is nice, but honestly, for me personally, I enjoy doing it just as much with someone, then just alone.
I'd say I average about once a week at least. But that number can go up if I've been single a long time. Just depends. | |
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