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 iluvmonkeys2
Joined: 8/31/2004
Msg: 125
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aw thanks lebanese...it's the only time in my life livin' in kansas actually worked for me! bucs i'm so glad you made the number 2 spot...no one deserves it more!
 leafslady
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 126
is it so bad to want an OLDER WOMAN??
Posted: 10/4/2005 5:03:09 PM
*sneaks into line behind Bucs*...
Hi ladies...how's everyone tonight?
 iluvmonkeys2
Joined: 8/31/2004
Msg: 127
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Posted: 10/4/2005 5:34:07 PM
woohoo...so glad to see you made #3 leafs! we're havin' some fun now huh?!?
 mtndriver
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 128
is it so bad to want an OLDER WOMAN??
Posted: 10/6/2005 2:48:41 PM
My first job was working in a local grocerie store whare I found out that a lot of older women like younger men I was 16.Some were just playfuly flirting and enjoying the attention and others were looking for somthing.

Myself I am attracted to women I think are attractive I don't realy care what somone else thinks. I've seen women in their 50's that look beter than women in their teens-20s.
For me it takes a phisical attraction to get me started and then the personality has to be there.I know that sounds bad but if I don't think a woman is attractive to me I don't go any further.That being said who I think is attractive may not match what somone else thinks and the same for personality...If it wasen't like that noneof us would be here,we'd grab the first one that walked by and be done with it.
 whatagirlneeds
Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 129
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Posted: 10/7/2005 5:49:31 PM
With internet dating it's hard to judge someone as far as personality and how mature you are.
I tend to be attracted to younger men most of the time.I think I'm in denial of my own age possibly?... But here is what goes thru my head when a younger guy is attracted to me....I'm lookng for a longterm relationship and I have had my children and don't want more.God knows I'm no spring chicken so I would hate to put in the next 5-10 years into a relationship only for this younger guy to want children and move on.
 Knight7
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 130
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:01:46 PM
I agree with you whatagirlneeds but I also think that if your attracted to someone and you are into each other age shouln't matter I personaly I'm attracted to an older woman because they are sure of themselves and they know what they want and are not afraid to go out and get it
 windra7878
Joined: 5/24/2005
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Posted: 10/14/2005 9:34:38 AM
I think people worry too much about what others people are doing. What is right for someone else maybe not right for you but that is your choice. I have found that life is far too short to worry about what others think. As long as two people are happy with each other and are good to one another, what is the problem ? Far too many women have spent too much time being abused by men their own age, but I guess that is better, well not for me. Love knows no age, race or gender. Just my two cents worth.
 JuJuBee
Joined: 1/24/2004
Msg: 132
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Posted: 10/14/2005 12:46:14 PM
Windra!

YOU RAWK!

Ju
 luckystarr15
Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 133
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Posted: 12/11/2005 9:15:58 AM
Ok.First off your profile says"for friends."Most older women want long term.You are talking about dating.So What is it that you want?Immature,That is the question...
 squishy0916
Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 134
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Posted: 12/11/2005 3:37:04 PM
Ya! So get out of my way!
 squishy0916
Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 135
is it so bad to want an OLDER WOMAN??
Posted: 12/11/2005 3:47:46 PM
I'm still waiting for some 25 year old to show me up....hasn't happened yet! Older women rock and we are the sexiest of them all....,,younger women are clueless.....I know exactly what I want....and a younger guy is on the list!
 Someguy35
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 136
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Posted: 12/11/2005 9:37:38 PM
Personally, I find many older women very attractive. I just find it difficult to meet older women.
 michhorn
Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 137
is it so bad to want an OLDER WOMAN??
Posted: 12/12/2005 6:56:21 AM
i`m 44 and have thought older women are extremely beautiful and sexy all my life.even when i was in my late teens,one of the most beautiful women i had ever seen was at that time in her mid 40`s.if i could have,i`d have dated her in a heart beat!but she was just recently divorced and did not want to see anyone at that time.i was extremely disapointed,but i relized at that time that i was really attracted to older women and stilll am!i`d love to meet someone in my area older than me.were`s mr.`s robinson when you neeed her??
 r60c
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 138
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Posted: 12/21/2005 3:32:02 PM
i like what you just said.....thought provoking..but tell me this when it comes to dealing with an older women i feel like i have to prove my-self somtimes you know...should i have to do that???
 r60c
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 139
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Posted: 12/21/2005 3:34:03 PM
well im as young as they come..so take me...
 sincereheart
Joined: 8/3/2005
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Posted: 12/21/2005 3:45:15 PM
Nothing wrong in it what so ever, infact the 5 ladies I've dated have all been older than me, the oldest being 60.
I guess it's slightly different for me as I'm not looking for a relationship, just friendship. Still old is gold and all the ladies I know are pure treasures.
 sincereheart
Joined: 8/3/2005
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Posted: 12/21/2005 3:46:33 PM
I totally agree with you squishy.
 ~-~GEM~-~
Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 142
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Posted: 12/21/2005 5:38:03 PM
Please form the line to the left. ........
 dommyj
Joined: 10/29/2010
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Posted: 11/12/2010 12:15:50 PM
I do not think so, because as i have been getting older, and my gf's/ parteners have been staying the same age as myself, or a couple of years younger, i've found the old adage " experience speaks volumes" to be very true. Which is why i've set my minimum target age quite a bit higher on these relationship sites, i've just read that last sentence back to myself, and realised i've made myself sound like some sort of sexual predator/stalker, allow me to assure all i am not at all, unless requested
 curmudgeon_ed
Joined: 11/24/2010
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Posted: 12/1/2010 6:31:27 PM
this is an old thread but here goes..

what do you mean you have to prove yourself to someone..for anything??? you mean you arent taken at face value??? you should be apalled and just cuss everyone out that dont think they can trust you based on your word and no creditable proof by way of actually knowing you!!!

 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 145
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Posted: 12/3/2010 8:09:02 AM
older women (35 plus) don't play as many games and are more apt to be real and tell you the truth.
older women are usually FREE to pursue pleasurable activities whereas young ladies in their 20's are still raising their children as EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM PUT IN THEIR PROFILE............

"my children are my life and they come first and if you don't like kids go to the next profile".


the other side of the coin is that younger women are usually more fun and energetic.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 12/5/2010 8:16:24 PM
Older women usually have enough baggage to fill an ocean liner. The funny thing is that they claim that about men their own age. Now that's kind of weird since it usually takes two to create the "baggage" in the first place. Example: A was married to B and they divorced after 20 years. Now, how can A or B have more baggage than the other? It's like two people walking right into each other - who's to blame?

Having said that, the only reason a younger person would have any interest at all is for sex - which by the way isn't even better than with someone your own age. After a 15-20 year marriage there probably wasn't THAT much variation in the bedroom, right? My experience is that women over a certain age so scarred that it doesn't surprise me one bit that a lot of men their age and older don't want to deal with them at all.
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