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Posted: 9/19/2005 3:22:35 PM | For me...the way I see it....I would rather someone NOT see me again because I *DID NOT* sleep with them right off, than someone not wanting to see me again because I *DID* sleep with them....at least I still have respect for myself, and I don't feel bad....their loss!
This is exactly what I'm thinking and it makes me feel better knowing I didn't sleep with certain guys who asked right away. If the guy really likes you, he'll respect your decision to wait and still want to be with you. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 4:36:23 PM |
I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date.
I don’t know, I suppose it would depend on the circumstances. If the girl was someone you had known for a while it might be feasible.
If this was someone you just met I would have to go with "Slut". I mean come on. If a girl wants to sleep with you on the first date, whose to say she doesn’t do that kind of thing every week? Or every night? | |
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RickT
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Posted: 9/19/2005 4:57:46 PM | IS IT OK TO RUSH THINGS? It depends where to desire things to go. IF you are looking for a LT relationship then DON'T do it until you really know the person and form a solid friendship. You don't want your future husband to discard you like a peice of trash, because you give the impression that you are too easy and would sleep with anyone.
HOWEVER, if all you're looking for is an fun time and aren't looking for committment well then it's up to you... As long as you're careful not to catch anything... If you hardly know the people you're sleeping with, there's a better chance they may have an STD or aids, your health and safety should be an important concern! | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 5:00:48 PM | TO: robert_paulson
So if she has sex with you on the first date she is a tramp. Nothing personal, but you should consider that it makes you a tramp too. So don't be throwing any rocks, glass house occupant. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 5:09:49 PM | You're asking us??? We collectively say Y E S !~!!
but if you have sex with me on the first date....it's going to be a one night stand. And yes, it is because I will think you are either a tramp, or have some other issues.
AND can you prove that? | |
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| sex is it okay to have sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date.
Posted: 9/19/2005 5:12:49 PM | So if she has sex with you on the first date she is a tramp. Nothing personal, but you should consider that it makes you a tramp too. So don't be throwing any rocks, glass house occupant.
Actually, despite equality, women do find themselves to be labled as sluts for
sleeping 'around'. Men CAN get away with it to some extent.
I'm not sure why this is, perhaps in a physical sense, the women are seen
as 'surrendering' to an 'envasion' somewhat in a 'submissive' pose?
YOU are conquered!
Let the blood bath begin!!
maybe this should be debated on another thread | |
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| sex is it okay to have sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date.
Posted: 9/19/2005 5:15:43 PM | | LOL i'm with him, a guy isn't going to turn it down. We look to women to determine how good we are to behave. Without direction we'd do it ten minutes after meeting a girl we're attracted to. Women have been the proprietors of sex for eon's for a reason, men can't hadle the stimulation. As for what this guy said i agree if a girl can't hold off it makes me wary, but never wary enough to run right away. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 5:27:29 PM |
Hi, I was wondering (and I know this will vary by age) what men thought about a girl that wants to sleep with him on the 1st, 2nd or third date. Is really being into him a good excuse or are we just looked at as loose or sluts?
Please respond honestly, I'm not asking for you to tell me what you think I want to hear! LOL!
Thanks
I think it's up to each person to decide what's right for them. 1st, 2nd, 3rd date isn't right for me as I prefer to know the person and have an exclusive relationship with them before sharing that with them. But, some people don't have a problem with meeting a person and goign to bed with them, with the understanding that that's all it is, and if it works for them, then that's fine. Of course, there is that old double standard out there, and no matter what some men say, most men still would look at a female who would sleep with them that early as being fairly loose and easy, and will wonder if (or simply think) she does that with everyone. Of course, what men don't understand, is that when we meet them and that's what they want to get down to immediately, we think the same thing of them ;) And that's not attractive to me. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 5:59:45 PM | The Way i look at it if the chemistry is screaming at the both of you to have a go...then by all means....however if you both really like each other (and you'll know) within the first 1/2 hr then you may want to wait, just too see if there may be a glimmer of a long term thing happening. slowly and romantically get into that OMG situation where the sparks really fly....now thats what im takin bout!:-)
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Posted: 9/19/2005 8:02:52 PM |
ANY THING TWO PEOPLE AGREE ON IS OK ANYTHING -ANYTIME - ANYWHERE- COME ON
YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO HAVE A GROWN UP ATTITUDE !!!!! ILFLINN
Having a grown up attitude is being able to delay gratification, make intelligent decisions, chose sexual partners wisely and not catch STD's.
Here is another grown up attitude. AIDS will kill you. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2005 8:15:27 PM | knoxgirl,
I think sex is something to be enjoyed, and as long as two people are on the same level at the same time, and there's no ambiguity about what it represents, then it doesn't matter when it is, whether it's first date, second date or twentieth.. if you both feel comfortable and want to enjoy what is a great experience, then you should go for it! | |
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