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 squirrly
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 51
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Ian wears black socks with sandals,tsk tsk


ewwww...he just lost points on the coolness scale.
 -lebanese-lion--
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 52
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 8:12:59 AM
wow, women NOTICE EVERYTHING!!! from shoes all the way down to if you are matching your belt and the shoes together. now some women dont as much as others, but if you are after a woman who is into fashion, you better believe that she is checkin every inch of that outfit that you thought was gonna stop people in their tracks. they will find SOMETHING to pick at, whether it be a watch not matching or even to a pair of shoes that need to be replaced.... lol...
i dated a fashion model, and was actually gifted to get "taught" on how to dress fashionably.
 party_essential
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 53
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 9:41:00 AM
Since woman get approached often by guys they start "learning" to generalise. They use subtle cues like how you dress to extrapolate different things about you... eg. mis-matching shoe +belt = no style sense = bad decor at your house. shabby dressing/wrinkled shirts (that shouldn't be wrinkled) shows lazyness and lack of care for other's opinions of your appearance....

that kind of thing... now, it's not true that ALL woman look at shoes, but ALL woman notice little details... even if they don't realize it.

and dito with the socks/sandals.. hahah
 JayneDoe1956
Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 54
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Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 3:23:45 PM
I am one to notice shoes...amongst other things. I have always taken care of myself, and like to dress well. SO........a guy with a cheap ugly pair of shoes or sneakers will definately turn me off..........BUT.......strange as I may seem, I dated one guy in my entire life that could have worn the ugliest shoes, pants, shirts, anything at all, and it was all ok by me. Whatever he did was fine. And now, since he left me, I am back into my ugly shoe thing.

Oh well !!!
 squirrly
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 55
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 3:39:39 PM
^^^ I can relate to that....I think that's called love. I went out with a guy who smoked too much, drank too much, always got ash all over his clothes...nothing fitted him properly but through my rosy tinted glasses, no matter what, I thought he was wonderful.
 JayneDoe1956
Joined: 7/25/2005
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Posted: 9/20/2005 4:24:53 PM
Know what squirlly? The day I get past him will be a happy day in my life.....makes it hard to get into a new relationship, but I know that one day, someone will come my way that will change that.........ugly shoes and all........roflmao
 purple_besos
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 57
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 5:43:07 PM
yes shoes are important...next to a wedding ring number one attraction at first time get together-meeting.
 Rebecca101
Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 58
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 5:53:16 PM
Well, I'd notice them if they were stomping on my toes, while dancing.
But other than that.... besides the stereotypical sandals with socks...No.
I don't really care as long as they suit the activity.
Definitely no stilettos for trail running.
 Firebirdz
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 59
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 6:31:20 PM
The shoes may be noticed eventually.................but there are to many others things to notice about a man.

I don't think I need to name them.............
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 60
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 7:08:28 PM
what do women look at in countrys that they don't wear shoes in .. like the pigmys.... humm.. he has nice bunyuns..
 Dog Mommy
Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 61
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 7:11:55 PM
A guy I worked with would polish his every day...not that there's anything wrong with that How could I NOT notice
 squirrly
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 62
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 7:25:05 PM
@JayneDoe1956..haha maybe we should start looking for ugly shoes?!
 AloneINtexas
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 63
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 7:40:12 PM
i guess im just a red neck about all i wear is a pair of black steeltoed boots
 Shor_Dae
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 64
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/20/2005 7:50:23 PM
OMG...My sister is the queen of the "shoe controversy"...hahah wow...she will dump a guy or leave a date or refuse to be seen with them if the shoes are bad...I guess its important to a point....
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 65
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/21/2005 2:37:02 AM
I never noticed that they look at shoes ...
except for once..
It was a blind date and she said

"Whoa, you have big feet..what size are those shoes ? You know what they say about men with big feet"


I still dont get it...

*feigning ignorance*
 *.*.Muffin*.*.
Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 66
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/21/2005 2:44:14 AM
Yes.
 JewelsnTools
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 67
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/21/2005 6:28:04 AM
OnTheBus,
Where have you been all my life! I agree with you, on this one... There's something about an adult wearing sneakers socially. It just smacks of "teenager"!
 groundzro
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 68
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/21/2005 8:57:59 AM
yes onthebus 44 is right its imp how u look sneakers are for boys o yea for get about doc m there gay get some stevr madins and dress like ur going out evry day ull do a lot better i dress like im going out evry day works good for me
 groundzro
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 69
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/21/2005 8:59:27 AM
yes onthebus 44 is right its imp how u look sneakers are for boys o yea for get about doc m there gay get some steve madins and dress like ur going out evry day ull do a lot better i dress like im going out evry day works good for me
 Vallant
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 70
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/22/2005 10:17:30 AM
Yes......She was trying to figure out my size.........old wives tale i guess
 thrice2
Joined: 6/7/2005
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Posted: 9/22/2005 11:09:32 AM
Solution minded women..... //If u have a problem with a cat's shoes reach into those pockets and get em some to wear
 SINGLESEXYBBW
Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 72
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/22/2005 3:02:54 PM
Yes I notice the shoes for sure.
 SINGLESEXYBBW
Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 73
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/22/2005 3:03:00 PM
Yes I notice the shoes for sure.
 kwislachica
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 74
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/22/2005 3:05:15 PM
i am a shoe fanatic so i do look at mens shoes to see if they are clean or match. its the little things that i notice and it shows that they noticed the little things also.
 SimpleDesign
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 75
Do women really notice a man's shoes?
Posted: 9/22/2005 7:52:43 PM
Interesting thread - I'm glad it received a fair amount of replies. I take care of myself from head to toe, and simply wondered if women really *did* care. It's nice if someone notices, but I don't dress to impress women... I simply enjoy trying to look good for myself - whether I'm wearing my Aldo shoes or my Pradas. To each their own!
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