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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/21/2005 8:40:07 PM | I dont want to get too much into the therapy here...
But in my line of work we deal with kids who come from troubled backgrounds and we work to build there confidence and show them they are not all good or all bad and that they are human. They usually do very well for about 6 months, and then they start acting out. This "good" kid that theyve become, they feel like hes not really them, like they are just putting on a show... and we have to work with them again and allow them to understand that they are not perfect, but they are still good kids, even when they do something that is not so good. We are all human, no one is 100% good or bad for 100% of the time. You are a person with strengths and weaknesses like anyone else.
Its hard to articulate this well, so hopefully it makes sense. You seem to have the same thought patterns as these kids. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/22/2005 12:02:37 AM | | To sorta answer both of you, I have the same hopes and reams as everyone else. I simply want to be happy. What it takes to get there is not the point. Whether that means someone else or not is also a side note. My life is remarkably good! I have a fabulous and healthy daughter with which I do many rewarding pursuits and share much time together. Of course I can't help but feel that I'm missing out on something more? But the reality of a relationship and the issues involved don't offset the good times. In other words, it's more trouble than it's worth! So I live as a single guy and have good times with women pretending that we're a couple until it's time to go home. At which time we go our seperate ways. This is ideal for the time being, but someday I would like to believe that there could be more, but reality and history has told me that it's not bloody likely! So I go for dinner, watch a movie, and go home alone. Simple as that! | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/22/2005 12:05:41 AM | | To respond to Melissa, I'm all too aware that I'm not all bad. I'm also well aware that my life is pretty damn good. But in the real world, there are issues in relationships that can make them more trouble than they are worth. Maybe I'll someday find the person that it may work with, but I suspect not and am not willing to risk it all to find out. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/22/2005 12:56:33 AM | | everyone is who they are under certain circumstances and also depending on how they are feeling about themselves (what's going on in their own lives). there's soooo much more to us than the "good" things...a real relationship is all about acceptance, unconditional love. lol, I don't know if this has been said before in this thread....didn't take the time to read thru..sorry :( but that's just my take on the initial post :) | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/22/2005 5:03:35 AM | offkilter,,,when you feel that natural urge to want to be with someone,,you will knowi it. Sounds liek your time isnt here yet, Like i was saying in the email i sent ya,,,you're pretty busy doing other things and basically,,,too busy to date? At one point in your life,,,you will want to fill a void that will eventually creep in and when that happens,,,,just take your time and find yourself the right one.
Was that too corny? lolol | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 9/22/2005 7:44:16 AM | | It's not as simple as just making the time for someone. There are real problems for me being with someone. And honestly, they can't all be fixed. There aren't answers to all the problems I have in relationships. I wish it was simply a matter of time, but the trouble of being in a relationship far outweighs the good side. AS long as it's that way, I'll keep my limits. And there is no forseeable day when it could ever happen? Other than allowing myself and the other person to settle for each other. And nobody wants that! | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:15:03 PM | | Means you humble, thats a good thing. Just as long as you aren't a big jerk in real life. I am not perfect eaither, but I am worth knowing. Nothing wrong saying it. I don't think it makes someone look bad. If I look bad, sorry, but its so true. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 1/29/2006 8:14:33 PM | | I like knowing things about someone that is important to know. If they don't like it don't sweat it. There are many people out there and someone will be o.k. with it, as long as you aren't hurting other people and stuff like that. If you are then thats not nice, work on changing that. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 1/29/2006 8:24:12 PM | | Everyone is different, its the same way for the other sex as well. You just have to be your self, and look for someone that you can relate to. There are people out there thinking the same thing as you belive it are not. Its just finding them that takes some doing. Enjoy the forums, and maybe over time you will grow on someone, and they see how you think, and contact you. If not, at least you make some new freinds. Atleast you see how people think. They all have some kind of doughts. They also have a past to, so just enjoy the forums, and find one you like. Good luck. If nothing else maybe you learn the way the other sex thinks, maybe that will help you out where you live. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 1/29/2006 8:47:47 PM | Why are you useless in bed?
When you meet someone it sometimes takes a little bit to know what they like, and them what you like.
You have to talk, and enjoy each other. Its fun if two people are willing to try. Not everytime is all heated up, some times it takes a little bit of learning your mate to get it right. Then one day you look back and thing damn I am good. | |
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| Is it my place to let women know to not get their hopes up with me?
Posted: 1/29/2006 8:54:56 PM | Genetics and experience has failed me in the bedroom.
Are you talking can't get it up?
Are fast draw?
Maybe not all that big?
Deformed?
There are things that help them things. There are meds, and there are toys. Most girls welcome most if they want to enjoy a life with you. | |
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