| picking up a stripper
Posted: 9/20/2005 8:18:45 AM | you know.
its asad state of affairs when you,ve dated a stripper
but never been to a strip club.
ah well. our private room was her bedroom. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2005 9:06:47 AM | I dont normally go to strip clubs because I find it as a waste of time and money . Why throw money at someone that you dont even know? that really is just fooling you into thinking they want you . hey if I wanted that I can go to a bar full of gold diggers for half the cost of what a guy would spend in a strip club on any given night. when Im in a strip club with my friends I never spend any money there well except for buying drinks , but mostly I find myself in coversation with the bar tender and they appreciate someone taking the time to talk. Im not really interested in the women that are dancing , because if you cant be in the action then whats the point?
if you take away all the sexuality and all the temptations that strip clubs have to offer you will see it is a place of visicious exploitation on both accounts . You see who is exploiting who? The dancer is getting you drunk and hustling you for your money while falsely advertising to you the illusion of you being the best lookin guy they have ever seen . I admit they are good at deception and disinformation . Im not knocking their marketing and public relations skills because I must point out they are effective to your average uneducated Joe off the street . They know their market well and strategize their marketing plans to accomidate their target market. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2005 9:20:56 AM | They're job is to be desirable..LOL
How many ppl would go if they were hateful ****es? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2006 9:40:53 PM | Since creating new topics is immensely frowned upon around here, I'll just ask this in a hardly related thread.
Right, buddies and me went to the strip club on Monday ( Not my idea. Nothing usually happens untill Friday  ). Apparently our town was lucky enough to get a few of the imported ladies ( fellow Canadians should know about this ), and a Russian woman finally convinced me to get a private dance.
( A little off topic note, but I find pretty much that all the younger, "sexier" ones are not worth the money for private dances. They're pretty bad at it, actually. Possibly because they don't know what they're doing yet...? Just because you have a yacht it doesn't mean you know how to steer it, it seems.... But anyway... )
Four minutes shortened to four words, I made her wet. I definately know it wasn't my pre since "it" was on the right side, and the damp area of my jeans she was grinding against was on the left, along with part of my shirt. After we were done, she asked who taught me, and how I actually knew what I was doing compared to the grabby Italian men she usually gets ( My town's basicly 90% Italian and natuve ). It was only my forth lap dance in my life since I only turned 19 last September, and I thought all flattering talk was just a trick to try to make me a more frequant customer ( like my friend says, when she works the bar at my college's pub she flirts to get bigger tips ). But, now I'm confused. When we were done we talked for atleast ten minutes about stuff, like her real name, age....untill one of my friends came looking for me. Well...
Is there a way to tell when they're just doing their job and when they're being serious? | |
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Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:55:09 AM | | I know someone that picked up a stripper...he met her on POF | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 11:59:51 AM | Not that I havent done it before cause I have, I aslo eneded up on bus the next morning to my buddies in an entirely differant province the next morning juiced out of my mind.
First things first it wasnt anything you cant get anywere else.
Two if you want to be surrounded by coke heads and crack heads fill your boots.
Three in the end you will probally find yourself in a situations were you dont want to be.
and i can continue but im sure this starting to sound like a lecture and i think my point is made.
And I had to go to the sex clinic that week just to make sure that..... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:47:42 PM | | IT DEPENDS ON IF HER **** LIPS ARE TAPED TO HER LEGS...LOL | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:51:51 PM | | Money talks Bullshit walks,of course strippers git picked up,they are human BUT you are putting strippers together in a group you would do better by realizeing each woman is different | |
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Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:06:45 PM | I never have picked up a stripper but did manage to talk to quite a few as when I was younger, a woman who bodypainted dancers share the house with me.
I would frequently come home to a naked lady in the living room and sit and chat.
Life sure was cool back then!
Ok, they are humans and although some of them are off the 'normal' scale, they have dreams and aspirations like everyone else. They date, get engaged, married and have kids like everyone else despite what the world is shown on stage.
I asked everyone of them if they would date me and most said yes but would not look at dating someone they met in a club as it was just business.
This one especially georgous woman was married to a laywer and they planned to retire in 4 more years which at that time would have her retiring at 31!
Does that mean I only met career minded women who danced? Nope.
I just didnt mention the ones that were a waste of skin because they fade pretty fast.
From memory, the stage and sometimes unfortunately, from life completely. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 1:12:43 PM | Well, from the ones I've talked to most prefer other women. But, that being said, I had one stripper giving me the sexy woman discount one time. I asked her if she ever hung out with people she met at work. She said she didn't usually, but she couldn't with me because she had a boyfriend and would definately want to f * ck me.....mmmmmmm...... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 1:14:17 PM | | I have dated a few strippers and I will tell you it is harder to get them to see you later while they are at the club dancing. Unless they are a prostitute. The trick is to go where they go after work, then their guard is lowered a bit. Many strippers love to party so they gravitate towards other partiers. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 4:58:35 PM | my ex picked up a stripper
while we were still together
drove her home from kingston
ontario to montreal Quebec
and atayed a couple nights  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 5:10:03 PM | | I've dated tons of strippers. Kinda went with the lifestyle when I lived in Vegas. However, I never speant a dime on them inside the club. Just told them "this is all good and fun, but I'm not interested in having you dance for me, I'd rather be dancing for you". I think an honest approach is the best to throw at them as they have seen/heard all the BS you could possibly imagine. If they are attracted to you physically and personality wise, chances are your good for a date. | |
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Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 42 | |
| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/18/2006 6:01:05 PM | | It is not the way you look at them whether in the eyes or boobs... Most strippers like to isolate themselve from prostitutions status, so they refuse you outright if you ask....and if you push for it, they will get to your wallet with no mercy. It is the friendship and getting comfortable with you first (that means lots of money), before they even consider going out with you. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 8:13:14 PM | | I have a few good friends that are strippers and they will take you for all the money that you will put out, (that is their job) they will tell you what you want to hear, so guys take my advice and keep your money in your pocket. My friends will hang all over guys all night and take in a few hundred dollars and then they will leave with me and we will laugh and talk about what suckers you are the rest of the night! | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 10:22:58 PM | | I may get some dirty messages for even admitting this, but I was a stripper back in the day. In all the time that I did it I never saw a girl go home from the bar we were working with someone who she didn't already know. The show is over then we were gone. You couldn't stay around and picking up guys for cash ment an end to your job. | |
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Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/19/2006 9:32:44 PM | you pick up a stripper the same way you pick up any women.they either like you or they dont.... .... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 11:43:22 PM | | I knew a few strippers in Montreal who lived in my building many years ago-sure,they'd go home with a guy and then their "owner" would be outside wanting $...the poor suckers would get busted by the "heavies' and heartbroken-but a lot smarter than to try and pick up a stripper again. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 11:45:59 PM | | hello-its her JOB-for $$$-I doubt that she'd want to date a customer because then she would be working for free-it's called ACTING...part of the job! | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 12:10:35 AM | I'm 45 never been to a strip club. I work to hard for my money, Just to look | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 12:48:45 AM | | Why would you want to pick up a slutty, head cased stripper? Ask yourself that first. The most screwed up women on the planet. Go watch 'em but let someone else date 'em. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 1:06:50 AM | | Managed to pick up 2 dancers in my lifetime. 1st one while she was working asked if I wanted a private dance I said sure but I would rather give her the money and then just talk to her. She was nice and all but she wasn't ready for a serious relationship and was into drugs so it never went anywhere after a few dates. The second one was while I was at school in my college algebra class. I sat behind this woman and knew she was a dancer. She had that smell, that look, finally in a study group we were in she mentioned work but was very vague about it. Later I asked her which club she worked at and thats all it took. She graduated that year and moved away I wish I had kept up with her whereabouts. | |
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