| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/15/2007 8:34:08 PM | alot of them have men and are telling u what makes u open up the wallet a little more! All women can be like that but alsoagree with it's there job and its called ACTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be Careful or ur gonna have to get another job to support her while shes at home with her ol' man LOL | |
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Posted: 1/15/2007 9:00:10 PM | I've dated a few customers in the past.
The relationships happened cause it was pretty slow and I had time to talk.
I wanted to keep talking to them cause they were both interesting and good looking.
They were never regulars.
These days, I don't have as much time in the bar as I am going to school.
So when I am working....I'm so focused on my job that I don't look at the customers as potential dates. It gets too distracting that way. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2007 11:52:38 PM | I had the chance to go out with a few dancers. I never met a sweeter girl than this dancer in Key West. Beautiful blue eyes that were as big as her boobs. Most wanted to meet somewhere other than where they worked. That last night I was in the Keys she brought her friend and the last thing I can remember is walking to their place, with one on each arm. Woke up on the plane. Don't know what happened or how I got there but I like to think I had one of the best times of my life | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 3:54:50 AM | My ex boss picked up a stripper on the highway once. I was driving so I couldn't tell exactly what he said or did. Lots of hooting and hollering basically. He was a total wildman. So at highway speeds I eased a truck with two tons of sealcoating product in the back right up to her little roadster and the number on paper was exchanged.
His ex girlfriend was a stripper, too. | |
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| picking up a stripper
Posted: 1/16/2007 4:50:30 AM | WELL..............I expect the boyfriend to pick ME UP after I strip for him!!!!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 8:41:55 AM | i had a stripper live with me the end of '05 and start of '06. we started off as friends. i didn't meet her at the club she worked at. i didn't even know she was a stripper when we first met. was at a party. perhaps the fake 32DD's should have been a hint.
anyway, her lifestyle didn't synch with mine(she was inviting over other girls/guys just about every night for group sex). i don't mind 3sums and such, but they are best when they are the novelty...not the norm. with her, she wanted them every night. so, i booted her out this past May. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 12:23:50 PM | I used to work in strip clubs.
Most of the girls just dance and earn a living.
Many have musician boyfriends, or druggy type boyfriends.
Most are there for the money only.
However there are exceptions to the rules.
Some do hookup with guys who go to the club, but they spend allot of money, and also help the girl out with other expenses too.
I dont miss working in that industry.
It was a cool experience, and I am glad that I went through it.
L. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 12:55:45 PM | | I picked up a stripper once, she wasn't as heavy as I thought considering the silicon and platform heels.......anyway, just as I was getting off of the stage with her the bouncers were on me like I was steeling a bottle of beer. Luckily she knew how to use those heels on them and we got away, then she got away with my wallet. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 3:00:07 PM | for the most part its easy
money and blow
for the exceptions to the rule.
Don't focus on what they do. Apart from the "hey its cool its your job whatever" Just don't bother with the topic unless its brought up to you. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 4:54:06 PM | Speaking as a former strip club DJ...
guys don't pick up strippers - strippers will, if so inclined, pick up guys - even customers.
It's also a myth that they all do drugs... are perverted... a better lay...etc...
Strippers are no different than any other woman you've ever met.
Sure their profession is different and each woman does it for a different reason.
There are some strippers who do drugs... there are some who are better in bed (I'm sure)... there are some who are slutty - whatever that means...
Again, they're not different than any other woman you have dated, met in a bar, worked with, etc.
Sadly some women who become strippers get into it for the right reasons and end up trapped in it because of the money. Their lifestyle changes... the financial situation changes... etc. In my past I've worked with women who wanted to put themselves through college/university. Women who were using the money to help with their real business. There are a million reasons why.
To make a long story somewhat short...
strippers are simply women with a bolder choice of employment off the beaten track while remaining within the bounds of the law and able to look after themselves independently. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 5:19:25 PM | | Trying to date a stripper is like trying to walk on water. Strippers are all about how much money they can get out of a guy, they dont care about men as people at all, its all about the buck. Any man that goes to a strip bar in hopes of meeting his next girlfriend is kidding himself. Why would a man want to date a woman who takes off her clothes to a bunch of horny guys?? | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 5:31:47 PM | Beautiful blue eyes that were as big as her boobs.
ewwww | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 5:44:00 PM | | I'm told by some ladies who have worked as "dancers" that they do indeed have contempt for the customers. When you think about it, these women actually have p-o-w-e-r and have a good laugh over those drooling men. Many of them are students paying their way through university, medical school, have husbands, boyfriends, children, etc. Many of them have bodyguards who drive them to and from work. By the way, they HATE to be called "strippers" in this neck of the woods. They're "dancers". Just because a woman earns money that way, do NOT make the mistake to thinking she is a slut or a prostitute or a drug user or easy game also. Granted there are a few who are, but most are not. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 6:37:36 PM | | Sorry for that sick comparison spiderwoman, but I was young and kind of amazed at how they all stared at me. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 8:58:12 PM | Trying to date a stripper is like trying to walk on water. Strippers are all about how much money they can get out of a guy, they dont care about men as people at all, its all about the buck. Any man that goes to a strip bar in hopes of meeting his next girlfriend is kidding himself. Why would a man want to date a woman who takes off her clothes to a bunch of horny guys??
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who are you trying to kid?? have u ever met a stripper or have u jus been to a strip club to get ur jollys off??? DANCERS are normal ppl.... i danced and i wasnt about how much money i could get outta a guy in REAL LIFE.....when i was working uhhh yea that was my job!!! as i said i met my ex WHILE i was dancing and hes the one who turned out to b the ***hole and the one who couldnt take care of his responsibility HIS CHILD!!
dont b so0 god damn judgemental and get your facts straight!! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 3:44:12 AM | I suppose picking up a stripper would be like picking up any girl. You offer her money for sex and if she accepts, then it's sex with no strings attached. No expectations of a meaningful relationship. Of course, in most states that's illegal. There have been women who've been arrested for soliciting their services.  | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:14:05 AM | | I had to meet some friends at a bar once. We sat beside the entrance where the girls come out. One girl from B.C. came and asked why I wasn't drinking Kokanee and I told her because I didn't like it as much as a Trad. She bought me a beer and then did her show. My friends and I were in this long conversation while she was doing her thing. After her show was done she asked me how I liked it. I told her I didn't catch any of it as my friends and I were talking. She thought that was a HUGE turn on... We went out after and had a great time. It wasn't about money and she certainly wasn't a user. She was a student who was trying to make some decent money to pay her bills. She was new to Calgary and very lonely. They should be considered people with feelings like anyone else. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:29:17 AM | I guess if u really needed it a little bit of **** if u think it was right go for it  | |
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Posted: 2/11/2007 7:55:58 AM | | I dated and became intimate with an ex-stripper once, god that was a huge mistake. She was heavy into perks, always wanting to borrow money, she still kept her drug friend losers in her life, she was a wreck. I would never date or pick up a stripper from now on. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2007 1:31:53 AM | I've never tried picking up a stripper before, but I had one try to pick me up when I was 16! I was only able to enter the strip club because my cousin was a regular who spent a lot of money at this place called Solid Gold (as it was called back then). Well, he was able to get me in without getting IDed because everyone knew him so well. So one night there was this guest dancer from out of state. I guess she was from a magazie or something, because they had her as a special guest.
I still have her photo, but I could never can't make out the hand-writing; it looks like "Domini Jaren" or something like that, but when I googled "variations" of the name, nothing came up (this was back in 1998)... well anyway, long story short, I managed to get my picture taken with her (so I had something to show my buddies in high school) and she even took my hands and put them on her breasts (for the photo). She didn't even charge me for it and she gave me all sorts of other free stuff.
I guess she liked me, and even the camera guy was getting kind of irratated with her. Well, anyway, later on that night she asked me back to her hotel room... Unfortunately I didn't go; so yeah... well maybe I should probably regret it right now, but I guess it doesn't really matter because I was still a virgin back then anyway. Unfortunately, since then I've not had any similar luck. Nothing even remotely of the same caliber had ever happened like that again, and I suppose I'll probably never even see her again either. I still have our photo together; I hope it won't make any future potential girlfriends jealous, I mean, it was just a silly thing I did as a kid (it's not like I actually had sex with her or anything). | |
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Posted: 6/23/2007 1:53:07 AM | There are just about as many decent girls working in clubs has there are bad ones. Some of the have a TON of issues, some of them are slutty, some of them Love the attention and power... You kind find the same kind of girl in regular bars.
The only hard part about picking up a stripper is you gotta have a hook, she runs through maybe 20-30 guys a night on a Great night and all of them want to f.uck her. You just need that hook. I've found the funny guy that buys drinks works best, your not paying for her time your paying for her drinks and if she stays for the conversation and you've made it very clear your not buying dances then your golden. The only other proven way I know of is to pay out the nose or have there drug of choice depending on the girl... | |
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| picking up a stripper
Posted: 4/7/2008 7:27:14 PM | as a dancer, i do have a rule about not dating customers.
not because they r bad or because i have contempt for them at all, u cant be a stripper and hate men, really, i mean u have to like people, and to like being touched.
it's because u have to separate business from personal somehow, and blurring lines can be dangerous for one's emotional health. u have to separate making money from dating in ur head, at some level.
plus, most men that meet u there can't handle dating u also. i've tried it.
which brings me to my next point: i DO make an exception in outstanding cases. in 2.5 years of dancing i dated maybe 4 guys i met at work.
disaster each time. it seems to bring out the worst in a lot of men.
which is great, id rather know in the first 5 min what they r really like, then after 5 months. makes sorting THAT much easier :)
so i never lie about anything, keeps things rolling very smoothly and naturally. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2008 7:55:04 PM | The previous relationship I am most fond of was with a dancer I met while she was working. Started talking to her and she had a really nice accent. She tried to play if off as European, but I wasn't buying it. Turned out she was from Uganda and all that nerd stuff learning geography really paid off!
Yeah, she was a dancer. But she was also one of the friendliest people I have ever met. She spoke 5 languages, had a great personality to go with the beautiful body and was 100% the woman I would love to meet again. She had her faults as well, but nothing too crazy. Many dancers don't have drug addictions or self esteem issues, it's just a job and a way to make good money. I think most have to have a kinda freaky side as well, but that's not a bad thing.
But there is also a big difference between 'picking up' a stripper and convincing one that you might be worth coffee and good conversation some time. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 1:32:59 AM |
I would think that they DONT get picked up by dudes who pay, but obviously I know NOTHING about the whole phonemona. I would imagine that the best way to pick one up would be to NOT pay a dime, and look into her eyes instead of at her boobies.
You are going to be sorely diappointed. Strippers are experts a separating men from their money. If you just throw money at them, you'll get nothing. If you have no money to spend, you'll never even talk to one. Even so, If you plan to play in a strip club, it's not cheap. If you can't afford to be a regular and drop a few hundred dollars playing the game when you visit, don't bother. Second, you need to dress properly. Try doing a search on google for ``the uniform.'' Find a friendly waitress and tip her well so she will help you out. The best time to go is at the first of the month when rent is due. If you think you're going to just walk into a strip club and pick up a stripper with charm alone, you are in for a rude awakening. If you think you can do it on the cheap, you're going to lose a lot of money and get nowhere. If you try to buy them, you're going to lose more money and get nothing. You should find a board on the internet that caters to guys who play the game with strippers for extras. It's an entire subculture of the pay for play culture. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 9:47:47 AM | | Not sure if what we are doing it dating or not, but it is fun. I am sure you are fun no matter what it is you do. Funny thing is, I did not want to meet you at your work and I am glad we did not. Any time you need someone to talk to or just have a guy with a smile for you, call me. I am only 15 mins away. Alex | |
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