| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 10/16/2005 1:09:32 PM | A popular pay dating site filled with a million desperate men who want to get married to you after just one date..... ooops... I went off on a tangent there!
What I meant to say was.... on that site you can choose "I don't believe in astrology" instead of putting your sign on your profile. Then nobody has to be confused or offended.
I think that's pretty neat.
Actually, it's about the only good thing about that other site.
(Strictly a POF girl from now on) | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 4/19/2008 3:30:44 AM | I want a "prefer not to say" option because I dont want to be messaged by people on the basis of my "sign" being "compatable" with theirs as this would be a waste of my (and their) time.
and since the moderator brought up religion, why aren't Atheist and Agnostic in the choices Surely "non religious" is an adeqete option ?
I can't stand that "Rather Not Say" option. I don't contact/reply to any guy who has that as any response. Is it really that difficult to ask ? | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 4/19/2008 8:29:26 PM | | My significant relationships have been with Capricorns. The odd thing is that almost always, when I'm attracted to someone's profile/pic, he turns out to be a Capricorn. I don't consciously screen out the other zodiac signs. I notice the pic first, then notice the sign. I vote for keeping the signs for research purposes. | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 4/27/2008 3:15:35 AM | If you don't want to query for specific signs then just leave the 'dont care' default. There are a lot of people who base their decision to make contact on astrology. If it's important to them, they'll ask you for your sign and no cuteness (nor argument) on your part will make them change their minds.
I kind of had to smile that removing the astrology sign would save space in the db. Tell you what, the field in whatever table you're so upset about is like 6 bytes per member (counting overhead) and oh and of course there is the cost of having an index on that field. Nothing to get excited about. | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 4/29/2008 3:48:13 PM | thank goodness for the techsavvy and tolerant! (see above post) oh, and for those who suggested the chinese sign be incorporated.. we don't want to aggrevate the fearful .. oops: "sagacious" skeptics anymore, do we?
since some may not know and expressed interest in the eastern zodiac: by having a person's age (assuming it's true) and their western sign , you can usually determine their chinese year sign easily. I like the following chart for easy reference (w3).holymtn.com/astrology/year(.htm)
p.s. to those skeptics: philosophy of science.. speaking from experience..check it out.. i mean in academic level indepth research style.. Scary big holes in that science skyscraper, huh? so while astrology may not be a science, that may be just as well.. | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 4/30/2008 3:20:02 AM |
My significant relationships have been with Capricorns. The odd thing is that almost always, when I'm attracted to someone's profile/pic, he turns out to be a Capricorn. I don't consciously screen out the other zodiac signs. I notice the pic first, then notice the sign. I vote for keeping the signs for research purposes.
And since you're taurus an earth sign capricorn, another earth sign, is very compatible.
I never noticed astrology before I showed up on POF but I will defend it because I notice many personal truths about it --- like the above user I work well with caps and my most closest friends in real life are cancers who are supposedly most emotionally compatible with Taurus. I never picked these people for their signs -- I picked them because I liked who they are!
I want a "prefer not to say" option because I dont want to be messaged by people on the basis of my "sign" being "compatable" with theirs as this would be a waste of my (and their) time.
a) same signs are not always compatible. b) google it c) if you open your mind a teensy weensy bit & give it a chance try astro.com and start a free account and do a FREE DETAILED reading. Mine have been dead on regardless to dates here. Try it. d) even if you don't believe in it -- it's an icebreaker which is what this is for in SOCIAL DATING | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 5/6/2008 5:58:06 AM |
same signs are not always compatible Where did I say that they were ?????
google it ??????
if you open your mind a teensy weensy bit & give it a chance ...... The last person I heard that one from was a member of a UFO cult
even if you don't believe in it -- it's an icebreaker ..... More like a red flag | |
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| Delete astrology sign please! Posted: 5/6/2008 2:38:51 PM | | The 'point' is, that having 'must answer' questions on the profile traps users into making stupid choices and saying dumb things just to get on with the thing. It's very much like those lame 'personality tests' which essentially give you a choice between being extremely shallow, or just plain dumb as a bag of glass. | |
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