bunnyx
|
Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 276 | |
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/21/2007 1:55:01 PM | | I know how you feel love and thousands like us. Not only women but men as well. We all dream of lasting love, but is there such a thing? Be strong people say and look towards the future, but what future is there in a lonely bed. You need someone to cuddle, someone that can love you as you are, and not try to change you into someone they want you to be, someone that is there for you always. Someone that can give you unconditional love. Love us for who we are. Is this just a dream or can it be real? At the moment I cuddle a 40yr old teddy in my bed at night, and dream of better things to come. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/21/2007 2:08:50 PM | | After i saw your profile i understood why you are waking up alone.. Get real.! what's the 36 lines of crap about? And you have limited yourself to only a few people that can email you. If you really want someone by your side you will need to take a look at yourself first. Modify your position and your profile... Peace and good luck. Nebula | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/21/2007 3:28:22 PM | | with a negative mind and negative thoughts attract negative views on life also when you feel in need of someone it usualy means that there is something that make u not quite whole which means you then will be hoping that someone can fill that whole when really you should go into a relationship whole, look at this way everyone ends up getting married one day so dont think u will be any diffrent but lonliness is a killer and some times makes us grab onto things that dont exist. you can get a broken heart easily if your heart is not complete. when people feel lonley they send signals out to other people signals you wont know u r giving off stay confident be proud of who u are wear bright colours and smile at people who look at you. for every negative thought replace it with a positive. and remenber everyone is special u only live once dont make you life about a man make your life about you then one day when u say i want a man it will be diffrent to u saying i need a man do u see what i mean wanting and needing is two worlds apart. u sound like u r feeling a bit low how about taking up a dance class once a month or maybe something u enjoy things we are good at gives us confidence and confidence is the key to a successful life find confidence and self worth and u will never go wrong good luck | |
|
| |
| |
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/20/2009 11:31:44 AM | | Ms. Petite Lady, I can understand why he would just drop you like a rock. The age group you seek ( 30 -45) are not stable enough for a long-term relationship. A lady with your experience in life needs a REAL man. I hope you find that man and are happy the rest of your life.. | |
|
| |
| |
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/20/2009 6:48:09 PM | | my first post: I was blindsided or sucker punched, I was in a 20 year relationship, married for 18 years, 3 kids, been the husband, dad, provider role for 17 years, she has an affair, this was the third time, the first two times I forgave her, we were still young and immature, as far as I know she was faithfull for 15 years, that is untill 4 months ago. I was commited to her for life, we are now divorcing and she is still seeing him. I love her uncondionally and was commited to our faimily forever. You wonder how this happens? There are as many answers as there are oppinions. Yeah my heart is broken but I figure I'll be better off in the long run with someone else who is honest and faithfull. I'm 46 and I have a lot of good years left in me. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/22/2009 9:17:27 PM | I have been hurt to many times as well.. I feel where you are coming from. I wake everyday by myself in my bed as well, and think why am I still single?? I think im caring indvidual and I have alot to offer to that special person that comes along one day.. ?
what i have learn from people is that don't think about the past or furture, live the now
the time will come for you when you list expect it.. thats what preatty much everyone on this site is looking for you are not the only one.. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/23/2009 5:17:41 AM | Ms elegance
I too am going through a relationship breakdown and after reading what you have gone through i feel as if i can relate to you and if you have time to reply would be nice to have a friend, someone to talk to and whom understands the pain and emotions.
I dont know if you have moved on and found love again, i sincerely hope you have for that will give me hope too.
Stay well and happy
moona | |
|
| |
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/23/2009 8:22:56 AM | | I have a friend who is suppose to be my best freind. There is a guy living with her. This guy really likes me. And I like him. But she told me the other day that she if falling for him. And this morning I call her, because she told me to. When I called her I heard him in background. Needless to say I caught them in the same bed. And he tells me when I call that he is waiting jfor me to get home. But if he likes me why is he doing this to me? And if she is my best freind why is she doing this to me? I live 4 hours away from them. I will be moving in with them on Monday. He tells me that he can't wait to see me. And she tells me that she don't want me home. So I really don't know what to do. Is there any one out there that had the same or close to the problem as I do. If so how did you handle it? | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 1/24/2009 10:11:52 AM | | I understand it takes time to heal, I just wish there was another way. I've been divorced for 8 months. 13 years is a long time to be with someone. We just grew apart, my ex and daughter live out of state. It's very difficult to move on without my little girl. I try to stay busy but, she constantly on my mind. I just hope that if I ever marry again, that it wil be evrything that my previous marriage was not. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:15:19 PM | | I feel you and your pain 18months ago I was in the same place you appear to be!! It was one of the hardest places i have ever experienced in my life!! Yet I survived!! Keep your head up sweetheart stay postive and hold onto your faith tighter then ever before and the rest will fall in place!! | |
|
| |
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 7/27/2009 5:15:21 PM | | I do the very same thing. Everyone else has someone why not me. I'm a good person. It 's good to be alone but, it's better to have that special person in your life. I keep thinking there is something wrong with me. I've been on dates but, that spark is not there. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/8/2009 10:42:34 AM | | I feel your pain... it hurts.... was with my ex for 13 years... and went down the drain.... thanks to my friends for helping me through it... i still haven't found the right one yet... but hopefully one day God will send the right one to me... Keep your head up.... everything happens for a reason... we will never know why the things happen to us... but keep your head up and keep that smile on your face..... | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/8/2009 11:27:55 AM | | No you are not week, we all want someone special in our life dont we! People say it happens when you least expect it, well I have given up expecting it a long time ago ! but you are a lovely lady an will meet someone I'm sure, might not be on here though, if your looking for love!! Good luck | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/8/2009 3:21:12 PM | | Life after divorce , I thought not, but after several years, I discovered love again, just to realize, the hurt would return. So is life after divorce something reachable? I do not think so. Is this feeling , supposse to make me stronger, no don't thing so, it makes all weak and willing to do anything to fill the void that is not fillable. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/9/2009 6:39:38 PM | Des'ree - You Gotta Be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r32vw4260G4
Listen as your day unfolds
Challenge what the future holds
Try and keep your head up to the sky
Lovers, they may cause you tears
Go ahead release your fears
Stand up and be counted
Don't be ashamed to cry
You gotta be
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold
You gotta be wiser, you gotta be hard
You gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm
You gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Herald what your mother said
Readin' the books your father read
Try to solve the puzzles in your own sweet time
Some may have more cash than you
Others take a different view
My oh my heh, hey
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold
You gotta be wiser, you gotta be hard
You gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm
You gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Don't ask no questions, it goes on without you
Leaving you behind if you can't stand the pace
The world keeps on spinning
You can't stop it, if you try to
This time it's danger staring you in the face
Oh oh oh Remember
Listen as your day unfolds
Challenge what the future holds
Try and keep your head up to the sky
Lovers, they may cause you tears
Go ahead release your fears
My oh my heh, hey, hey
You gotta be
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold
You gotta be wiser, you gotta be hard
You gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm
You gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold
You gotta be wiser, you gotta be hard
You gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm
You gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Sending you hugs...javascript:smilie(' ') | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/10/2009 7:10:33 AM | Yes there is life after divorce!
When my husband and I separated I thought my life was over. I was living in a city where I knew no one, I had no job, I had no home and was a 12 hour flight away from all my friends and family. I stock piled painkillers and vodka and considered killing myself most days.
2 years on and I've never been happier. I started dating again for the first time a few months ago, and it's weird, but I now know that even if I never end up in a serious relationship again, I have a good relationship with myself (jeez that sounds corny - but it's true).
Time heals. It really does. | |
|
| this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond!
Posted: 8/10/2009 7:24:10 AM | I know how you feel right now, i'm so sick of it to be perfectly honest with you. My hearts been ripped out, thown, stamped on and thrust back into my chest a mangled wreck more times than i care to remember.
Recently been left heart broken and destroyed, i wake up every morning hugging my duvet and looking around to see i'm the only one in the bed and iv no one to hold me tight back.
Like you i just want to meet that special someone in my life and to share my self with them and to be happy... not much to ask eh... seems it is.
Your 25 tho huni, same age as me and i like what you said " I'm young but my soul is old" i couldn't have said it any better my self for i often believe this too.
I really dunno what to say, other than i share the feeling of loneliness and that your not alone, there are lots of people just like you and me who wish the very same things in life.
Just think tho, there is a man out there right now and he is thinking the same as you. He goes to bed alone and wakes up alone and wonders why and when it will change. That man is looking for you and you for him, you don't know when or where your paths will cross but they will, Same for me and for everyone else here on Pof.
Good luck sweety and take care :) | |
|
Home
login 
