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Posted: 2/7/2005 8:50:32 AM | Color doesnt matter.
My brother is marrying an African American woman in June and I gladly welcome her to the family! :)
I haven't met any racists in person, but I've met them online, and I just wanna, well, do something illegal to them.... *chuckle* | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 8:55:00 AM | | have you ever been around co-workers/friends and they started to talk racially bad about a certain race....not knowing that your dating someone in that race......then they met your girl....see that she is a knockout and fun to be around.....they put on the bullsh*te and she thinks they are nice....but you really know......what do you do? call them on be racist? | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:03:10 AM | ok-for the disease worrier....if I date a same skin man with a predisposition for lets say...diebetis...hmmm, poor kids- so I just screwed up that argument for you
as well, when there is a mix- the chances for stronger traits to blend from both, is as possible- if not moreso-- sorry, another botchery to your srgumant
all same colored skins are already a type of mix- whether you want to accept that or not
back to diseases...let a little adultery -or a blast from your past haunt you- and your poor same skin woman, gets to share a disease you've contracted from same skin women.
I'm glad you tried to give a good fight for the race issue- but I have my counters
when is it bad? well, when does it hurt to be fat? be ugly? be poor? be pre-judged "arrogant" just because you're attractive? judged dumb? judged a sinner among self proclaimed saints?-judged greedy and evil if you have a lot?
I guess living as a human being in a world of finger pointing "I'm better than you's"- has a way of sucking for everybody.
Maybe being a butt sniffing dog enjoying the romp-free of color/money/religion worries....
or being the cross pollinated hybrid species considered so "beautiful, and unique" would be a better deal. But I'll let you keep your arguments- as long as they are good enough for you, mine are good enough for me. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:32:58 AM | To prince:
"one day we won't be judged by the
color of our skin but by the content
of our character"-M.L.K.jr (R.I.P.) | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:38:41 AM | | I have a weird feeling most of the people using this site are against it. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:41:08 AM | | you only live once and it is for a short time. so you must try and be as happy as you can, with whoever it may be that you enjoy........excuse my french but " if people don't like it ....f@@k em" | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:49:00 AM | | Black Prince....If I find a man who fills my needs and desires, someone I can feel comfortable being with....someone to hold me in the dark of night when I have a bad dream...then there are no boundaries...none at all....I could love a man like that, and it wouldn't matter what color his skin tone happened to be....if it feels right in my heart...then, when I look at him...all that I would ever see....is MY man. (smile) | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 10:07:06 AM | when we wake to eyes gouged out...
how would we exist?
who would lead the way?
what would the hate topic become then?
such a beautiful gift- vision
to be a tool for hate
all I can say is
wow
by the way, my dating experiences are varied
different skins,different personalities
respect is the only key to my heart | |
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MikeJ
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Joined: 1/30/2005
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| Interacial relationships
Posted: 2/7/2005 10:45:57 AM |
I have a weird feeling most of the people using this site are against it.
Everyone is going to say they don't have a problem with inter-racial relationships. But I bet most wouldn't partake in one, though. The media stereotypes are pretty wild.
In multicultural cities I often see black men + other race women or asian women + other race men.
But rarely do I see black women + other race men or asian men + other race women.
It's an interesting subject, but in time these inter-racial mixes will become more prevalent. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 11:19:21 AM | | I am AN ASian woman and all my relationships are interracial.I have dated black men,hispanic men and white men. I am not at all racist, but i am mostly just attracted to white men and for that i may come off as racist, which is not at all true. I can not help who I am attracted to and as far as racism goes, it should have been dead along time ago, and yet there are so many people in this day and age who have a problem with people who 'arent white'.Those kinds of people need to wake up and realize this world is made up of many different races,ethnicities , ect.Its what makes the world go round.I have many friends of different races and i know what racism feels like first hand. It is the worst feeling possible.So if you are one of those racist people you are inflicted with a horrible disease | |
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Joined: 1/30/2005
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| Interacial relationships
Posted: 2/7/2005 11:23:50 AM | | What's interesting with Asian women is that a lot of the ones I have known (and dated) have a sort of cultural inferiority. They will not give Asian males a shot. They have a need to be accepted and dating Asian males in North American society (which shuns them from a relationship standpoint) is a no no. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 11:32:55 AM | | i've dated out of my race ....as a matter of fact i prefer women of color....i mean a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman....color has nothing to do with it ....so come one come aall.....lol...sorry was starting to go on a tare....but i'll be good ...later | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 2:27:28 PM | | skin-peel it like a banana-what's left?-how yummy is that?-any canibals in the house?-what's your preference?-is white dryer than dark,like turkey or chicken?-sorry, I just can't help myself,where's Dahlmer when ya need him? | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 2:33:06 PM | I've dated just about every race, religion, and ethnic group out there. I am an equal opportunity lover. If you close your eyes to a beautiful, wonderful woman because of any of the above mentioned reasons, then your an idiot.
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:06:51 AM | Okay...
This is a reply to the dog guy ....loll
So what you are saying is that whites, blacks and Hispanic people are all pure bred right?
I hate to break it to you but there is no such thing, If you were to do a family background, I am positive that you would see many different races sorry as you put species in there. We haven't been pure in oh I'd say 3000 years at the least, for instance am white but my grandfather was native making my mother half native and me a quarter native my grand-mother was French making my mom half French making me a quarter French ...
Now my father he was Icelandic making me half Icelandic a quarter French and a quarter native so again I look whiter than a ghost! How can I be pure bred? And I bet your aren’t either trace it back and you will see...now religion wise Adam and eve everyone assumes they were white? So they would in fact be the only pure bred Caucasian male and female because everything apparently crossed after that?
So before you start talking species and pure bred anything look back on your own history!!!
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:27:41 AM | This is a very simplistic view but when someone needs a blood transfusion or organ transplant does anyone question what race the donated blood or organ is from ?
The rest is personal choice (and I am not saying racism) you are attracted or you are not to some races, I have an english friend who is just very attracted to asian men. I personally don't care its the person, in my circle of friends, a japanese married to a canadian (english), indian to a scotsman from south africa, a chinese to a jamacian man, I myself have been out with an irish guy, greek married to an australian, lebanese to an australian ! and you know what these couples are working out in fact better than some same race couples I know of ..... | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:44:18 AM | Well I am a single White Female , and I have dated different guys . And some races are very loving and kind and some are not so . But in every Race you will have ........
Woman Beaters
Child Abusers
Alcoholics
Drug Users
Dealers
Sex Aholics
Over Eaters
and in general ,there all alike . And I read a few of these post and there were a few that said were not all alike well, SORRY to tell you Yes we are . We all have different color skin and different beliefs and religon . But you KNow what ...... WE ALL BLEED RED!!!!
We all ....
Eat
Drink
Walk
Talk
Dance
and so on . And we all get sick and wore out . SO as you can tell were not that Dam Different at all ....
And Bye the Way ... Most of us are already Mixed Races. I am Indian, Irish ,German , & Dutch and I was BORN that way ....
Thanks for listing (reading ) and BlkPrince ... I hope that was a good Answer !!!!
Nae | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:47:43 AM | | Why does it matter so much to some people about race and all that? I was raised in a small town too...so what?? I've read both pages, and I still haven't found the answer. Why make such a big thing out of it? We all bleed the same color, we're all facing the same end, we were all born the same way. What makes a ****ing difference about color?? Love is color blind, and so am I. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:51:42 AM | @Wooded!!
You are some fusion - you even have a bit of me wonderful just goes to show as you say very well - most of us are already mixed (like that) | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 11:00:32 AM | Thank you Sweety , But you know its the truth ...Most of us already have more in us then we might even know So , I was Just layin it on the Line ...MIXED RACE ...HEHEEH WE ALL ARE !!!! | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:50:17 PM |
Hello people i am new to the site but i have one question, its about interacial relationships, and if there is a problem with them in this day and age and if there is a problem define the problem and why is it a problem.
The reason iam asking this is because i have looked at alot of profiles of women and all seem to want a one good man, but i would like to know does color matter. I mean if you are alone and searching for someone should color matter or should the content of the soul and character should matter most just a thought let me know.
Depends on the person and their upbringing.. To me.. I love every nationality. Sometimes I actually think that girls of different nationalities are more attractive than a lot of the white girls I have met.
here's the thing though. If someone grew up in a racist house or a closed society then they are going to carry prejudices inherent to that microcosm. If you want to break through that, then it is goign to have to be systematic desensitization. Which means for you it will never pay off. You may open their eyes a little and let them see that color is beautiful, but if they were semi-racist in the beginning. then I dont' think you alone can break them of that. it's sad but society is that way. That said, there are plenty of people out there who are not racist and who do not see colors.
As for the way you commented about people on the site or ... the alone and searching part... Alone and searching does not constitute desparation. If they have some bias then being alone and searching is going to make them make huge compromises. Too many people are content with crying about things to possibly give up their "morals" or beliefs. -E | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 5:20:42 PM | I have been in interracial relationships and have never had a problem at all. However, I have met people who have looked for a specific racial type because they think they'll receive something a bit exotic. I hate that kind of attitude! I remember reading some woman's fantasy in a Nancy Friday book, and she was talking about how daring it would be to date a black man - as if he might rape her or something!!! I thought her address should've been provided to the readers so someone could've hunted her down and buried her under a patio somewhere.
Surely in this day and age we know that we're all basically the same. The only distinction is cultural, and those problems are easily sorted, right? I couldn't care less what colour a man's skin is, I just want to know if he's a bast**d or not. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2005 5:40:41 PM | | Why would the color of someones skin be an issue? Wouldnt you be more worried about the color of someones heart? Think about it. If love is found, would it matter if they found someone who only had one arm and one leg? They found love didnt they? Why would it matter if their skin is white? What if their heart is black as night? Shouldnt that be the bigger concern? | |
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