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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 10:03:04 AM | | what really matters is whether a person practices safe sex and whether they get tested regularly. a person can have only one partner resulting in an unwanted pregnancy or catching an STD, whereas another person having had 100 partners could have avoided both by being responsible. when it comes down to it, numbers mean nothing. it's how safe you play which matters from a health standpoint. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:17:36 AM | | to me it matters i would say three after that that puts her in a whole differant catigorey.you ever been out with a girl and every guy in the bar nos her name this isnt cheers they nkow her for a reason then the whispers and she will say there just mad that i wouldnt date them all of them yea write see yea. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/6/2008 6:43:10 PM | | ^^^ 3 guys is your max before a woman becomes "spoiled goods"?! do you hold yourself to equally pure standards? i bloody doubt it. modern times hunny, if you can have a life, so can she...and no woman owes you any justification for it. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:49:43 PM | | I get a little worried when the person has either half or twice as many as I do. I have no idea why. It's not enough for me to make an issue of it. I just draw back a little, then shrug and move on. I show them my papers and request theirs to make sure we're both clean, then practice safe sex. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 7/4/2008 4:11:09 AM | I think the 'whoa, that's a lot" number for men would be 30. For women, I would say its 10 max. Sorry, I know the double standard but its true... its more forgiveable for a man because their standards are usually much much lower than ours. Bottom line, just don't bring with you into a relationship a STD and I really couldn't care less what your number is.  | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 7/4/2008 4:53:54 AM | I think this is a compatability issue really. Those who value sex as something special you only do with someone you're in a long-term relationship with, want someone who shares those views. Those who sleep with as many people as they can, don't mind if their partner has slept around loads.
Personally I never have and never would never ask the question directly so I wouldn't find out anyway - but for someone roughly my age, more than 10 would start to make me concerned.
Its all a bit pointless talking about numbers though, because asking the question opens up a whole can of worms and if you put your partner on the spot like that and they have a lot of history, what are the chances they will answer truthfully anyway? | |
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