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Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 51 | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/23/2005 6:56:05 PM | I generally try NOT to ask that question...I really don't want all the sordid details of past relationships. What matters is the relationship you're in now and whether or not both people are free of STD's.
And what happens when your idea of too many (or not enough) doesn't match the other person's opinion??? | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/23/2005 6:58:20 PM | to quote the great dice clay,if you have to double park your dic* on her as*,like you are waiting in heavy traffic then you might want to find someone else.
to be serious though its just a number,what ever you are comfortable is the number for you.i quit worrying about that years ago and tried to learn the heart of the person. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/23/2005 7:20:09 PM |
sex is so casual these days
Thats exactly the problem. Sex is suposed to mean something instead of just being a casual occurance. I've had sex with 6 partners, and I am ashamed of that. I just expect my next partner to have the same # or less than I have and feal the same way that I do about the # of partners. Thats why I originaly said that I prefered 3 or less. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/23/2005 8:06:04 PM | For some people sex is meaningful and only with a LTR. IMO that percentage is getting smaller and smaller all the time. And it's difficult to find potential partners of the same mindset.
Some people can have sex for sex...it's personal preference whether or not they happen to like casual sex.
It's two totally different things.
I don't think it's something to be ashamed of in any circumstance. But that's also why I asked what happens if your opinions and partner numbers don't match when this discussion comes up. If you have an incredible connection, do you ditch them?? | |
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~iiCe~
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Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 60 | |
| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 10/7/2005 12:39:13 PM | | I don't think the number really matters... every person you are with teaches you something about you... and makes you who you are today... when men ask me that question... I generally respond with the answer "enough to know what I want and what I don't want...." other than that it doesn't matter... | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 10/7/2005 12:50:27 PM | I'm interested to know this as well...
A lot of men get intimidated by numbers.... why?
Some men think of woman as being dirty if they have been with a lot of partners ( experience is good) ... well, some of us think the same too for men.. but if you are in a relationship.. past should stay as past and focus on the present! | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 10/7/2005 4:40:46 PM | | Double digits would seem like a lot to me. Not that it's objectionable or anything like that, just overwhelming. Given my own history, I'd think of sex as rare and distinctive rather than usual or expected. I can imagine someone with a specific list of sex partners, e.g. a first love, had several boyfriends, she was married once, and had a couple of casual flings. But more than that gets hard for me to conceive of. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 10/7/2005 4:45:56 PM | | I don't care about numbers. I care about STD's. if you sleep with 500 hundred people and have zero STDs, you probably are my type of girl. IF you slept with 5 guys and contract an STD, it shows me that you don't care to use a condom. You are not my kind of girl, sorry. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 11/24/2005 3:08:10 AM | | o.o.... **** 4 at one time? No thanks, I don't need my **** to be all loose and rammed with that many**** and shit.--.--." Although, I've been with 2 girls and a guy before at once. O.o XD He's my fiance though, lol... They were just my bestfriends.^_~ | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 11/24/2005 4:31:54 AM | I would say, considering any woman I'm looking for is most likley under 25, 2-3 would be my limit. I'm not looking for a woman who will give herself up after being with a guy for a month or so. I'm looking for a woman who only does it with the one man they love and want to be with. I can accept them making a mistake and being niaive when younger, and even making it twice, but anymore and I'll start wondering if they'll ever get it, or care to. I don't ask of them anymore than I ask myself, though, as I am still proudly a virgin.  | |
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