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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/15/2006 3:31:43 PM | I would not ask because i dont want to be asked. BUT if it did come up it should be before u have sex with that person or u really have no valid reason for asking. 16 for me, and if i have to go througg double that to find the 'one' damnit i will!
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/16/2006 7:14:14 AM | It all depends what you want out of it, right? If a gal's been with guys in the double digits, odds are she knows a thing or two and would be very enjoyable as a casual fling. If I actually had feelings for her though, she'd have to convince me that I wasn't just another link in the chain so to speak. It wouldn't be a deal-breaker, but I don't want to be get emotionally involved with a woman who's gonna move on to the next guy who rattles his zipper at her. That goes without saying I guess.
If she was genuinely into me, a great person, with a great personality, and sexy enough to bag her share of men, her sexual past isn't gonna bother me. Men who are concerned with a woman's sexual past are mostly concerned that at some point she'll be comparing them disfavourably to a guy who rocked her socks off in her past. I'm not saying it's wrong to be concerned about that. Sometimes memories like that can kill an otherwise good relationship if the woman isn't satisfied. The best you can do is work on your technique and try your best to become the guy that other men worry about -- the guy so good she can't even remember her own name and feels reduced to a personified orgasm. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/16/2006 7:31:16 AM | | Who Cares!!!!??? Why do people ask? You don't really want to know! I know better than to ask questions that I don't want to know the answer to. What difference does it make? The past is the past, and as long as I'm the current and the future then nothing else matters. | |
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Darrko
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Joined: 2/16/2006
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 12:17:10 PM |
Number of sexual partners? = That belongs to the past. Past is Past
don't ask them and you won't be offended! - I don't want to know, if they are with me, then as long as they are thinking of me - Mikey
I disagree with that. It's a partner's right to know how many people you've slept with. How many people your girlfriend, or boyfriend, or spouse or *whatever* has slept with, help you to determine how much you should insist that they get tested for anything before you sleep with them.
I wouldn't be offended, I'd be thankful that they were honest enough to tell me. *shrug* | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 12:22:56 PM | A recent, and very short, boyfriend of mine was insane.
He strongly believed he was a vampire, had been alive for centuries, and therefore he constantly talked about the 'over 90 girlfriends' he'd had.
And there's so much fun in that story that I won't get into it.  | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 2:55:21 PM | Krazy Kar One is too many and they should be checked before you go bare back on him so why does the exact number even have get into it. Because one time with the wrong person is all it takes and that one person could very well be their first. So why do you need the number? | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 3:05:48 PM | More than twice my number, which is less then 10, gets my interest in why so many have been 'loved'.
I try to figure out if there is a lover preference progression or just the same mistake repeated endlessly. I listen for the words 'I learned' when talking with someone who has had more lovers than I. It usually tells me that they are quite uncomfortable being alone or independent. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 3:12:21 PM | | At nearly 20 years of age, I have slept with 6. Do I push for sex, no. It just happens sometimes in relationships, and none of the girls I have slept with would I ever concitter sleeping with again. Mainly because four of them are friends. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 3:12:53 PM | | At nearly 20 years of age, I have slept with 6. Do I push for sex, no. It just happens sometimes in relationships, and none of the girls I have slept with would I ever concitter sleeping with again. Mainly because four of them are friends. The other two hurt me so badly that I can't even look at them anymore. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/17/2006 4:12:53 PM |
Krazy Kar One is too many and they should be checked before you go bare back on him so why does the exact number even have get into it. Because one time with the wrong person is all it takes and that one person could very well be their first. So why do you need the number?
This is true. But I just think that if you're in a relationship and you trust them, why *not* tell them the exact number. If you lie, it means you're trying to hide it and that you don't full trust that person. Then you need to work on the relationship. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/18/2006 12:44:16 AM | Two college sophmores at the University of Texas just finished having sex. The young man turns to his partner and ask her, "am I the first man you ever had sex with?"
She looks at him for a moment, studying his face, and then responds "you might be, were you in Chicago during the Summer of 1999?"
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 5/18/2006 12:59:58 AM | The way i see it even if she's been with alot in the past, she's with me now and i can't stop pleasing her and she comes back for more of my sweet sweet lovin so i must be doing something right..... right? but i did hear some buzzing noises coming from the bathroom afterwards.... awwwweee dang it i suck. ROFL
PS: obviously the above is a joke so laugh people. but seriously number of partners matters to some and not to others it depends on their morals and belief system. | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 6/3/2006 10:29:28 PM | O-T-B - HAHA, thats great. I think double digits, not soooo good. BUt hey, I dunno. Sex is goood and I am soooo missing it right now...I should probably not post that in a forum, BUt what the hay, women like sex too guys.
Krazy Kar - Its not your parteners RIGHT to know how many people you've been with. Its their right to know if you have any funky diseases, but its not their RIGHt. And nobody should ask the question to begin with, Who wants to think about their guy or girl sleeping with that many other people? Just keep it between you and the other person, thats all that counts | |
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| Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 6/14/2006 6:40:58 AM | would you think that a man who is 35 and has slept with 132 women has a problem ? would you consider this man to be able to settle down with one woman? would you women marry this man and be able to trust him?
would you men marry a woman who has slept with 211 men? would you think shes a good girl or a sex addict?
men who drink to much have a problem and people who have no problem in sleeping around this much have a problem. | |
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troy7
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Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 224 | |
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