| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:01:47 PM |
Bashing men who will not date single mom's does not help your cause ladies.
Bashing single moms does not help your cause, Johne. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/5/2008 2:59:48 PM | | Single mom's need to realize some men ()yes reale men) prefer not to date women with children. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/5/2008 5:39:00 PM | | Thank you, Johne, for coming full circle to the very beginning of your rant. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/5/2008 6:53:58 PM |
Single mom's need to realize some men ()yes reale men) prefer not to date women with children.
The ones that half at least brain in their heads REALIZE it, Johne.....Do you seriously think WE are THAT dense.... | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:27:29 AM | *looking round for real men* Nope cant see any, not with the balls to admit that they might be wrong, anyway.
Johne, I find it interesting that you need to spread your opinions on this topic across two threads! | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:46:37 AM | | Yo, princess where your kids ' fathers balls???????????He only manned up when he was doing the deed with you and then what ?? You took his seed willingly and buggered off. Good for him and all us non men who most likely avoid you at all costs. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/6/2008 11:27:21 AM | Their he is again Mr kidding himself with his pointless rubbish remarks, did your mummy take your dummy away from u abit too early??
Stop pretending your on some save the victimised male mission, most the men in these forums are decent, respectful, knowledgeable men.
Ill give you a bit of advice as i am starting to feel a bit sorry for you now. Would you go and ring your mother and have a long chat to her about your childhood and what she done so terribly wrong to you for you to hate woman like this. Im sure youll find the answer your seeking. All this time your sprawling the forums lookin for woman to abuse will be saved.
Good luck on your mission
All my love missmichmich
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/6/2008 11:37:44 AM | Trust me it's not about hating women for I have always contended that there too many men who are more than willing to plant the seeds and run.
But men can't get pregnant so unless the two of had a discussion about haqving a child then I truly believe the ball was in your court.
Single parent homes are not in the best interests of children and when both genders get around to REALLY thinking about that instead of just getting some then maybe we will be onto something.
So it's about the kids not you.
I have two sisters who were single moms, one was lucky enough to find a good man, one was not.
And even though the one who married raised her son well with the help of a large family network, the boy still has feelings of resentment for never knowing his real bio father. So I do have a lot more personal experiences about this than you may care to acknowledge.
And seeing as you are from the UK, I am weel aware of the fight that Bob Geldof has been waging for years and only now are we starting to see a little change.
Read a few more threads here and realize you are very far from being the only one with your circumstances and if you need some to hold your hand call your mom. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/6/2008 12:05:52 PM | mr kidding himself
As i have said in other threads to you, Men r equally responsible for pregnancy as the woman.
(Dummy version of facts for the hard of learning)..>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Man and Woman have sex, the condom splits.
Woman has a coil fitted, she falls pregnant anyway.
Woman falls pregnant while taking the mini pill
In what one of these situations was the woman more to blame than the man?? Are you going to say to me the woman should know of these risks, but a man may not??
I know woman are naturally better at multitask but aint that a bit much to put on just her??
Abortion is not even an option for alot of woman. So why (other than because the words came out of your mouth) are men not as responsible as the woman for the child??
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:58:57 PM | LMAO, prime time viewing this is!
Mr Kiddingyourself (completely agree with ur name btw)
Try thinking alog the lines of marriage, children, marriage breakdown. Not that its ANY of your business!
Please, do not judge. Its pathetic to see in a grown man.
Let me guess, you walked away from your own kids and you have tried to shirk the responsibility of your actions ever since. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:54:09 PM | | Getting back to answering the original question of this thread...dating a single mom can be more complicated than dating a woman without children. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/7/2008 6:00:18 PM | | Wow, Johne.... We didn't know what your position on the original topic was. Thanks for clearing that up for us... for the 400th fricking time. OCD much? | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/7/2008 6:00:53 PM | I don't really get the issue. It's a problem for some guys, not for others. So ... : obviously the ones for whom it is a problem don't belong with single mums ...
horses, water ... | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/7/2008 9:54:58 PM | | Johne, do you spend much time with your shrink talking about this. Is it that all you do is go from single mom thread from one to another over and over and preach your vile hatred. Are you so low that this is all you have in your life. Your a very small person. Bigoted with no sense of compassion. You are lower than pond scum. There is nothing you add to the human race. I thought we were rid of your kind 50 years ago. Thank God canada is stuck with you Bob | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:46:02 AM | Desertrhino, atleast 2 of your posts that I have read this morning have had me in fits of giggles! I love your dry sarcasm! | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 9:00:50 AM | You can have compassion without dating someone, ytou can ave friends who ar single mom's without fewtting romantically involved which would risk legal and financial problems.
Some men will..some men won't and single mom's should accept that. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 12:33:43 PM | | Well I am new here and not really sure about posting this after reading all of the previous arguing but here goes. I was in a relationship for 11 years when he passed away almost three years ago. We have a child. I recently started thinking of attempting to date again but have realized that I am completely confused by the entire process. It has been 14 years since my last date. I am not sure how to talk to other men, or how they will react to my special little piece of "baggage" as people would call a child, heck I don't even know if anyone else can/will find me attractive anymore. It is all just very confusing. If anyone out there could give me some advice I would really appreciate it. Thanks. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/9/2008 1:53:15 PM | ^^^^^My advice?
DONT LISTEN TO A WORD THE MEN THAT POST ON HERE SAY!!!!!
Its a load of crap. Most of the men on here tend to come from broken relationships and have had bad experiences, and some seem very keen to take revenge on the rest of woman kind. You are attractive, build your confidence and work on you before you come anywhere near a site like this. Good luck xxx | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/9/2008 2:26:32 PM | Hey, you forgot to add "modhammer, modhammer, modhammer".
But it's a great advice: Don't listen to men talking about how men react to dating single mothers. What do they know anyway? They're just... men. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:03:28 PM | | lol, oh my johnne we dont want to date you no more than you want to date us dude so move on already. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:25:14 PM | | I have dated single mothers and have discovered that they typically don't have any time for you. They spend most of their time with their kids, including on weekends. You have to take a backseat to the kids, not much of a relationship... | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/9/2008 11:11:56 PM |
Some men will..some men won't and single mom's should accept that
Oh no, the voices in my head are starting again...Make them stop!!  | |
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Posted: 6/10/2008 5:58:30 AM | Rock hunter, I take it you havent found a rock to crawl under yet? You do make me laugh. I am assuming you are right, that you are a man? Quite possibly not. Never know since you choose not to show your picture.
But it's a great advice: Don't listen to men talking about how men react to dating single mothers. What do they know anyway? They're just... men.
Right, so can you give me one example of a positive thing that either you, Johne or sailguy (who is under a different name now) has ever said about dating single mothers that wont make that poor woman run for the hills screaming? Nothing? Thought not.
After all, you are all regular posters on these forums and you are all the kind of men I was talking about. All everyone on here seems to do is argue with the 3 of you about whether your opinions actually count for something in this world!!! Very little is given on the OP.
So heres my view;
I think men are great. I think women are great. I think children are great. I think all vulnerable groups and all races are great. Are you catching my drift?
It doesnt matter.
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Posted: 6/10/2008 6:22:58 AM | I can't speak for Johne or Sailguy, I can speak only for me.
Positive things? Well, what about "you can get a man, if you work hard enough for it". Or "make sure that the advantages of dating you overcome the disadvantages". Simple common sense, which looks like something that is sorely missed in certain places.
My point is, as always: Single parents (yeah, I'm including myself) are in disadvantage in the dating world. It's true, and no amount of shouts and mockery will change that. We can tackle this problem in two ways:
a) Improve yourself and become attractive to a potential mate.
b) Complain endlessly and bash your target in the hope of shaming them to date you.
For those who choose a), congratulations. For those who choose b), good luck with your cats.
In the end, I think that for somebody who really wants to find someone, my advice and opinions are more useful than the sugarcoated illusion that most "you're great, men are idiots if they don't date you" advocates favor.
Oh, and you'd better show some originality in your taunts. I really expected more from you. | |
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| Men dating single mothers
Posted: 6/10/2008 8:09:01 AM | I have said that if single mom's want to date they need to show that they do not fall into the stereotypes of single mother's.
Some men will date a single mom and some won't. I fall into the second category because I have had bad experiences dating single moms and live in a place where I could end up with a court order to pay child support for an ex step child.....sorry too risky for me. | |
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