| CT girls
Posted: 7/22/2006 4:58:09 AM | | So where are all these 50ish CT men who truly want a relationship. The ones I have met say that in their profile but in reality they are either married or have been there-done that and now they just really want that "relationship" to take place over the course of a (if I am lucky) 3 hour and never a Saturday night date. Please tell me WHERE ARE THEY???????? | |
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pec
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Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 27 | |
| CT girls
Posted: 7/28/2006 7:30:58 PM | | The title of this post is misleading.. I thought if I checked out this topic.. I would meet "CT girls".. that would have been nice.. instead its a CT Girl bashing topic.. I have nothing bad to say about girls from connecticut.. I would like to know more of them :D | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 8/30/2006 1:25:03 PM | | I would agree with my esteemed coleague..Connecticut woman, are very cautious, and with good reason, I have also found them to be extremely spontaneous, and adventurous...it takes the right man to breakdown thier considerable defenses usually representing past failed relationships...and when thats achieved..success is in the books..as they say...Jazz baby! | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 10/19/2006 9:55:06 AM | Okay guys I'm not a "girl" anymore but I'm quite insulted by your comments. I was born and raised in CT. I left for 8 1/2 years and was in the Navy, came back and now live here again. I'm not stuck up and shallow. Now is that 1) because I'm not a "girl" anymore 2) I left CT for quite a few years or 3) you all are blaming the women because you haven't found someone?
I have to say I've met quite a few CT and MA men on this site and have become very good friends with some. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/1/2007 11:21:18 AM | | The last 3 dates I have been on say that they are not permisquis,but after 2-3 hours I am taking their shirt off. Is their any honorable women left? I love sex and even on he first date it can turn out to be a long term thing. I get stuck up snobs or sluts or bi-polars is their any in betweens. I know..you just are looking in the wrong places. If you are not 3 of the above fairly attractive then contact me. Im with jayh on this one. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/1/2007 1:33:52 PM | ^^^^^^^^^
And why is that? Are they holding a gun to your head.... and does this only happen in CT??
Yes there are honorable women left. I am sure the woman who have you take their shirts off dont expect that to be a deal breaker.
And as you pointed out... women are damned if they do and damned if they dont. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/3/2007 8:26:00 AM | | i think u might want to take a closer look at what u r looking for and where. i do not wear make-up but i don't need it so fake. i have no children. am more concerned with looks then personality but then again despite the fact i was born here i was not raised here. what all people need to understand both male and female is money is not that important on the grand scale of things. please do not trash us girls like that becuase there are some really great ones out there. from a reverse prospective why do most the men only want sex? | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/3/2007 8:28:36 AM | | oh and the comments about being biolar r wrong wrong wrong. understand the disease before u trash the catagory there is many forms of bipolar. some do not even require meds. education is the equivelent of knowledge not what ur friends told u. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/7/2007 12:50:33 PM | thats not true.
Its guys that say that and then all they want is a one night stand or f buddy | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/7/2007 12:51:19 PM | get to know me
i am a CT girl and i am single with no kids and no games | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 1/24/2007 7:49:09 AM | OUCH!!!! WOW!
Can you really base all of this disapproval on just a few women you have dated, There must be at least 1000 women on here who live in Connecticut...Give them a chance, Not all of us are that hard! | |
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pec
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Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 37 | |
| CT girls
Posted: 2/10/2007 9:06:20 AM | Hmmm
A group is not the individual and the individual is not the group.
That's easy. there is no such things as "why do all men.." or "why do all women?" I can't say it is impossible that a group or gender may have some common traits, but it is clear that you would have to interview or at least interact with EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM to make an accurate analysis.. Since it is doubtful that anyone will do this it makes it all speculation and speculation (although might be recreational conversation) is a waste of energy and thought since no conclusion can ever be made.. For me I just like to remember that there is no such thing as male or female.. those things are just surface.. illusion.. meat.. just a container.. this makes it easy to treat everyone equally.. it also helps not to get me all confused between a nice container.. and a nice sentient being.. (ie. good illusion on the outside doesn't mean good stuff on the inside) | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 2/24/2007 12:28:14 PM | errrr.... ummmm.... Can't we all just get along?
I mean come on!!!! no matter where you go its all the same, just different faces... Man or woman!
There are still plenty of women that you have not met yet, so generalized statements have no value!
C~ | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 2/25/2007 10:42:36 PM | All joking aside, I think there's more "stuck up" men and women in the richest state in the US. Often money can lead to having a stuck up attitude, just look at actors that flip out over their trailer being smaller than theor co-star. Not always, but often with money comes a feeling superiority.
If you go down south the people are a lot nicer. More humble. They say hi when you walk by for no reason than to just be friendly. If you say hi to a man walking by in CT he thinks you're about to rob him or you're gay. If you say hi to a women she looks at you like you're trying to get into her pants. In my experience CT people in general need to take the stick out of their butts. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 2/26/2007 4:48:40 AM | | Thats because men in CT (and of course not ALL) dont walk by and say Hello.. they whistle... cat call... and make rude remarks. If someone genuinely said "good day" to me I would not feel threatened. Also CT men do tend to be homophobic.. or maybe they are just sizing up the competition... who knows. I had to go out of state to find a good guy. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 2/28/2007 4:15:46 PM | Hey,
I'm nice, and none of you "CT Girls" even give me a second glance......
I even have a job, a home, no substance-abuse issues, and am void of a police record.
Sure, I'm not Brad Pitt, but if I were, I'd not be here, right ?
DavidBryan
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| CT girls
Posted: 2/28/2007 6:22:19 PM | I guess we all expect people to have common manners:
to look you in the eyes when they speak to you
to hold the door if you are walking in behind them or vise versa
to extend a smile and hello to a passer by
to say please and thank you
etc...
They say the grass is always greener on the other side... so CT women are snobs and CT men are equally as snobby... either way ... it the same on both sides..
snob, snobs, snobbier, snobbiest
wow that word looks so funny!
When I was in phone sales many moons ago.. I spoke with Corporate heads from all over the US and Canada.. Most disrespectful was Canada and PR, Most impatient was NY, NC and VA, friendliest was the southern states, most laid back was CA, CO... while the most Horned out men were Midwest and NY.. (oh you would not believe the comments I got from men.. anything from "wow, are you sure I called ******* and not a 900 line?" to " I never expected to feel so aroused by ordering something" just EWWWW!!!! Of course I always had some quick wit comment but never RUDE!
AND when you travel... Everyone seems nice only because you are NEW to that area.. If you lived there for some time you would notice that there are snobs and rude people every where.
I have all those manners I said above and then much more! Please dont put ALL WOMEN in the generalized group of RUDENESS..!
C~ | |
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Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 43 | |
| CT girls
Posted: 3/5/2007 2:07:40 PM | As far as snobby goes.. I have to say it is just another form of clinging.. using the camper example.. it comes from clinging and grasping at a false sense of self.. mixed with a concept of competition and you get tantrums.. clinging at a false self is the same as desire in the sense that it leads to confusion about .. reality (for lack of a better word) and leads to your own suffering etc.. I know you don't need me to babble all of this.. I guess I just enjoy thinking out loud..
Unhappiness comes to those who think themselves the center of the universe. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 3/18/2007 11:39:42 AM | | I wasn't born around here, nor did i grow up here. I have been in the west and the south, and it does seem like people dance to a different drum around here. Not sure if it's shallow or stuck up, might be more that they just haven't been outside long enough to learn how to fly. Might be some conservative traditional influences. I donno ... | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 3/25/2007 7:18:36 PM | It's not just the women it's the men as well. They can be just as shallow and stuck up.
I moved here just about a year ago, and have the same issues finding people to hang out with in the area. Men and women alike. The few that I did find to hang out with were actually from my state of origin close to 1300 miles away!
So I think everyone needs to take a step back and think, "Hmm is it them or me?"
Let the flaming begin. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 4/15/2007 1:40:47 PM | Tell all the mean chicks holla at me I'm 23 and got plenty of length an stamina.   | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 4/16/2007 2:04:20 PM | | If we had more in common, GS, I'd hang out with you. I'd love to find a cool girl to hit a club or something with, be it a date or just sharing company. You just have to find the right guy. We're out there. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 4/29/2007 11:44:15 AM | | Even i recently moved from ohio to CT here. But here the girls are not good. | |
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| CT girls
Posted: 5/2/2007 9:56:22 AM | I went out with a guy once that I met online.
He told me how all woman are stalkers and he kept having to call the police on these girls.
I could see that he was treating these woman in a way that made them act this way.
I know tons of 30 or 40- something women. Girls this age are very strong and "together".
before to complain about "all CT women" make sure you are treating them right. | |
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jg65
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Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 50 | |
| CT girls
Posted: 8/29/2007 9:18:08 PM | Yup..I live here, I know...
lotta game playin no not what they are seekin' or what they are seekin chicks...except for two or three on the ct site...maybe 4 | |
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