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Posted: 9/27/2005 9:42:57 AM | | dunno is this is still a prob as it's an old thread, but read it earrlier and then I went to the dr. phil site and thought of you when I saw this: drphil.com, look at the friday show. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 8:24:04 PM | you slay me norolim!!1 
hey alli... love the screen name by the way... do us lazy folks a favor and tell us about the dr. phil show from friday. ;) | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 8:44:06 PM | | oh I remember having to deal with some pretty mean girls in public school, only cause they, like most people were going through puberty but that did not give them a excuse too be really rude and b/tchy too us undeserving guys. I had to deal with a few of them who were just aweful. I learned to ignore them though and just told them to go find someone else who is willing to take their abuse cause I wasnt going too. Now, I work with some women who are a pain in the butt, they persist too make work as complicated as possible even though my job is extremely easy, just exhausting and they make that worse. Just gotta deal with it is all I can say. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 8:53:20 PM |
hell, id tell them to f*ck off...or beat them up! I had a bully in 8th grade and she gave me sh*t for no reason, so I solved it by beating her prissy little a$$...needless to say, she(and her friends) never messed with me again
That reminds me a lot like myself when I was in public school. I got picked on a lot up until the 8th grade, by then I started fighting back more and beating up people who messed with me. By that time though I had 4 years of karate under my belt even though I never actually used it, but I did know how to defend myself and had the strength and courage to stand up too my enemies. Evidently though people got the message by the 8th grade that I wasnt too be screwed with cause I was a mean little boy to them, my teachers didnt care cause they knew they couldnt stop me or the bullies from causing hell. Thankfully they finally got the message and just left me alone. Starting highschool though was funny though, there was one guy who was a year older than me that persisted to make my highschool life miserable. So what did I do? I pummeled him one day cause he was making fun of me when I was at my locker, which was right out side the principals office but I still beat him good. All I got was a single dentention even though I caused a lot of bleeding and wounding to the enemy. Now, no one messes with me thankfully so there are no problems. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
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Posted: 9/27/2005 9:16:06 PM | point at the wiggly thing on there arm when they wave.
I had a guy that use to blast me all the time with great put downs.. I ended up learning a thing or two and now can hold my own.. funny thing was we ended up being friends! LOL | |
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Posted: 9/29/2005 12:51:17 PM | ^ aint it funny how it often works out like jimi said...friends.....
some folk just gotta test our mettle a lil bit afore they make up thier minds about us...an then theres them kind thas just gotta have someone ta bully or thier dance card aint full ....when i was in high school i was still spendin ever weekend in tha woods huntin an fishin or huntin arrowheads....an ya dont face these issues in tha woods...
course another thing ta consider is how you see yerself in this picture....fer instance, i had my friends in school an sech, but in talkin ta someone tha other day, she mentioned that some folk thought i was kinda strange ahangin out in tha woods and bein spiritual an stuff....bein backwoods and alone alot didnt help much either...hah! in my mind i was kinda popular to my way of thinkin..... sooooo, op, how do ya see yerself in this picture.....an if its negative, well, then girlfriend, do a flip an start seein a positive picture....see ifn you can visulize it actually comin to pass...at least yer mindframe will be better fer it..... | |
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Joined: 6/27/2005
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Posted: 9/29/2005 6:00:31 PM | well i would
say practical Jokes are good ... like epoxy their briefcase shut..
or like tack on the seat...
or .... or .. or...
wait a minute sounds like i'm the bully here.. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2005 6:34:30 PM | BadKitty: I think I've seen the Dr Phil show she's talking about. He talks about kids who get bullied so badly that they have to leave school, but THEN it moves into cyber space and the girl can't even go online without some of the mean girls harassing her there. It talks about 8 year olds and 9 year olds committing suicide because the bullying is so bad, school kids actually encouraging kids to "just go kill yourself", stuff like that. It was pretty damn bad. The self esteem of some of these kids is just shattered beyond repair.
It's easy for us as adults to say to ignore them. But I remember being bullied all through school and even took to cutting myself (transfering emotional pain into physical which I was much better equipped to handle). I'd considered suicide many many times in my school years, but because my parents didn't believe I was serious and was only looking for attention, had to deal with it myself.
And kids are a lot worse now than they were then. A lot worse.
I can't believe how mean people can be. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2005 7:14:39 PM | | get a new job | |
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Posted: 9/29/2005 7:15:19 PM | | you talking to me, Unspoiled? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2005 7:58:36 PM | I draw them into carefully preconceived intellectual puzzles that seem like really simple and straightforward problems but in actuality more complex then they seem, little do they know I already cased the situation out and like a trap door spider, lie in wait to make said bully look like a retard in front of all his friends. The other thing is teach them how to use a word the wrong way (bullies are often stupid), so that they go around telling people what an idiot they are all over the place. If some variation on the theme of mental humiliation is not possible then I try to get them to hit me so that I can “protect myself”….
But then that is how I deal with boy bullies I have no idea how that helps with a girl bully. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 1:20:06 PM | Well this topic has helped me a little. On that note...
One of the ladies that used to work here was stupid enough to send a message out from a general mailbox to herself, but she was not smart enough or computer savy enough to know that anything you send is held in the sent items. lol I got to read her letter stating the reason she was leaving was because of me and my behaivior. Im sure my boss thought she was extremly mature for writing that. She even spelt my first and last name wrong.
Talk about a good laugh.
Oh well one bully gone only a few left. Hope somthing good becomes available in a different department. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 7:08:16 PM | hey that means tha odds are gettin more in yer favor girlfriend!
now jus keep whittlin them on down... an keep that positive attitude...its heavy duty ammo on yer side! | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 7:48:35 PM | Simple...I'd quit...life's too short for such nonesense...and now I work with a great bunch of people  I love where I work  | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:17:35 PM | | Interesting input on mean girls Just imagin if we didn't have mean people maybe we wouldnt realize how nice it is to experiance common courtisy and politeness. Stand up tall " body language" Keep a stiff upper lip find the key within yourself to unlock the feelings YOU feel in order to free yourself from the influance of these "mean" girls. Change jobs if you cant stand this . | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 12:21:07 AM | missmuah
you need need to make an example of one of them...
next time you get picked on by them
-pick the smallest of the bullies
-and hit her several times......really hard
then look at the rest of the bullies and say
"the next biatch that f*cks with me is going to to look worse than this
piece of sh*t on the floor"
then walk away.
just my 2 cents
that is what I would do
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Posted: 10/4/2005 6:15:38 AM | norolim... thanks for updating me on that. i've heard quite a bit about this plague of bullying that's been going on these days and there are even web sites set up to combat the problem. schools are starting to take a "no tolerance" approach to this sort of behavior and in my eyes, they should. this is where and when the bully learns to perfect their nasty behavior and it ought to be stopped at the first sign. if my son had been a bully, i would have had him suspended from school... this isn't a behavior i would ever tolerate from my child. he's now 17 but at grade school age, he never really had a problem with bullies or being a bully. we just happend to get lucky.
bullying in the work place is a totally different sandbox though... and more often times than not... it's better to just walk away. would you really want to be friends with people that treat people that way? i know i wouldn't. do you really want to work in a place that condones that sort of behavior in their employees? i wouldn't... i'd just feel like i was in line to get s-c-r-e-w-e-d over by management. i'd sign up for every temp agency in the area and start working for as many companies as i could in order to find the perfect work place for me. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 11:46:46 PM | One thing to always remember about mean people, especially girls, is that 9 times out of 10 they're jealous. I know it sounds like something your mom would tell you,(actually my mom DID tell me this) but I swear its true. Chances are that its as simple a fact as you're cool and theyre not and they know it and it pisses them off. Just remind yourself that you rock and they suck.
Or you could go with what my dad told me when I was having trouble with kindergarten bullies. Find a beer bottle, smash the end on a rock and GRIND IT INTO THEIR FACES!!! Either way, you'll feel better. | |
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Joined: 7/28/2005
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Posted: 10/16/2005 8:31:48 AM | | Wigglepup, you are a MEAN GIRL! LOL | |
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Posted: 10/16/2005 8:36:14 AM | | 5 against one? that kinda sucks | |
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Posted: 10/16/2005 3:55:16 PM | | watch your back Snow! I know where you live....kinda...but you'll be here soon and YA GOTTA SLEEP SOMETIME!!! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2005 3:59:29 PM | | Just ignore them and act with dignity and be a goiod person and they will respect you eventually. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2005 4:25:33 PM | I've never had a bully, work or school.
In grade 3 a girl threatend to beat me up. I started crying and she invited me over for a sleep over.
U should try it, it works. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2005 6:55:23 PM | | 5???? Ummm how are there 5? That's an awful unusual amount of bullies. And what exactly do they do that makes you see them as "bullies"? | |
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:53:19 AM | | I worked with two loveley females and they really pissed me off. Liars, shit talkers you name it. Sadly though when I began to know more about them they were just whores, had drug dealing boyfriends and probablly were prostitutes on the side seriously. You gotta feel sorry for people that are so mad that they don't know what to do with themselves. I don't know if you are nice to them but, you might want to try to be. When one of them is alone and is in a softer mood just try being nice. The one that is the queen bitach, let her think you respect her. They want respect and think that you look down upon them, because they are such losers in life in thier own eyes. However you notice that one or two are the toughest, they are the ones that are calling the shots the others are just followers. When you actually submit to the mean ones and do what they want , they will lose thier cover and take it out on thier friends. Eventually people get tired of having biatch friends and if you treat them better they will be your groupies. I personally have a temper though, so when those two chicks got me annoyed I could not stop being annoyed and hated everyone! So love em, one left beacuse she said you did it, because the one or two head girls said you are such a biatch and convinced the followers like her. I mean what have done? If nothing, one of them really probablly wants your acceptance and because she knows you are not such an emotional freak that will understand why she has issues with someone she doesn't even know, she hates on you. Love those that hate on you because they just want you to help them, somehow. Maybe even go when they invite you out and just be cool, they may be wild bar chicks just me the mom then. | |
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