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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/13/2008 7:19:08 PM |
Indeed, those who are overweight incapable of facing reality.
I think you got it wrong....you seem to be the one with a problem...yourself. | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/13/2008 7:27:29 PM | The funny thing about some of the comments in this thread are that they are made by someone claiming to be a man, prefers not to say what his body size is and doesn't have a picture posted. Let's see a pic of the person making this statements and see if he is all that.  | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/13/2008 7:46:21 PM | it seems that lucky vet thinks that "constructive conversation" is to be destructive in his comments...it doesn't take much intelligence to generalize prejudices, as he has so well proven.
At least he didn't state that he was looking for intelligent conversation in his profile, it doesn't seem he's capable of intelligent thought. | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/13/2008 7:46:22 PM | Call me a BBW... like tpot said.. I could care less...
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.... some men say I am too big for them.. that is when I say "NEXT"
I don't need someone like that in my life --- life is too short to put up with that.. and I wouldn't even be a friend to someone if they were like that... we ALL have shortcomings...
I do have to say this though --- I am NOT attracted to skinny men.. or men that are shorter than my self... I may think they are nice looking and I would enjoy being friends and hanging out... but that is NOT my preference-- like Tomfish said... all a matter of choice... and the last time I looked, I do live in the USA .. it is all about choices.
oh wait, I can lose weight BUT stupid & ugly , you just can't fix!! He must be fugly because I see NO pic... and it is a well know fact, if you are talking about someone else it is only to try and make yourself look good... that is why we see NO pic... gotta love it!
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/14/2008 7:23:38 AM | Susie is that you girl did i miss something you changed ur name.....lol
anyway i agree that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and if you can not accept me for who i am and look past the outside and really learn about me then NEXT!!!! be gone with you and your negativity. I totally agree that we all have our short commings. You never know what you might miss if you dont learn about the person within!!!
For some of us it is an ongoing battle to lose weight so dont judge until you walk a day in my world. That is if you are lucky enough to be allowed into my world.Cause you know my world is pretty fun!
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/14/2008 11:23:33 AM | | I have to say amen to both Susie and butterfly. Call me a bbw or even obese, I don't care. I know who I am both inside and out and for those that don't want to get to know me inside and only see the outside, that is their problem not mine. I am very happy in my body and anyone who can't accept me as I am is not worth my time. | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/14/2008 5:37:48 PM | Not to mention that this guy is also married. Married, no pic, no body stlye... now that makes you go hummmmmm and I would have to guess a liar also. I say liar because I know that if I were happily married as it claims to be... I wouldn't be surfing a singles site, I'd be surfing the curves of my woman I was happily married to. Happily married equals no time for single site forums, unless your looking to cheat. I as all men and women have my own preferences. Different things turn on and turn off people. Different things flip those switches in a person's head that says oh yeah . Now I can and will be friends with anyone no matter what size or color as long as our personalities and sense of humors can get along . Men and women can be just friends. Just because I talk to a woman or hang out with a woman doesn't mean I am banging her or want to bang her .  | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 4/14/2008 5:49:19 PM | Gummi you are a hoot.... gotta luv ya!
Yeah it is me... I am in hiding though but when you start that talking about bbw.....it is hard for me to keep my mouth shut.
Again, preference... let it go dude and go take you wife to dinner or a movie!! What a loser of a husband ...  | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 5/26/2008 11:50:39 PM | ^Pale? But the B is for black right? j/k
sorry for bumping this old thread,but I'm bored.
I worked at a Harrah's Casino floor for a year and once in a while I'll go to a bar and I can mostly definitely say STL guys(normal size) do date BBW,now for STL women(normal size) who date "BBM" is nonexistent.(from what I seen) | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 6/7/2008 10:05:53 PM |
A BBW wanted to hurt me down there and do all kinds of Strange things to me
I think what you meant to say was "A crazy chic wanted to hurt me down there and do all kinds of Strange things to me."
I doubt being a BBW has anything to do with her being a psycho hosebeast. I meet skinny crazy biotches all the time!
Now for the question you know I must ask...
Did ya let her?
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 6/8/2008 5:13:30 AM | True "most men"(90%) are as shallow as a snakes belly is low to the ground that is a fact as they want women who fit the exquisite model design of built for speed and they do not want alot extra potatoes with their meat nor mileage on the car.....alot of those bone heads are missing out on alot of great personalities imo.
It is not the size of the woman nor her age that is important to me nor ever has been but it is the trueness of her heart and mind and where those two things are really at that gets my look. If her heart and mind are not right then how can she truly be right in the world. I'm not saying all women are messed up in their hearts and minds(us men are just as bad) but there are shallow women as well to go right along with the shallow male population as well and it is too bad more of those could not hook up but God help us all if they were ever allowed to breed to produce more of the same.
Too many times in our world today people want that perfect looking woman or that perfect looking guy but that is fine for them but for me I would rather date the "wall flower types" as I have found they have the warmest and deepest of personalities I have ever found in my dating experiences and it does not matter big,small,short or tall old or young it is that deep heart and mind personality that will keep me interested for that long run.
Oh well I type to much but that is just me....peace out. | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 6/8/2008 3:35:43 PM | | In defense of the Big men on here, its not only the men when it comes to dating or not wanting to date a larger person. I have read many female profiles that say things like, I keep myself in shape so i want a man that does too, I also read one that said she doesnt want a man that looks like hes in his third tri-mester, I also read one that said, if u cant bend down and tie your shoes dont message me! So its not just a male thing, there r a lot of females that dont want large men as well. But i look at it like anything else in life its a matter of preference. I got myself jumped all over by a few ladies for saying its being shallow minded, so i would have to say looking at it from another perspective, its a matter of choice and personal preference, which everyone has the right to have!! | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 6/24/2008 10:10:47 AM | meowzie some guys call it their "tool shed" but I wonder what women call it when they have one too?
Back on topic: BBW's are and can be sweet just like any other person in life.  | |
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| Spin off Shallow Men: BBW Admirers or FA's Posted: 6/24/2008 10:17:45 AM | hwp = height and weight proportionate
lmao@ tool shed! Mine is my 90-pound tumor. (Heard the story of the woman who had a 90-pound tumor removed from her stomach? I'm SURE that's what mine is and not too many chips...... ) | |
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