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Posted: 10/1/2005 10:39:38 AM | I hate using condoms, but i'm no fool either. I would always use condoms unless I have a long-term GF and we've both been tested.
That being said i've always been clean! | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:08:38 PM | | ***holes like that keep abortion clinics very busy, or just wait till he has 8 kids and has no money because of child support........but then again he i sprobably a dead beat and wouldnt take care of any of them | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:10:18 PM | | No there more likely to cheat when ur married lol Kidding! As long as ur on birth controll and trust the person! If u don't trust them, then why are u with them to begin with????? | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:14:39 PM | | hey jdbaby keep hating condoms when your trading stds like trading cards and you cant figure out why you have 5 kids and ??????the guy never wants to pull out???? | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:15:47 PM | | it doesnt matter how much you trust them everybody has a secret | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:25:20 PM | simasimic: you have more fuking problems than I can even begin to tackle in this thread. Holy. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 8:38:39 PM | I HATE THEM!!!!!!!!
But force myself to use them EVERY TIME | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 12:09:41 AM | | I agree, condoms just are not very enjoyable. It is a real problem as to how to proceed. You have to use judgement and be careful. I suppose that anal would be great. | |
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Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 59 | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 12:24:39 AM | i say if...and i say if you 2 were still a couple and loved eachother and had a good connection....drop the condoms and the fricking horse blankets they were made of....i am a master of love making and i know that condoms ruin the moment....sure 1 night stands or if ya dont trust some1 wear them definatly....but get real...theres nothing better than pulling it out and squirting a lil love juice on the one you love.....and garenteed i dont think you can get pregnnt from a lil juice on ya belly or bum...or even of ya face for that matter;;;.... all depends on the moment,,,,,,,and you being a female...maybe you should of let him squirt a load on ya...maybe you both would still be together and perhaps looking forward to a long life together......but remember this....there must be a connection and a huge amount of trust between you 2 before ya can get to the load blowing on chin episode...
and if you swallow....im sure he would still be with you for sure
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Posted: 10/4/2005 9:16:49 PM | | well i just would not. its just that simple. if you really want a kid go for it. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 9:34:51 PM | | Yeah, some of you have really indefinite answers. The comments made about women's rights causing cheating are ridiculous. Women and men have been cheating since sex was invented by "God". Now we have STD that make you suffer a lifetime. Use condoms ALL the time. Marriage doesn't mean anything anymoe because we don't have to follow a Christian guideline if we don't want to. Be open about your feelings. It's not that Europeans have it better, but they assume the other is f3cking someone. Thats is why condoms were invented, for married couple who sleep with others. Teens don't need them, because they should stick with oral until they meet someone who they can learn the ropes with. Personally, I haven't used condoms with all my lovers and I'm STD free by sheer luck. And I mean zero! I even asked the nurse at the clinic to make sure that was my chart. Luck won't get you by and unwanted pregnancies shouldn't be wasted because you can't get a pill or throw on a raincoat. I'm prolife, but abortions are NOT a for mof birth control. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 9:54:55 PM | someone suggested anal as birth control
that is true. However, desease can be spread through anal tissue. A girl may not get pregnant or lose reproduction capabilities, but who want a desease anywhere.
Use the condoms! Think of your future. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2005 11:04:52 PM | | ONLY if you two are close I mean me and my fiancee' have been having sex without a comdom for a while now-- (today we have been togeather for a year!!) but I am on birth control and I know he isn't cheating on me.... we are completly and totally in love and I know that he would never cheat on me and we have a good enough relationship that if he does cheat on me then we can work it out no one is perfect but you shouldnt put it at risk if you arent sure that your the only one he is being sexual with | |
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Posted: 11/6/2005 4:43:55 PM | Condoms are no fun...but they are a necessary evil. I know a few guys that can't get off wearing them, & i sadly fall into this category.(but i deal with it anyways)
However...it is still fun to get the other person off, and if that isn't your goal, your probably there for the wrong reasons.
-Condoms could save more lives then guns if used properly- Unknown | |
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Posted: 11/6/2005 5:05:51 PM | | Well that all depends if the girl is on birth control and if you have both be tested for STDs then I guess its up to the couple. I am on birth control and we've both been tested so me and my fiance do not use condoms. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 8:57:57 AM | I have been with VERY few people so everyone I was with got tested and yesI went with them , so we went condom free.. That and I am allergic to latex so I avoid condoms all together... If you feel that strongly and you trust him... Go for it....  | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 10:05:36 AM | I dont know you... = ..... Safersex | |
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Tyrel
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Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 68 | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 10:08:28 AM | | I do not see any reason for even questioning if having sex with out a condom with your partner is ok. If the two of you are both tested and you take birth control, or do not mind if you have a baby, then what harm can come from it? | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 10:08:36 AM | Masterbation = the safest sex?
Oral sex = second safest sex?
Having one long term partner = very safe sex?
I don't use condom in those scenarios stated above.
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Posted: 11/7/2005 11:15:18 AM | | Don't count on marriage to necessarily count as a safe situation. My ex was very vocal about how important monogamy was, open marriages don't work, etc. only to finally confess that he'd been stepping out the entire time (15 years). I also found out that he hadn't been using condoms. Cost me $300 at the OBGYN to find out that he had been incredibly lucky and I didn't have to pay the price for the playing around that *I* wasn't doing. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 12:21:37 PM | | Never have sex without a condom until you are absolutely sure they are clean. Frankly, you can't be. But make sure you have seen a VERY recent clean bill of health. HIV isn't worth it. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 12:57:42 PM | For everyone, but especially for those who feel that condoms "ruin" the experience, go read the excellent web site on Safer Sex from those wonderful people over at Human Sexuality
http://www.sexuality.org
There is practical advice on how to still use condoms but increase the sensitivity. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 1:13:10 PM | sex WITH a condom is not as messy as without one.
But, even though my gf is on the pill, I still dont want any unnexpected surprises, so I often wrap it up. Some condons dont feel as right as others. I bought a dozen DUREX lubricated condoms, and they're good for one time, but if I put on another one a couple hours later, I cant climax. I love pleasing my woman, but I want to reach pleasure for myself as well.
the "SENSI-THIN" condoms are my own personalfav | |
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 74 | |
| Condoms & Sex MY ADVICE AND OPINION IS.....
Posted: 12/1/2005 5:09:17 PM | | I think that unless your both in a relationship without any other partners,no drug use,both been tested for stds,and hiv etc and feel safe that no one will see someone else then if you want to take that chance its your choice.It all boils down to trust after testing etc.Is it worth taking health risks if your not sure if the other person can own up to any mishaps. | |
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linne
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Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 75 | |
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