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 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 76
Condoms & Sex MY ADVICE AND OPINION IS.....
Posted: 12/1/2005 6:14:31 PM
I don't mind not using them once in a long term committed relationship. I realize my partner could have an affair and I could get an std that way but there is a point at which you just have to trust someone.
 TheFriendlyGiant

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 77
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Condoms & Sex MY ADVICE AND OPINION IS.....
Posted: 12/1/2005 6:25:44 PM
I trust my GF, she asked me the question today whether we should do it without condoms all the time which we have been doing ever since we let the pill take over *we waited 1 month for it to kick in fully to be safe*. I avoid firing the gun inside although the odd time I do because hell its nice to do... but yea... I told her we either gotta use condom always with pill or dont bother cause no point in doing it a few times with condom and not others....

PS: We both clean *I hope*, shes only been with 1 other guy sexually and that was years ago and well I should of been cleaned unless my parents were dirty.
 Len0987

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 78
Condoms & Sex MY ADVICE AND OPINION IS.....
Posted: 12/1/2005 6:42:12 PM
Here is my thought, I believe that if you both trust eachother and know that you both are clean, I say why not. I dated a woman for 5 months before we even thought of having sex together, we both trusted and new that we were clean so we did not use a condom.
It allway's feels better without but you need to have that trust first.
 hftejada1972

Joined: 11/12/2005
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Condoms & Sex
Posted: 12/1/2005 7:04:51 PM
YOU HAVE TWO WORRIES - Each one with a different answer:

STD - If you think, or are sure, you and he is clean, you can go for it.
But always remember you are having sex with him and everybody he bang before you

Pregnancy.
This is easier to handle (disclaimer: I'm pro-choice). You can always ask him to come outside, you take the pill or use another method, or use the day after pill.
BUT this one is avoidable


Think, think, and think again, and then take your decision.

There is not a simple answer.
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