| | What's a good girl to do?Page 3 of 2 (1, 2) | I would say flirt and be a naughty girl with the boys you like..... be a vixen. not a sex vixen but one of those women who's just got her shit together and knows it. Nothing hotter then a woman who's alittle narcissistic but can still laugh at herself. If you want him, take him. If you feel like you're losing the control.... Push him away.
Its not so much about being a good girl..... it's all about being a good to yourself girl. You dont have to get all sex in the city like...but definitely live it like you stole it!   | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 9:18:08 AM | plus guys who walk if you don't put out..... either they get it all the time and are already lookin somewhere else.... Or they don't have a whole lot else thats worth knowing about them.
The good bad boys are just out having fun anyways and just want some company to make it more interesting...... i konw when i go out, i always try to bring someone along. I don't expect or even care to have sex with her.... it's mostly just to share the crazy lifestyle that I sometimes get to live.
You gotta find the guys who could have it all the time but don't want to cause they value something more then "layin pipe". | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 9:50:56 AM | prob. but hey.... its been lots of fun so far.
being mature and safe and normal got me nowhere... so now it's all about getting out there and living life. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 10:12:17 AM | you are fine just the way you are . you have done more than most of the young men i workwith and a lot smarter great job | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 4:00:39 PM | | Guys who are worth it will at least give her a chance to discuss it, and actually care about her answer. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 10:38:57 PM | Look at it this way, pretty much all men on earth look forward to their next intimate encounter. The longer a man waits shows you that he has respect for you and your decisions.
Beleive me cassie, there are men out there who are respectable but still have an edge. Take me for example. I was a 52 Hoova Crip 16 of my 18 years making me a gangsta but if you talk to any of my ex-girlfriends, they'll tell you I neva cheated, that they still want me and that I was a gentleman... There are other good men out there.  | |
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Posted: 9/30/2005 5:55:47 AM | You're pretty attractive so I don't think that's it. And if guys want to sleep with you, then you have to have some good looks.
I don't recommend putting out. Granted, the guy will stick around longer. But you won't know for sure if its because he likes you or just wants to get off. You don't need that kind of ambiguity with the type of relationship you're looking for.
I normally advise women to keep ther legs closed so that they can weed out the players. So unfortunately, you'll need to invest some time to determine if you have a good man or a player on your hands. There's really no other way. So you're doing everything right. You'll know you have a good guy if he sticks around.
Or you can take charge and approach guys that your interested in, yourself It's nerve-wracking, but you'll get more control on selecting who you want to go out with. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2006 9:55:19 AM | | thats gotta be the best thing i've heard in a while, i mean i'm not one to approach a girl in a bar or anywhere for that matter, for the fear of rejection is much to high, however if the woman was to approach me I would gladly have a conversation with her, but woman never seem to approach men so what am I to do? | |
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Posted: 9/16/2006 10:08:03 AM | | Stay just the way you are Cassie...you're simply weeding out the players. Consider this--those guys that want to sleep with you before you are ready will most likely be the ones to vanish after getting some a few times. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2006 12:53:19 PM | Don't listen to these guys who say to be "naughty" and what not... the guys you need to do that to get are the kind you don't want.
From experience I know that a lot of guys are LOOKING for the "good girl" but can't seem to find them (god, what I'd give to meet a girl like that, seriously... if I were only in Ontario : P)
Anyway, as I was saying... you seem like a really sweet girl, and no, you're not ugly... in fact, I'd say you're gorgeous. My advice? Keep on bein' you, and you WILL meet a guy who's looking for exactly that, and that's the kind of guy you deserve. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2006 1:07:38 PM | | YOU ARE UGLY---PLAIN AND SIMPLE. WHAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND, IS THAT MEN TREAT WOMEN JUST THE WAY THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED. I DOUBT YOU HAVE A CLUE. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 3:12:13 AM | YOU ARE UGLY---PLAIN AND SIMPLE. WHAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND, IS THAT MEN TREAT WOMEN JUST THE WAY THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED. I DOUBT YOU HAVE A CLUE.
Wow...
That's a pretty rough thing to say. That was uncalled for, and furthest thing from the truth i've heard.
Just, wow, i'm speechless...
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There is one thing that I have noticed so far on here. All the people that should be together are on totally different sides of the country. It's a conspiracy by God, I swear. He's like, lets put this person right here... and... lets put their soulmate on the other side of the world... yeah... sweet... 
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On other thing I just noticed. This thread was dug up somewhere, from like a whole year ago. How'd that happen. Hrmm... | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 3:53:08 AM | Cassie, the only "problem" I see with you is you are trying to be a mature, responsible, lady. Reread msg, 4, 7, 8, 34.
MOST men will try you, stick to your values, and the men with values will be to ones wanting to remain with you. Good Luck. Lil  | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 3:53:53 AM | im just like you,it seems most men dont want a good girl.........but i wont change the person i end up with will love me for me.
If they disapear because i havnt put out on the first date then i dont want to be with them anyway. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 4:04:31 AM | Perhaps changing your goal on your rpofile to something a little more serious, if that is what you are really looking for.......... if you list hang out, then that is the type of prospects you will attract. If you would really like something more serious, then try dating or perhaps LTR. I know I am searching for a serious LTR with the right woman, & will not even write to women who are not atleast looking for dating & sometimes not even those. I want someone who has the same goal as I do.
Part 2 ........ you are an attractive young woman, & unfortuately men your age are young & on the prowel.... where as more mature men have been down that road & know it leaves you empty in the end. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 4:20:26 AM | | The same thing happens to me time and time again. I guess a good piece of advice is to keep fishing till you find the one. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 4:59:23 AM | I don't think you should "put out" more if you are not ready for it, or if you not interested in sex. Everyone has their own speed, and you should definately only go as far as you feel is comfortable for you. However, I think you shouldn't dimiss the men who stop dating you as being soley out for sex, and I don't think that you should question the morality of people who chose to have sex early in a relationship. They just have different speeds than you, and it's just as unfair of you to judge them as it is for them to judge you.
Think of it this way: by stopping dating you, they have saved you the trouble of being pressured for sex, and you have saved them the frustration of not getting any sex.
You WILL eventually meet a guy who has the same speed as you, and by not sleeping with him too soon, he will know that you are the one he is looking for. Everyone wins!  | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 5:13:50 AM |
Its not so much about being a good girl..... it's all about being a good to yourself girl. You dont have to get all sex in the city like...but definitely live it like you stole it!
Hey, I agreed with everything you said, and liked your description of dating. I think we'd get along really well!
If I were on Sex and the City, I'd be Samantha....and I'm totally comfortable with that! | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 5:15:32 AM | | HELLO MY NAME IS MALCOLM I LIVE IN THE NORTH EAST OF THE UK ,NO YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT OUT MORE NOWER DAYS MEN OR BOYS ARE JUST OUT FOR ONE THING YOU HING IN THERE SOME ONE WILL RESPECT YOU FOR THAT , ITS THE BOYS LOSS NOT YOURS , TAKE CARE . | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 2:51:19 PM | Cassie,
You sound perfect for me, except you are in the wrong country! Granted there is a 13 year age difference, but you state exactly what I'd like to see in a woman. Don't worry, at 22 you still have plenty of time. I'm 35 and am really only beginning to get serious since I've settled down in a nice home and have a nice job that's lasted for 7 years. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 5:04:58 PM | Just keep doin what you're doin Cassie!
Abt those other guys; if you fell in a sewer, would you act like a turd?
There are guys looking for you. It's just that there are a lot of guys your age still falling back on their teenage behavior, too. Stick to your guns, girl! You will be rewarded.
(What's the reward for being easy, anyway?) | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 5:07:40 PM | harryv05 is a moron. And a damned ugly one at that anyway!
Go crawl back in your cave @$$ho!e | |
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