| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 7:32:43 PM | Here are my restrictions.
younger than 45 (edit)
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex. (edit)
Must not be looking for Short-Term
Must not be looking for Photo Exchange
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Please explain how I can expand my horizons by changing these. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 7:44:52 PM | | my original post was not aimed at anyone specific. talking to others of my age group it was actually a fairly common thought. that is we (one of which is myself) are not sure what we are looking for. i just veiwed your profile and in response-what if you met a 48 year old team roper who was just going to be around till spring. would you limit yourself because of age/short term/activity. i'm not judging you but i use this as an example of people maybe missing out. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:04:07 PM | I will not date someone who is 48. I am certain that more then 10 years older is too much age difference.
Will you date someone that is 480 pounds and is only around to spring. Would you limit youself by weight?
Can't weight....for your answer...weighting on it!  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:14:06 PM | | no i wouldn't. why. doubt someone who weighes 480 could keep up with my lifestyle and activities. (unless she was 7'2"). would i go for a coffee, movie or art gallery with someone like that? absolutely would. my biggest restriction is age (younger). i have been asked out by ladies 15-20 years younger than myself. dated one briefly and felt very self concious, i have this irrational fear of a waiter asking if my daughter would like a menu or somethinglike that. i do not limit myself by a persons lifestyle/activities. i spend most of my life with individuals raised with the same upbringing as myself. socially i enjoy meeting people with different perspectives | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:28:25 PM | One sure fire way to determine if you're being too picky is to ask yourself why your social circle is out mingling often, and you're "still waiting". If that sounds like you, and you've received genuine interest from the opposite sex (or same sex, hey it's a liberal society these days right?) and you're "still waiting"...then yea, you may be too picky.
It's kinda like a phrase I heard in my travels - wish in one hand and crap in the other and see which fills first.
Having preferences is natural, but sometimes those preferences lead to people becoming old maids. The longer you wait for "the right one", chances are you're also making yourself less appealing to those around you as days lead to weeks and so on.
Know what I mean? | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:34:38 PM | Not neccessarily. The relationship I just got out of recently, she was over 200lbs and only 5'7". I knew her when she was a stunning 160lbs and was with her til she peaked out the Toledo's, and on the way back down to...I think she's under 170 now.
I'm naturally thin, and the societal norm would dictate for me to prefer the slimmies...but I have always preferred a slightly more robust form.
480lbs is too much by far, but overweight is nothing new to me. A woman with curves is supa-sexay! | |
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~Dew
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Joined: 10/20/2006
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 9:15:47 PM | bigdaddy, thanx man, ya made me laugh, no i aint 481 pounder.
now to get this back on track,, lets be honest, perhaps the reason we are all single isnt that we are picky its that the people we know are picky, ahhhh nothing like putting the blame elsewhere.
i want to meet a single mom, who supports herself, doesnt have major baggage, average or a few extrapounds.i dont think i am being picky, i just want an average single mom that can keep a converstation in tact. | |
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~Dew
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Joined: 10/20/2006
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/8/2006 10:49:51 PM | that blue thing?? hey I know what that is  it a Pogo Stick......its just upside down..... I think I need one of those.......lol......but where's the handle? did you take it off?
I am really selective but only when it comes to my personal life.....otherwise......I am very open minded......LOL  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find that right one or am i just to picky????????
Posted: 11/9/2006 9:10:45 AM | Thanks girls, I am not shallow, instead I am honest.
I have dated men that are far from handsome or thin, but we had the horse thing in common.
I think there are alot of people on here that have big time ideas about the type of person they will date, or won't date...they just are afraid to be honest on the forums because people will crucify them.
FWIW, I am far from skinny, never have been skinny.
I just think people BS alot on the net, the computer seems to give them power that they never have IRL. | |
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