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Posted: 9/24/2007 11:07:20 PM | You obviously haven't been with any real ladies. Just holes. A true lady would knock you on your ass if you called her a ****, whore or anything close to that. You would be rubbing your jaw for a week mister if you called me that. And probably not been able to walk upright for a while.
Uh, excuse me??????? How lady-like is it to call perfect strangers "holes?" That would be like me calling you a "fukin' prude" ~ I wouldn't because I don't know you and that language isn't very lady-like. But to each their own, this may be just my opinion. 
Basically, the lower a womans' self esteem, the more she feels she deserves such treatment. Such women also feel sex is demeaning, and sinful...as if they were worthless sluts for engaging in it. They thus want to be punished verbally, so they can tell themselves they don't need to feel guilty about having sex, because the punishment came with the sex. The higher a womans' self esteem, and the more liberated she is sexually, the less she is willing to tolerate such verbal abuse at any time, and especially during sex.
LOL. Self-esteem doesn't lack in my world. It takes much more self-esteem to say, "This is what I like. This is what I LOVE and this is NOT acceptable." than to say nothing at all or letting "him" determine what is or is not OK with me personally. Calling me something unconventional while in a sexually intimate situation is an entirely different circumstance than using those terms outside sexual intimacy. Verbal humiliation/abuse is vastly different than talking dirty.
As for guilt ~ I'm happy to report ~ I don't have to apologize for my sexuality, my sexual preferences, my kinks/fetishes/likes or limits. I've evolved enough to know ~ no one does or says anything to/with me that is NOT completely accepted by me. Verbal abuse is NOT dirty talk. Verbal abuse is saying, "You fat pig, if you'd get off your lazy azz during the day you might be worth something." It would take a disertation to educate all on the differences. I'm all lady in public, not necessarily so in the bedroom.  I have heard sooooooooooo MANY complaints from men about the women in their pasts who were opposed to anything outside a "norm" that is perceived as appriopriate ~ yet I have NEVER heard one man I know personally complain that his lady enjoys some adventure/dirty talk/kink/etc., in private.
Checkmate sweetie, when you are in the heat of the moment, talking dirty is a very big turn on. It's not that your cursing at us in a demeaning manner it is purely out of lust for each other. It's not like i would let a man talk to me like that out of the bedroom.
Well stated.
~OT~ To each their own. I only live my life and I do so how I choose. I was a sexual prude until I divorced 8+ years ago. I've only been sexually involved with 3 men since. Oddly ~ I haven't been cheated on since my ex-husband ~ nor have I worried anyone might cheat. Hmm ~ does make one wonder. But that's just my own thought.  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 6:44:16 AM |
You obviously haven't been with any real ladies. Just holes.
I'm thinking it's just the opposite. I find that those women who have a tone of hyper critical towards what I consider very erotic sensuality have quite the shady past........not that I care.
Real ladies? Oh , you mean those that present pristine and really aren't? I want a woman. One who has a great mind and a nice naughty streak. She is far more secure in herself. Now that IS a FACT. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 7:00:16 AM | Most women do not like this sort of thing
I could not dissagree more strongly. How presumtuous. The OP wrote it quite ignorantly. When done properly it is unbelievable.
Basically, the lower a womans' self esteem, the more she feels she deserves such treatment. Such women also feel sex is demeaning, and sinful...as if they were worthless sluts for engaging in it. They thus want to be punished verbally, so they can tell themselves they don't need to feel guilty about having sex, because the punishment came with the sex.
I guess I'm in a bit of a mood this morning but I have to express myself in a way that makes me feel exceptionally male.
What a bunch of hammered dog$hit, psycho babble, crap.
The higher a womans' self esteem, and the more liberated she is sexually, the less she is willing to tolerate such verbal abuse at any time, and especially during sex.
Actually you have the whole concept convoluted. There is no verbal abuse. It's not abuse at all. It a deeply erotic experience. It's not even connected to any particular life style. Some interpret it that way. That's all. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 8:23:48 AM | In my opinion 90% of women don't like to be called demeaning names during sex it would definately turn me off i want to hear sweet love whispers not demeaning names and i would also never call my man demeaning names. have a great day...... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 9:41:23 AM | | My past relationship was one where the man used demeaning words because it helped him to get off. There is a difference in demeaning words and dirty talk. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 9:48:26 AM |
how much are you paying for there "ladies"?
AHAHAHH funniest thing i ever read!
anyways, yeah.. buddy would get kicked out SO fast... lol | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:48:29 PM | ok i must comment but i think 91% of the ladies spoke in here and to my count its all good. some of us can seperate the worlds- live in one and f*ck in the other. there are alot of sexual things people do that one could spend all day saying its wrong. the ones who does not like it fine then enjoy and congrats to the ones who enjoy sex at its fullest but to say its from low self esteem or etc is wrong of you in judging us. perhaps its your own fears of sexual adventures.
this comment is not for the ones who said they disliked it. but to the ones with the masters degree that can justify why we like it lol soooo wrong | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 6:00:08 PM | | ..i'm surprised by the comments here! i've experienced women that are completly into dirty talk and spanking,they ask for it !..maybe i need to meet different women.. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 7:00:43 PM | Any man calls me the b word during sex, and I get up and leave. I don't care how hot it makes him. If you need to demean someone to get off, I would suggest counseling.  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 7:05:36 PM | This is why people need to communicate their wants and needs, their likes and dislikes.
Getting up and leaving or beating the other person is far less healthy than actually communicating with them... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 7:25:01 PM | The words go back to the lusty carnal savage animals we all are... It is taboo, it is filthy, disgusting to be called those horrible, raunchy, vile names.... all I can say is the whackier, lowest names are the biggest turn on for me and makes the body respond in ways that make a 450 purr...... not every single time.... but a lot in frequency... same as nasty crazy fantasies tied into the name calling.... The biggest sex organ is the Brain so if you get that going and turned on, nature takes it's course and you will go from G spot to the Z spot ROFL in no time....  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:30:34 PM | We all have our own unique little turn-ons (even those of us who condemn the one at issue here). It would seem simple enough to just say "I don't get off on any of that stuff" rather than to judge those who do as "whores," "a-holes," and those "lacking self-respect." The simple fact is that MANY women (and men) enjoy this kind of element in the bedroom -- just as many enjoy other things (like being tied up, having their toes sucked, or engaging in oral sex) -- just because you don't, doesn't mean that those who do are fukked in the head; and NONE of us are so pure, chaste, and immune to any and every some form of sexual stimulus, as to give us license to start throwing stones at the glass proclivities of others.
Lighten up, people! Get your OWN rock off and stop being so judgmental of those who get theirs in a way different from how you get your own!  | |
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Posted: 9/26/2007 8:29:10 AM | You know not one girl I been with has just been a hole. Also there is no such thing as ladies sorry not one person on this sight would go with the definition of a lady. why well if you done oral period you no longer a lady if you enjoy sex you no longer a lady if you wear anyclothes that dont cover all of you except the face you no longer a lady.
Dont believe me go check out the definition it rings more with 1900 area then today they would call every women who exist a whore today.
and frankly with your attitudes toward talk like that I bet you all believe you have the right to smack the person you with and be congratulated for it in your eyes. But if you were ever treated the same way as you treat the guys your with you would snap. it also could explain the singleness of those women. No one wants an up tight biotch.
and frankly alot of the women I have talked like that to would kick the crap right out of you if you said they had low self esteem they would probably humiliate you for it.
It takes more confidence in your self to hear that and get turned on and not be offended then to get offended and turned off.
Also if you ever did what you said you would to the guy I would laugh my ass off if he decided ok biotch wlecome to being charged with assault and you can spend 5 years in jail thank you. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2007 9:12:59 AM | WOW.... I read most of the responses and was quite surprised what an up tight bunch most are. There is a time for making love with a respectful loving partner and then there is time for some good ole!@#$%^& a little raunchy and boundry testing is a hot, when you are with the right partner. Being comfortable with your sexuality and knowing the difference between demeaning and humiliating is completey different than testing the boundaries in the bedroom having dirty fun sex. ( verygreen eyes said it best) There is nothing hotter than being with someone that you love and trust and allowing yourselves the freedom to push the envelope and experience carnal passion, whatever form that is between two consenting adults.
What is the saying "martha in the kitchen, a lady on the arm in public and whore in the bedroom" .....
Geez some you people really need to lighten up a bit | |
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Posted: 9/26/2007 5:25:32 PM |
To the original quote, if a guy said "**** take this****, I'd ask him "How hard can you give it to me f#cker!"
Hey, thanks!! I'm going to try this tonight!! heheee...
The guy who proposed beat me to the punch of telling you I love you... ok mainly because your liberal viewpoints are so refreshing. And I'm a freakin heterosexual female for cryin out loud. I do hope however, that you never come in direct contact with my b'friend somewhere on the street....because that dude would most definitely be knocking down your door. Why can't we all be so free? Sigh. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2007 2:04:44 PM | | wodehousefan2 = I totally disagree with your theory..... I would say it the opposite... not sure what other think but thats a bit strong to say if they like role play they are low on self esteem? | |
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Posted: 9/27/2007 2:06:38 PM | Real ladies? Oh , you mean those that present pristine and really aren't? I want a woman. One who has a great mind and a nice naughty streak. She is far more secure in herself. Now that IS a FACT.
Hey cjgregory - I agree liked it. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2007 4:50:28 PM | I don't say it like that..My quote is Mom and wife in public..mistress in the bedroom
now talking dirty is fun at times, but only to a certain extent. I've been know to say ***** me hard, etc " but when it comes to the other words etc like *c*nt* etc I draw the line. My ex came over a couple weeks ago due to he wanted to talk and see if we could work things out instead of filing for divorce. He actually said " I was hoping to come over and boink your brains out" Well he's still the ex and will stay that way. Theres times of talking raunchy and times of talking sensual.  | |
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