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Posted: 10/6/2007 10:30:00 AM | "I hope every songwriter in the world gets this information..."baby" is in the top 5 of all terms of endearment. It is used 21 times in The Carpenters hit, "Superstar.""
I said "these days".
"I've NEVER heard of any complaints between lovers on the use of , "baby.""
Thus?
"If you call a co-worker, "baby," that's a different story all together as they are not in an intimate relationship with you."
Yes, but that is not the premise of this syllogism.
"Could you cite your references for your case against, "baby?""
Yes. Me. And my professional experience in Public Affairs (not in it these days, so not an advert of me).
According to my monitoring and analysis of dynamics in social,pop cultural, and other aspects of life in Europe and America, referring to a modern woman as a "baby" even if she is your lover, can be taken, by many, not of course all, women as a demeaning - non equality term. Unless it is used unisexually and it assumes that when people are in love they lose their adult status between them. Words are there for a reason.
I could quote many other terms used in songs in previous decades that are not OK to use these days. But that would be off topic.
Today words lile SO, partner, etc seem to be inline. And I am OK with them. Some may not be, but this is 2007 not 1977. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:08:15 AM | Not all women are into that kind of thing.
If you're in a comfortable relationship with someone, it can be a nice way to spice things up now and then.
There are different kinds of intercourse......you can decide for yourself what the differences are.
Sex
making love
f**cking
crazy sex
getting filthy
and finally, monkey sex
Just no what your partner likes, what they are into, would like to try etc. Communicate. that's what makes a great sex life. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:19:46 AM | | Nope. Wouldn't work for me. I'd be concerned violence would be imminent and prolly call the dogs in on him. Not saying it's wrong if someone likes it, guess I'm just a lil old fashioned or something.... | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:26:22 AM | | I think that is rude and very disrecspectful from male/female. I personally do not like name calling while having sex or any other time. | |
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Msg: 331 | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:29:40 AM | Herr Tossed und Madchen Brianna: Sehr, sehr gut! Essen mir auch, bitte! Wir machen viel spass here, are we not? You guys are too funny.
Now, in total seriousness: If a woman spends her days disciplining students or her own children, what's wrong with wanting the tables turned in the bedroom? Take the subject line of this thread, add a spanking, some kind words, and my name, spoken several times, and I'm happy. Just vary which side of the a** you're slapping, so I can sit the next day. Not all the time, but many times. Variety is the spice of life, ja? | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:31:50 AM | I agree 100% with Angel here!!
Pillow talk IS very important, mind you must be sexy & sweet... Lots of "baby, yeah..." Stuff like that would keep me interested... Being called his whore or his ****?? Nope, I think I'd be outta there real faaaast!!
I don't know where this guy FINDS these women who like that sort of thing... ?? I think in general woman like to be treated with tenderness!
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Posted: 10/8/2007 8:41:53 AM | GEEZ - what kind of women are you dating, lol. One demeaning name is all you'll get out, the door will be hitting your bare ass on your way out. Not my cup of tea!
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Posted: 10/8/2007 9:54:10 AM | Honestly. Not all women like to hear this kind of stuff during sex.
Maybe the ones you've encountered.
Try to date others... | |
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Posted: 10/8/2007 7:39:15 PM | Gut bin ich pingelig, auf was ich esse..., aber wenn Sie bestehen. ... Lecken Sie, Biss, knabbert und ein Heulen am Mond LOL 
Very well said Faour ....... mmmmmmmmm LOL Alternating arse slaps works too!
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Posted: 10/8/2007 7:49:51 PM | | honestly i like it a little rough i enjoy being called **** and stuff like that alot of men enjoy beingin control and i enjoy a man being in control because i live a normal life where i have to play the perfect innocent princess when it comes to sex i enjoy having a master in bed to TELL me what to do | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 3:45:34 AM | | If its a hot and heavy mood, I like it. I'm never "romantic" in bed though so to me, sex is just play. I don't make love. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 8:58:14 AM | In response to message #248, by Hiddentreasur2003:
Hello? Did you just judgmentally state that those of us who admitted being comfortable with our sexuality are not ladies, but "Holes?"
With all due respect, you are a walking oxymoron (not a moron -- I don't bash). Read your OWN message, then click on YOUR profile. YIKES! Holy ill-fitting lingerie, Batman!
Now, read my message, and click on MY profile. I'm fully dressed in every shot, so that I don't give the impression of being a "Hole."
Who knew I was a hole? And here I was the WHOLE TIME thinking I was an attractive, articulate, well-educated woman. Thanks for clearing that up for me. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 9:22:00 AM |
You obviously haven't been with any real ladies. Just holes. A true lady would knock you on your ass if you called her a ****, whore or anything close to that. You would be rubbing your jaw for a week mister if you called me that. And probably not been able to walk upright for a while
so as long as they do what you approve sexually...they are a 'true lady".....lol....
Just because you DONT like it, doesnt make you any more or less of a person who does....get off your moral horse.... | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 9:35:01 AM | Now, now, I see no reason for using such language as the OPost describes, unless of course the woman demands it but even then. There are planty of sexy and sensual terms a man and a woman can use in the act that are more SC (sexually correct, 2107 edition).
Eg.
"Lover, are you ready to receive and entertain my manhood in the center of your womanhood? Before that, is a preliminary oral treatment OK for you too?"
or even better, in an LTR
"Partner, do you feel like committing your lovenest to a connection with my manhood's main tool that is craving to validate the love and commitment we share for yet one more time? Oh partner dearest, I so enjoy this (daily???) procedure as a token of our eternal merger in life and beyond"
Re 344: Not as boring as some ppl are "in the thread". GUAB Forrest!
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Posted: 10/9/2007 11:04:57 AM | I don't totally agree. It depends on the woman. Some women like to feel as if they're doing something wrong, it increases the level of excitement (me included). But then again, if it is a tender moment, it would be completely inapprorpriate. Candles and cussing do not keep good company! The mood leads up to the type of encounter, in my mind. Tenderness and feathers, cuffs and cussing.. see what I mean?  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 12:00:21 PM | | Not all women do have this desire........talking dirty is one thing and calling you out of your name is yet another..................but I am here to voice my opinion and it is not all women ......... | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 12:13:55 PM | From post 346:
"It depends on the woman. Some women like to feel as if they're doing something wrong, it increases the level of excitement (me included)"
Firstly, I think that this is a very astute observation. That goes a long way to explain many things. It does.
Secondly, I feel obliged to applaud the poster for her sincerity!
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But with all due respect, IMO, women and men who like to feel as if they are doing something "wrong" when having sex, and I am sure that they are many, many, around, need to see a specialist about that.
Maybe it is a residual of religious or other effects of a strict upbringing!
To me, sex is not something wrong. Doing something "wrong" is not sexy or sensual or in any case romantic or appealing. I can appreciate that mindset but I do not wish to be a "cause" for "rebels" against ... what? I do not wish to date "anarchists" or social rebels.
Sex is not breaking the rules or following rules. Neither is romance!
At best, wanting to do something wrong, is "childish". Maybe some people have boring lives or are too tired of following rules in work, other facets of their lives, and want to "rebel" via sex!!!
But that is not what sex or eros or romance are about., IMO.
Sex may be a spit in the face of the Grand Reaper, but not in the face of Society or its rules.
The doing something "wrong" type of thinking re sex is to a great extent responsible for many of the faulty dynamics of our times. And I can see why in that case it needs to be sexed up with dirty or demeaning talk. But, yikes!!!
Cheating on one taxes is doing something wrong, cheating on your SO is something wrong, selling cigs to minor is wrong, etc etc.
Having sex do to something wrong is ... WRONG!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 8:35:17 PM | I really dig it myself. I'm not a whore or a tramp, or even a chick that's going to bed with you tonight, but here's what I think it is.
I like the man to be in charge.
The more someone calls me a sl*t, Who*re, etc. !@&$* the more acceptable it is in the moment to completely let go and be one.
It's taboo! It's a game.
It's just hot to me and needs no further explanation.
If a man EVER called me a **** or slut when not engaged in some sort of sex play I would be 100% done. That's verbal abuse, it's unclassy, and I won't take it.
If a man WOULDN"T do that in bed, it prolly wouldn't last long. I just dig it, it makes me feel freer, and turned on. That's just the way I am, and to each their own. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2007 3:44:52 AM | I was sort of scared to reply to this...I completly agree with Quirky flirt on this one.
It so turns me on but maybe because it's freeing during sex.
And It would hurt so if taken out of context. | |
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