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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:14:32 AM | HAHAHAHA
sorry
Visions of a guy with a little weener who has to TALK it up because he knows he hasnt got the equipment or know how to make it real 
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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:35:01 AM |
Any guy who can take a womans breath away does NOT need to use those tactics
^^ most honest thing i have read all day !!!  | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 5:23:08 AM |
Any guy who can take a womans breath away does NOT need to use those tactics
Holy Judgmental Batman!
I respect that some people can not imagine putting themselves in this type of role playing scenario. However do I think they are any less of a person because they don't...I think not.
To each their own. What is a turn on for one will never be a turn on for all. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 7:22:01 AM | Any guy who can take a womans breath away does NOT need to use those tactics
so that statement must apply to Snoop Doggy Dog, Fitty, Eminem, and all those other rap stars and rap fans that love to use these derogatory statements? | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 7:31:56 AM | Any guy who can take a womans breath away does NOT need to use those tactics
Its not a tactic. It is not for the man. True it feels really nice to express ones thoughts but it's not really for him. That would have to come from her.
If done right she won't have any breath left to take away. She will be lost in that world between awake and the dream world. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 7:46:03 AM | the plain fact is that whether or not "most" women might like these things, SOME do.
(especially in the heat of passion) ..and whether or not it is really a relationship of mutual respect and trust but ONLY in the bedroom that these types of words become a turn-on.. at least SOME of the time.
equally some men would enjoy being talked to this way by women.
of course it may go against the grain of the women's movement for a woman to ever admit she liked something like this..even in private, in bed, once in a while, from a man who actually loved and respected her, but just that they both enjoy "role-playing" from time to time to increase the excitement or passion. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 7:50:56 AM | Communication is the key. People need to be up front about what they like.
I'm rather surprised that so many woman would react violently, not because it is undeserved, but because it's a very immature way to respond to ANYTHING. That isn't a healthy way to communicate what you want, "Oh, you did something that I didn't like- I'm going to hit you." Nuts to that... a "that crosses a line for me that makes sex hurtful" is better. The guy has actually learned, and you can even take the time to express what IS ok. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 8:30:20 AM | Huh !
I'd B*tch Slap the Muther who ever said shit like that to me into the next century...
Dirty talk is acceptable for those who like it, but not when it's that shit, not for a woman or a man. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 8:32:30 AM | | Oh, just love all these answer's, Great Question had to go and think about this one... There is a time and place for the "dirty talk".... I sure men and women are very vocal in I.E. Oh Please just f... me, is hot. I guess when you are into it. Who cares what words are being said. Emotions have taken over.... | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 9:26:14 AM | Hmmm....lots of bad reactions to this one. As someone who is into role playing I must say I enjoy that kind of talk when "in character", but it would offend me to no end to have some guy who was doing me call me a b*t*h or anything just out of the blue...lol.
I have to chuckle though because the title of this thread has actually been heard in my bedroom before. :) | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 9:34:30 AM | | okay.. first of all not ALL ladies like that.. i for one do not.. no degrading or name calling..now a little dirty talk or pillow talk as the poster said.. is fine..love that!! but the minute he starts calling me names..he's outta there!! | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 9:50:17 AM | I love this kind of stuff... seriously!
I really like it when a guy calls me his little slut, that definately gets me going. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 10:05:12 AM | | I dated a woman once that told me I could only call her **** if I was slapping her ass and pulling her hair. I thought it was joke. Turns out, it wasn't. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 10:24:21 AM | I think what most people are misunderstanding is that this is not a common event. It's not like you're out having dinner and your man says "pass me the salt you dirty****.
We're talking about ROLE PLAYING. As another poster said "I'm not an air hostess in real life either". It's about passion and the heat of the moment.
If you feel that it is degrading or derogatory than you're not truly role playing and you're not very secure. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 10:53:10 AM | This kind of stuff can be fun when you know the person *really* well. I was with my ex for 15 years, it took time to learn what she liked to hear, when, and also when I overstepped my boundaries.
I never used the C word, or the W word, I don't think, but "B, S, take this, do that, did I tell you to stop?, you're a good little CS, arent' you?" etc, at the right moment, would instantly move the passion & role play into a completely different arena.
Then again, we had an understanding of the time & place, and that it was not acceptable outside of those parameters. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 11:13:56 AM | I really like it when a guy calls me his little slut, that definately gets me going.
:) Actually it's "HIS..... naughty..... little slut". (at the appropriate time ONLY and Mandy pointed out "his") Not "little slut". One would not NORMALLY just say "you little slut". That would draw fire in most cases. One could say something to the effect.....at the height of passion, "Jesus, you sweet little slut, I just can't get enough of you." while shes all wraped around you. You could probably get away with that if you said it from the possition of "Damn, I'm so into you" and most importantly it was true that you really were into her. But it's more appropriate to insert "my" in there or she could come back on you. (I'm not giving out any more of my good stuff though. It's private and for whom ever I am with when I want it to go deep.)
If you are really into someone it can really burn deep. It's about passion and desires. In some instances it's so hot at some point that MOST anything goes. Sometimes. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 11:28:05 AM | This is one time I think cliches work. "a time and place for everything" and " to each his own"
I personally don't mind a little nasty talk when in a playful role playing mood. But if someone ever called me those names in public, I'd have serious issues with it. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:09:48 PM | most people seem to think the "C" word is totally taboo, and I agree, MOST women do not like it at all.
but, ya know, difff'rent strokes..I have met women who REALLY liked it!
so, ya can't always totally generalize, ya know.. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:34:44 PM | | i have to admit, this role playing is new to me, but i do like it. at first i didn't understand it, and thought it was a reflection of me, that i wasn't filling a need, but after having a pretty intense discussion about it (with a person on POF) i realized two people in a loving relationship can go where ever the mood or fetish or whatever takes you. i find it very erotic all the nasty talk just as erotic as the loving "i can't get enough of you " times. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:40:32 PM | I love a woman to order me to lick her ____ as well! or tell me to get down and toss her salad, that's HOTT!
I LOVE role play on both sides..her domme to me, or me dom to her, it's great to switch and HAVE FUN, people!
one time I told my woman : "I'm going to fvck you silly"
she said "Great! but don't call me silly!" | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:43:05 PM | I can only speculate as to why someone would called their mate names like that during sex. One guess I have is that the person doing it, or requesting it is trying to ignore the intimate and loving nature that sex can have and is trying to express how they feel that what they are doing is dirty and something to be ashamed of. I know that some people have a lot of feelings about sex that they don't express conversationally, that often come up in the way that they approach their sexual fetishes including things like name calling and rough treatment.
Self-Deprecation is a way in which people attempt to absolve themselves of guilt. When someone requests that someone else demeans them, it is often even more effective because they feel as though they can get away with what they are doing because they have been verbally abused....in essence, they have suffered for their sexual acts. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:48:37 PM | I probably am just too hopelessly romantic for any man on this site.
I can't stand the C word, the P word, the S word, ECT....and I am sure I am forgetting a few others, and I sure as hell don't want to be called a slut or even slutty. Maybe "YOUR wild cat" or something like that.
Now you can call my warm spot any cute name you want and I am fine with that. Those words to me are not cute.
Like I said, just too hopelessly romantic 
Plus, I still hold true to my belief that degrading and demeaning name calling while having sex is just an expression of self loathing. I guess I just feel good about me and am doing just fine without it! | |
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