kj1707
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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:10:43 PM | | If I am really into I don't mind it, it's dirty and fun...it's just a little bit of a fantasy nasty role playing type thing. Especially if it's a guy I've been hooking up with or dating for a while. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:11:12 PM | Here, here! I mean if it's fantasy then what's the problem? You wouldn't accept it in other circumstances.....but then you wouldn't come on someones face in other circumstances either!!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:18:03 PM | so CJ, you may have to correct your comment on your previous post. Way to general.
:) I understand. I put on there "at any level", and that is why I wrote it that way. I have run into some, mainly through conversation would not even like "little tiger girl" .....nothing. In no way do I think any of that applied to anyone specifically. I felt the need to counter Ocean. I would want everyone to experience things to their full potential without thinking there is something wrong with them because the enjoy the naughty play. :)
"be strongly opposed to any of this at any level." | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 3:19:15 PM | ^^^^Healthyliving.
It's not because i was abused it's because it's kinky and that makes it a turn on....to think your doing something you wouldn't normally do..... that and i'm a dirty bi-ach! (ha, ha! just kidding!). I mean for me i am a model citizen to the outside world, the perfect A* grade student, sensible (some might say boring even!), reserved, dedicated mum, etc. It's nice to be able to put all that to the wayside sometimes and be a little bit naughty in a situation where your ALLOWED to be naughty, it's the complete opposite to how i normally am and i enjoy that! | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 5:25:23 PM |
It depends on the woman's self esteem or if she's been previously molested by "Uncle/Grandpa Joe" age 5-16 who told her the same things. Same for men. Some men like to be demeaned, critisized and ridiculed (see the movie "Jade") where men pay concubines big $$$ to be abused during sex because either the preist, "Uncle Joe", gym coach or the babysitter did the same.
I actually dumped a guy who said, "suck this d***k (w/out even saying b*tch)!" & walked out on him w/ his pants down, his erection up, ready to (never) get it from me again! And to all those guys & gals out there who like to be abused, critisized & demeaned during sex? See a counselor about why you enjoy being abused. You may actually admit to what those molesters did to you you during your childhood & have them arrested!!!
i do see where you are coming from as this does happen a lot, not going to argue that point at all. thankfully i was not molested as a child or teenager. as i mentioned in an earlier post, i will only accept name calling from someone i have been with for awhile, totally trust and am comfortable with, and only once i have suggested it to him. i don't do random guys but if i did i would not tolerate it from them unless i told them that's what i want. it's kind of a control thing for me. you can treat me like your dirty little
slut but only when i give you the permission. so up until that point I'M in control. i love playing the submissive little sex slave when the time is right and i love to see my man get into it and take total control of me, how he acts, the look in his eyes and on his face, the way his voice changes. it's exciting.
i don't feel i need therapy because i like rough sex or like to be demeaned, i feel i am more in touch with my sexuality as perhaps you are. to see me in public you would never know what i like in bed, it's for me and my partner to share. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 5:44:46 PM | | dear shannon, i agree it is the trust and the relationship. i have no desire for sex with random partners or i should say i have never acted on that desire and never would but it is fun to think about. and as far as i know i haven't been molested by daddy or uncle joe. but i can see the concern. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 6:01:25 PM | Dirty talk is totally different than this kind of talk. No BSDM for me here. At least it doesn't appeal in my book. I'd be out the door fast with clothes in hand! Ewwwwww. Not for me. Being insulted or having pain doesn't belong in love making for this girl. I have a kinky side but there are limits.
Now I dated a guy once who slapped my ass when we got hot kissing and wow that was a turn on. (and some other spanks other places) However he was the only one, thus far, who seemed to know when the right moment was to do that. If you have to ask for it it isn't the same.
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Posted: 9/13/2007 10:08:53 PM |
It depends on the woman's self esteem or if she's been previously molested by "Uncle/Grandpa Joe" age 5-16 who told her the same things.
Oh dear me. I've never been molested, sexually assaulted or otherwise traumatized in that manner. It has NOTHING to do with that for many people, men or women. I so wonder why in every single solitary sex thread that isn't about vanilla sex that someone has to pull this abuse thing. Some people are just more open to things outside of the squishy, romatic type sex that most American/Westernized people seem to believe is "normal." Not all sex that isn't routine is a result of someone being brutalized. There are those who are open-minded enough to realize that some fetishes, kinks and/or variations are a result of their own interests, not something covert, sick, twisted or otherwise dirty/nasty. And I can assure you, dirty talk isn't all that interesting in some circles. When someone brings out the pudding, the live chicken and the flogger, you might need to raise an eyebrow ~ otherwise, it's usually just a personal preference.  yyyw  | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 10:29:35 PM | | I like to be called names during sex....love lots of dirty, naughty things said and done to me...but ONLY in the bedroom...I guess I like stepping out of my normal comfort zone and exploring new things.. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 11:07:54 PM | | I like dirty talk as much as the next gal but not that kind , maybe I'm just too romantic for that but "**** take this**** would *NOT* do it for me, knowing me I'd probably laugh and ruin the mood anyway.... | |
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Posted: 9/13/2007 11:31:44 PM | | Like with anything it's all about prefrence, some women like it some don't, truth be told some of the women who said no in this group probaly would be for it though. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 12:16:53 AM | let's see.... in a nutshell....
it's fantasy
it's consensual
it's appreciated by BOTH parties involved
and it's no reflection of their actual views of the other person
i'd say it's good, clean fun.... well, maybe not quite  | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 1:43:01 AM | | oh..I thought this was an dog breeding thread...no, honestly...in the BDSM community there are hard limits...a woman may think it's ok to be called a s l u t, w h o r e, or t r a m p...but she may forbid you from calling her a p i e c e o f s h i t...even nasty girls have standards, and you MUST respect them. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 9:03:05 AM | ^^^^^^just out of curiosity, what's your idea of kinky?
Well for me it being open to new ideas in that area......I'm not closed minded. Some people think the missionary position and doggie style are all there is. Anyhoo this subject makes me ermmmm nevermind.  (I'm not real open to sharing those ideas for the world to see though, ha ha) Well being called nice dirty talk is definantely part of it and not limiting sex to the bedroom also! | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 1:37:03 PM | | ah hello,this doesnt make girls any less ladylike than the girl next door,people enjoy very different things in the bedroom,each to their own is what i say,whatever turns you on goes,broaden your mind a little | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 2:24:44 PM | It depends on the woman's self esteem or if she's been previously molested
wtf? excuse me? whoa now! i'm a girl who happens to like dirty names in bed, a bit of kink, and some light D/s play. i have plenty of confidence, self esteem, and i was never molested as a child. can we say "role play" people? in other words, acting out something in a safe and trusting environment which we wouldn't accept or invite into our lives under other circumstances. meaning, a guy who shares my bed can call me dirty names when playing, but if he were to call me those names outside the bedroom he'd better have good reflexes and run like h*ll! those dirty names aren't hurtful, unless someone actually means them and uses them to offend. | |
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