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Posted: 6/20/2004 8:54:01 PM | Good god!!! Maddie...you are absolutely boooooootyful!....I love older, attractive women personally....mmmmm-mmmmm.....take a bow bebe!
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Posted: 6/21/2004 11:35:57 AM | I think also that most men like the feeling of being the one in control. They recognize that by "going out of their league" that they are also relinquishing control. There are women out there that are more than willing to use their good looks to get what they want. When I worked as a photographer in LA, I used to be around a lot of really good looking women. It took a long time to find out that really good looking women are really just like everyone else. They like to laugh, have someone that care about them, not their looks. They are just like a cross section of any group of people. Its just that for a lot of men, that is what makes them feel like they have lost whatever control over the situation, not the person, that they may have had.
After all, most men are noted for thinking with parts of the body a little further south than the brain when in the vicinity of really good lookin women. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2004 11:42:27 AM | | i think its just simple fear itself. How can we explain why we are afraid of something? I don't know, outside of simply avoiding danger but what is real harm in asking, none but yet some still are afraid. Maybe because when they asked some one out, instead of politely saying know the person ridiculed him until he walked away in tears, or her boyfriend came out of no wheres and kicked his ass. Or it could just be simply a lack of confidence. Though when you say older I'm not sure how old you mean. Do you mean like a 40 year old or do you mean like old as in old woman with tits sagging to her knees old? | |
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Posted: 6/23/2004 11:30:55 PM | | NO,intelligent women are the bomb. women as attractive as you are maybe intimidating to some. but nothing ventured nothing gained. I 've always found attractive women more fun to be around | |
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Posted: 7/6/2004 8:11:08 AM | | Well, here's my bit. Believe it or not, the vast majority of people know little, or next to nothing about sex. It's kinda hard to believe isn't it. I owned a sex shop for 8 years, and worked in one 3 years before that. Most guys know less than women. So you get a younger guy, who thinks he's God's gift to women, and in some way, he believes this. Now, he see a mature woman, more experienced, more partners, ect. and suddenly there is this threat. You see, a mature woman has the power, and the experience to tell him that he's average, or worse. Mature women are see as a threat to their manhood. They are afraid of being laughed at, all men are. It's just that younger men can't take it. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2004 10:13:32 PM |
madelaina
Most men are microcephalics and do not understand women at all, because they don't understand themselves very much.. If that is really your pic, then I can see where men would be drooling over themselves. They are intimidated by not only the looks, but if you can speak in complete sentences (as it appears), game's over!
I, on the other hand, have a keen understanding of women because I know my feminie side (in a masculine way, of course), I speak 3 languages and am very well traveled. I can hold conversations about history, thermonucleardynamics and the asexuality of earth worms as well as make a woman have multiple orgasms. Period. End of subject. Exclamation point!! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2004 10:15:26 PM | | Fresh meat! Welcome gulfstream! You're hot...welcome to my [our] little playground...come have a drink in the After Hours Bar [Off Topic} | |
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Posted: 8/15/2004 7:15:36 PM | Mostly because I've found them--not in all cases, but mostly--consumed with themselves and narcissistic and VERY conceited.
Not saying you are, but that's my experience. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2004 2:04:40 AM | | Well, I'm older, but I'm scared nonetheless. I'd probably be into your less-stunning friend you go to the bar with though. I'm like that. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2004 2:16:22 AM | Kardz, seems like every post you make contains either some insult or form of condescendance.
Ease up!
Don't even think about coming back with an argument !!! | |
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Posted: 8/16/2004 12:49:29 PM | I think to the contrary. I am absolutely turned on by an older attractive, intelligent woman. Honestly, I have a huge desire to be with this type of woman. Their sexuality blows me away, they have a level of class and sophistication that just turns me on.
They are the reason that I joined this website and I appreciate you asking the question.
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Posted: 8/16/2004 5:08:31 PM | Maybe look what they have been though, because we all know experiance in life comes from going though something tough and coming out a better person. Maybe that will help you when it comes to finding a younger person. I know I get alot of mail from older women and they find that I am more mature than anyone my age. The problem being is they usually dont like the same things I do. I really enjoy my art and if you cant hold a brush dont even think of painting with me. Some try to fake it, but with art you either can or you cant, so they get weeded soon enough. Maybe this will help ya a bit, if not sorry then.
Gado
Cant never Could, Wont never Will ! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2004 9:57:02 AM | Hi all - just joined PoF. Interesting discussion. I actually see at least two threads here - one about young vs. "mature" and the other on "too-hot" vs. "hot-enough".
I'm 45, feel like 29, and it warms my heart to read how so many man are not comfortable with "older" attractive intelligent women! Like one poster said, have a beer and take a seat at the bar, see you later! Just my type.
Age really doesn't make any difference for maturity or intelligence or beauty (unless one is turning that geriatric corner, then we have a different thread). I've had great times with very mature (intelligent, solid, worldly) 18 yr olds and not so great times with 48 yr olds who act like no-brain 18 year olds. (Ok, I'll admit the no-brainer 18 year olds were fun too, but it is sort of like fast-food vs. gourmet cooking)
Intelligent "mature" women of any age want you to be able to hold up your end of the conversation (at a minimum). If a guy can't do that, he won't see the interest. I've witnessed that over and over. Intelligence is attracted to intelligence. Some of the "intimidation" might have to do with this.
The "attractive", or "too hot" factor I think could really about men turning to jelly in the presence of a beautiful woman. Almost every guy is going to trip over his tongue in this case, at least at first. Is that being intimidated? Nah, it is just biology. I think one other poster mentioned confidence as well. Some men just have an overblown self image as sexperts and my guess would be that a very attractive intelligent woman definitely would be threatening because (subconsciously) of a fear of being put on the spot and having to prove that overblown self image. Too much ego, too much risk. Fear of failure and rejection.
I definitely go after attractive, intelligent women, and age, as in choosing a fine wine, can definitely be a major factor. I've learned "older" woman are actually far more skilled and sensitiive lovers because experience naturally comes with age. Guys, if your ego doesn't get in the way, then you are in for a real treat.
So think I answered Madelaina's question. Anyone who wants to chat privately - I'm cyberfringe on YIM (and yes, I really am a rocket scientist.)
-D
P.S. Madelaina - I just can't believe this has ever happened to you. If so, I apologize for my half of the species. Fondest regards. | |
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