| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:38:40 AM | just be yourself! if you've got to fake who you are to impress a girl and she likes that...then she's not going to like you for you!
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:41:34 AM | Sparda, my dear, the only reason they haven't noticed yet is because you won't let them forget that you haven't noticed. Know what I mean?
Women can detect when a man feels down on himself. Just work on it. You'll reach that point. Everyone has their day. | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:56:15 AM | | You just gotta have confidence....a woman can TELL if you have confidence or if you are timid....I just walk up...(usually with a drink) and say somethin stupid like"hey I'm kinda tired of my group over there..can I hang out here a while"....It doesnt have to be the classiest thing in the world..just break the ice.... | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:59:15 AM | I think it's important that you gentlemen know that no matter how attractive she is, how hot she may be to you...the likelihood is that she feels just as uncomfortable as you do. First off, in today's world (with all the dangers to women) it's difficult for a woman to be approached in an outright manner...being in public or what have you. When it's in a bar, or at a party it's not as difficult to do it and there are people around her so she feels a bit more safe.
To be frank, I think some men just hit on too many women. All they see are looks and then wham...hit her up like casting some random line in the pond and most women won't respond well to these kinds of approaches (it's not like we don't know how unarbitrarily you approach women when you have that style) so we give you a hard time and shoot you down because we know you've probably done it with a zillion other girls and we want to be "special"...
I think some of you gentlemen need to realize that as women, we don't think like you. Contrary to how you might see it if it were you, we aren't as excited about being approached because frankly, we have no clue what you want or who you are. In case you hadn't noticed, many men have purely sexual motivations when it comes to approaching women and some of us have grown very tired of these advances...it eventually becomes a hope that we'll meet that special guy through a friend or some other acquaintance and that way we KNOW he isn't just about getting his freak on.
This is why the increase in demand for "sex sites" came about. At least there you KNOW what they want. When it comes to dating, it's a whole other enchilada. | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 10:49:12 AM | Well blast, thanks again for the sincere advice. If I could, I would give you a foot massage. Anyway, I can understand why some females are so "bothered" by being hit on by millions of men that a good many of them might want to just have sex. So my question is... what do women use as a radar detector to determine whether or not a man just wants to have sex or if he really wants to know/be with her? To me....it should be somewhat obvious. Those so-called "nice guys" that women dread....probably want more than sex. They don't come off like dogs in heat. I know I know, its the confidence thing.
I guess what confuses me is, what exactly could a guy do to "prove" in the 5 second time a woman gives a man (if that) before she totally dismisses him that he is indeed in it for more than just a lousy lay? B/c quite frankly.... I don't mind finding the one. But it is probably pointless looking. So yea.  | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 11:07:31 AM | The wilder or more skittish they are, the wiser it is not to approach too closely. An accurate tranquilizer dart gun of approriate range and dosage is essential. Setting up a blind near their favorite watering hole helps ensure success.
Once thoroughly docile, it is usually safe to approach, but even so, caution is advised. These creatures can be unpredictable and dangerous. They are not easily domesticated. | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 4:13:03 PM | first off, id bleed for noone but the woman that i would marry or my kids if i had any 
my friend told me this approach,,,,, walk up to a woman at the beginning of the year and show her your t-4 slip | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:35:10 PM | | The best way to meet a woman is either through the internet, a friend, or at a wedding. I know everyone might think I`m wrong, but I`m not. Half my friends have done it this way and they are very happy. Now these days you can`t approach a woman in the streets because they right away think you are a player. It`s soooooooo bad now especially here in New York because women get approached by a whole punch of guys who don`t even know how to say hello the proper way. I remember one time my friend told me that he was in manhattan and needed to know the time, so he approached a girl at the bus stop and asked her for the time, but she truly ignored him. He had to tell her that he was not trying to get with her, that he really needed to know the time. She told him, oh, I`m so sorry, it`s just that now these days thats how guys do to get a girls attention. So there you go!! You can`t approach any women. If you do approach them, you better have the gift of cap. The best way is to make her laugh and then comment on it. It`s what I have done, and it has worked successfully. | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:45:18 PM | DONT USE CHEESY PICKUP LINES!!!!!!
JUST WALK UP TO HER AND START A SIMPLE CONVERSATION WITH HER. COMMENT ON WHATEVER SHE'S DOING, AND RELATE.
I DONT WORRY ABOUT PICKING UP WOMEN
JUST BE YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING'LL BE OKAY | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 7:02:43 PM | i always jump up and down yelling ,hey look at me!,but it dosent work well.lol.best to start with hi and a smile.lol.  if she likes you ,she will let you know.    | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 7:41:02 PM |
it's a whole other enchilada.
Conversely, in some ways I find a good woman to be like a mouth watering taco, bursting with titillation, flirtation and excitement. Different in afew ways but always unpredictable in others... and guys, you should be too!
Make her feel like a WOMAN... empower her. Don't forget that coooooooooool stare...Let her know that you find her desirable and you may not be a "nice guy" once you get her alone.
don't be boring... know when to make her nervous... | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:08:04 PM | | In my experiences the best way to approach a woman is to walk up say hi, let them know you are not going to hang around them for long, let them know you just wanted to say hi and then you leave. The womans guard goes down as you have let her know you are about to leave, more time than not they end up starting a conversation with you. Don't impose on them. My best way is to walk up and say I just have a question for you, my friends and I 9over there) were wondering what drink is that or is that gucci and then leave. works like a charm | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:18:25 PM | if shes sitting at a table in the bar, walk up to her table and pull your wang outta your pants, smacking it on the table beside her
NO chick can resist that!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:31:34 PM | | Hmm. I hate to be the "cynic" but the advice from some of the females seem to be "just think you're hot and other women will think you are hot too..."... really? Hmm. For some reason that hasn't worked to my advantage lately but then they will say "give it time". Only thing about answers like that, is that you're never really sure how much time it is supposed to take. Just like when they say just have faith and believe (concerning religion). I still haven't had that long conversation about "life" with "God" yet... so I guess I'll continue to wait on that.... continue to wait on girls to notice how great of a guy I am... continue to wait on , well.... alot of junk. Eh, anyway.... nice ideas guys. I'm feeling the whole "just say hi" bit and trying to be genuine as far as to make a comment about something she is either doing or wearing.... | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:37:58 PM | i generally try to win her trust right away, usually with a sign of courage ie. Putting a smoke out on my neck, or kicking an animal. Then when the juices start to flow i kind of rain down on her with a tray full of six to ten shooters and pull out my penis.
if that doesnt work i tend to just stay home. | |
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:13:23 PM | I may be young, but sometimes we think approache the wrong kind of woman. One has to understand that most approach women based on appearance and most of the time these women know they are hot and wont give u the time of day. The way to tell the good ones apart is to eye them, give them a little smile let her know ur admiring her, if shes interested she'll smile back or give u a sign, she might even come and talk to u. Its all a game of luck. lets face it first meetings are usually 95% based on physical attraction, and if she sees the same in you as u see in her itll happen and ull be at the next stage, where u can talk to her and she can get to know u emotionally.
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| What is the best way to approach a woman?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:50:57 PM | Definitely the walk up and ask a question is a good one. Has worked a couple times. Introduce yourself and ask her a unique question...whether it be about her clothes or the place..depending how u feel, keep talking or tell her you'll see her later..sometimes it works when you dont talk alot, just plant the hook and she if she grabs on...When i go out to a bar or club usually i chill for a while before doing anything, i like to take in whats happening around me, specifically finding a lady that i think could be approachable, and mentally prepared for meeting people...lock in and hopefully she is checking me out...give her a nice smile and see what she does...the mistake most guys make is getting caught looking but then looking away and being afraid to look back...lol...back to the confidence issue...if its a positive response dont wait around, they hate that, show that you want it....get your butt over there right away...let her see u coming so she welcomes you..if she turns away you know to just keep walking..lol
TO ALL MEN OUT THERE.....
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
maybe not the last one as much as the first couple, but its important cause we cannot be sorry that we are men.....
Stop making excuses for wanting to meet a woman! Stop making excuses for wanting to ask a woman out, and most of all stop making excuses for wanting to F U C K the living s**t out of a woman you want! This kind of direct, powerful, go-for-it-attitude is an incredible turn on for women that can't be beaten! | |
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