| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:30:43 PM | | hey while your here. whats Duh rite Woman brother???? give me five selling points , not one to be non committed. maybe ill give you myne | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:44:55 PM | hey while your here. whats Duh rite Woman brother???? give me five selling points , not one to be non committed. maybe ill give you myne
Well I guess that's for you to decide for yourself,,,, and me to decide for myself. If you need me to give you five selling points on a woman for you...... You are in the wrong business!!!
Whom EVER said that is a liar.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Memories of your own life are your own to trash or treasure!! To each his own!! | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:55:14 PM | please think of it like a business just for a minute , didnt you ever complain or want to exchange an item ? or even feel unlucky?
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jktor
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Joined: 1/16/2005
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 4:49:44 PM | i feel bad that you've experienced the shallow end of the gene pool when it comes to dating. theres a lot of men out there that are dying for one woman to spoil pamper and love. the problem is theres just as many women out here playing idiot games as the men and in the end everyone becomes centered on themselves ... and the next pretty face that answers them back..male and female.
i know of a few really good men who honestly and openly filled out their decriptions ..wants etc and in the whole time not one person said hello. alot don't even think its worth their "valuable time" to grace the poor guy with as much as a no thank you. so where do these guys turn? back to work for one .. and ineveitably to someone who will show them the interest they sought on the sites. the problem is the guys are 40's ..sucessful now because they poured themselves back into work and guess who reaps the benefits? thats right the 26 yr receptionist who dated all the wrong guys off the sites and finally took notice of " that really nice guy" in the office.
just my observation
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 5:02:23 PM | | i really couldnt care what age the guy is really as long as we got along ....but the men i find as you say come from the shallow end of the gene pool....i tried swimmin in the deep end but i only get drowned....no one is there to rescue me...they al want the perfect woman..and i am far far far from perfect..i am just who i am ....me | |
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jktor
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Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 5:05:53 PM | not everyone wants perfect..thats an illusion. perfect is looking over at your partner and thinking " i can't believe they picked me" , when you're wiping bbq sauce off your face ..lol
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Joined: 6/18/2005
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:16:58 PM |
the problem is the guys are 40's ..sucessful now because they poured themselves back into work and guess who reaps the benefits? thats right the 26 yr receptionist who dated all the wrong guys off the sites and finally took notice of " that really nice guy" in the office.
oh, puh-leeze!
the great majority - and note i did NOT say all - of those guys in their 40s are going after the 26 year old receptionist and NOT women in their own age range.
the ones who've "poured themselves into work" feel they deserve that as their "reward".
so they overlook the women with the wrinkles and the grey hair and the extra pounds in favour of the Barbie dolls. and you see THAT all the time on these dating sites!
i keep hearing - "women get deluged by mail" - yeah, right! as i keep saying, only if you're a 24 year old blonde woman with a boob shot on your profile!
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jktor
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Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 37 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:23:46 PM | thats not true..i'm a 41 yr old guy whose poured himself into his work.. and my " reward" certainly isn't some 26 yr plastic surgeons wet dream. that said the biggest problem with any net dating site is theres no way to convey any sense of humor through typing..and most out there won't get off their asses long enough to have a 10 minute face to face like normal human beings , they all want to be wowed or swept of their feet or like to hear it or not simply like getting mail and the attention.
the majority of us 40's guys just don't have the time to play the games and opt not to. the ones dating the youger ones ..are in a league of their own..and not what the rest of us are by any stretch of the means.
if the ladies want to meet meaningfull mates i'd suggest they turn off the computer..and try taking a sailing course...a golf lesson...a cooking class.. there you'd most likely find a guy whose not out to turn back the clock.
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:29:32 PM |
if the ladies want to meet meaningfull mates i'd suggest they turn off the computer..and try taking a sailing course...a golf lesson...a cooking class.. there you'd most likely find a guy whose not out to turn back the clock.
i took golf lessons this spring.
there were NO men in the class.
and it wasn't the ladies' class either...
the majority of us 40's guys just don't have the time to play the games and opt not to.
simply going by what is said by the 40-something women here, the majority of the 40-something guys are EXPERTS at playing games and quite a few of them opt to. the ones who aren't like that, are here on the forums carrying on decent conversations. | |
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jktor
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Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:32:50 PM | of course no one was there in the spring...we all head to south carolina to play..lol we practice all winter. i can give you a listing of classes ... mixed men and women.
theres also the LCBO wine tasting courses, scotch nights..etc. all full of men
the central thing here is you have to actually back away from the computer and get out in the real world. lol
i know who knew?
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Joined: 5/9/2005
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:34:19 PM | """if the ladies want to meet meaningfull mates i'd suggest they turn off the computer..and try taking a sailing course...a golf lesson...a cooking class.. there you'd most likely find a guy whose not out to turn back the clock."""
How else would they meet you jktor?
What are youdoing online seeking women, shouldn't you be elsewhere prowling and advising? | |
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jktor
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Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 42 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:39:41 PM | hey i'm just adding my 2 cents..its not my fault i happen to have outside interests other than how much ram my computer can hold
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 7:31:20 PM | maybe you've been just going for the wrong type of man....maybe try changing the bait....might reel one in then......hard to say....some ppl just have bad luck.....maybe you should be more pro active....like in conparison.....how many of the bad experience have been guys that approached you first as opposed to the ones you approached first..... | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 7:42:59 PM | Just to reiterate (and commiserate!) ... Men who want to commit to one women DO exist! 
I actually thought I was going to be with my last girlfriend for keeps (dare I say the jinxed 'marry' word here!?). For the entire time I dated her, she was the ONE and ONLY in my mind, heart and arms.
Then, just like my ex-wife, it was HER who wanted to end things between us... and I never have truly understood how come.
Anyway, please know that there are males out here who are just as saddened and frustrated about the dating world as you are. Which begs me to ask "Why cant i find a WOMAN willing to commit"?? | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:21:03 PM | | That is precisely correct, and precisely as it should be. Women are at least somewhat attracted to power and success, and men are at least somewhat attracted to youth and beauty. Men go out and get careers so that they can attract younger, hotter women. It may be 'shallow' of men to do this, but it is equally 'shallow' of women to throw themselves at rock stars and professional athletes. | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:37:59 PM | | you found one you are right if your dating a guy or girl who is sleeping with someone else dump them this is wrong for any relationship to work | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 10:02:01 PM | Well now any one sleeping with someone else and dating you I would say dump him or her now !
And as for why can't you find a man willing to commit to a relationship ! Well your just dating the wrong ones !
As for me I too have a hard time finding a woman who's willing to commit to a relationship also!!
Why is that I really don't know either !
Yeah I hear them say they want long term relationships but none never seems willing to even think of making a committed relationship .
So your not alone on here looking for a commmited relationship !Some of us single men are looking for the same thing with some lovely lady but where the heck are those who want a committed relationship ??
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