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 RDF6244

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 101
Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 1/17/2007 2:34:48 PM
maybe shedevil you are looking at the wrong profiles.here is one man who is willing to commit and is not asking for sex right of the bat.why not check out my profile and give me a shot and you'll br pleasantly surprised at what you will find.
 blond with green

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 102
Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 1/17/2007 3:52:38 PM
i think that guy is not right for you and when dating someone i always ask ?s alot and check out his actions towards other women how he acts around them with you there also why bother with this guy. and just have fun being single til you meet the right guy. thats what i doing and im honest when meeting people.and i think most people should be honest from the start instead of lieing to people about what they are looking for if it isnt what they want.i listen to what they are saying now and if they say want to date. means others not ready for anything this meaning no commit. unless he say he want one i say move on and stop wasting youre time on him. sounds harsh but its true. im a single mom too but im not in a big rush to have a boyfriend right away. i belive it take more than5 months but that just my veiw everybodys different. guys brain are not the same as girls. i like dating cause then i have a better idea of what i want and i dont watse time on one guy who not into me. you should let let this bother you and move on. i know it sucks you like this guy and he treated you like dirt. sorry that you got hurt in this and the guys a big jerk.
 matisse808

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 103
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Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 4/13/2007 1:27:46 AM
I'm wondering if, during these 4 or 5 months, you are seeing each other regularly or just off and on. Because if you were seeing each other regularly for that long, you must have had ample opportunities to make your attitude about this subject known. Especially if you've been intimate. It's possible, if you were just seeing them off and on, that to them you were just a "booty call." It is tough for women these days, because there are a lot of women out there who demonstrate (and therefore "normalize") sluttish behaviour. Men have to read the signals you put out, so do have a care in what those signals are.

For example, it strikes me, that if your values are more traditional than not, perhaps you should think of a different name. "She Devil" sort of gives the impression that sex is more important to you than making a serious relationship with someone.

just trying to help
 Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009
Msg: 104
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Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:41:17 PM
Can't help you there. I'm monogomous. Only one woman at a time. Why can't they commit? Usually it's a trust issue. Either they feel you can't be trusted or they know they can't be trusted
 thesearchforone

Joined: 6/26/2009
Msg: 105
Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:36:02 PM
post a picture....were visual creatures..
 wayne.martin

Joined: 9/28/2009
Msg: 106
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Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 10/11/2009 10:12:10 AM
l would love to commit to any woman with or without kids so if you want a commited from me plz reply back and see where it goes
 northern705gu

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 107
Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 10/30/2009 5:20:24 PM
Your not looking in the right place. Try asking a 'nice guy' out when one messages you.
I'm a nice guy and willing to commit to the right woman, if she can commit. Sharing common interests and developing a good friendship is a good start to a committed relationship. good luck www.plentyofchickenshere.com
 coleco man

Joined: 10/10/2009
Msg: 108
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Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 10/31/2009 8:02:56 PM
Because you say you want a "Nice guy" When really, you are attracted Bad boys & Jerks.Thats how human nature works.
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