| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 10:06:05 AM | Yes, I can only speak for myself, but I would, If you meet a women and she is upfront and says that she has kids, the man needs to be honest letting her know how he feels about that. (HEY GUYS) If your gonna meet the Mother, and learn to have feelings for her, do not leave the children or teenagers behind. (it's a package) deal Let's say you spend alot of time together and over the course of time, you realize your staring to fall in love with this women, then you better start putting that much effort into loving her children no matter what age. If you love her, realize that her children hold a very special place in her heart just like your children do in your heart.
Can't walk the walk? Don't ask her out.
Be a man about it, either accept her and her children as one, or leave her in peace.
As for myself, I think a women with kids is wonderful. but that's just me. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 10:14:19 AM |
4.Aside from all the social ramifications of single parenthood and why I think it's so incredibly selfish and fukcing up the world....answer no flipping idea what that's meant to mean at all so you may care to claim that one .
I find it astonishing that you have no idea what he means by this statement, That in itself is part if what is wrong with some single mothers. Here is one obvious problem with out of wedlock births:
a higher proportion of children in poverty come from single parent homes (Dowd 1997: 20). the Census Bureau reported 42.3% of children who are being raised by single mothers were below poverty (http://www.census.gov/hhes/www/poverty/histpov/hstpov10.html).
single motherhood costs taxpayers about $112 billion every year, according to a 2008 study by Georgia State University economist Benjamin Scafidi.
Also, the reason I have such a low opinion of single mothers (not the previously married variety) is that I think it's incredibly selfish to bring another human being into the world without two parents. .......answer Is ......well How many men do you know have had to make a decision to carry on with a pregnancy or not .....you Know exactly how I mean I don't mean ' do you keep it ' I mean the actually physical side of it ??? Hummus let me guess ........now I'm no mathematical genius but I take a guess the answer is O . Now before you shout me down or should I say try LOL ( cos you won't ever win) how does abortion feel? .........lol you tell me .
That doesn't even make sense. Plenty of single mothers got pregnant on purpose, or weren't using any birth control when they had sex over and over again (which is the same thing as getting pregnant on purpose) and got pregnant. Even women who legitimately get pregnant by accident still have a CHOICE. Almost all single mothers had a CHOICE about whether or not to bring an illegitimate child into the world. The only cases I can think of where it wasn't done on purpose are those in which a woman didn't know she was pregnant until it was too late to get an abortion. Even then she could have chosen adoption, as could other single mothers who just "couldn't have an abortion".
If people really "wuved" their kids as much as they claimed to, they would want the best opportunities in life for them....... Answer...lol Its 'loved' their kids BTW and they do ...........My Children do have the best opportunities in life ...............why Because I make sure they have that.
No, your children do not have the best opportunities if you deliberately had them out of wedlock.
The best opportunities would include you being married to a man who would be a decent husband and father.
Women who think ahead about what is best for their children do not impulsively get pregnant because they want a baby NOW and hope the man will jump for joy over being forced into fatherhood. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 11:17:48 AM | | I know I've dated 2 girls with kids in the past and it hasn't been an issue. We were open with each other about the situation both times and the kids were not the reason the relationship didn't work out. In 1 situation the father was involved and in the other he wasn't. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 12:39:05 PM |
No, your children do not have the best opportunities if you deliberately had them out of wedlock.
The best opportunities would include you being married to a man who would be a decent husband and father.
you are tripping rite? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 6:16:42 PM | | Sure, but most of us have kids too. at the risk of sounding jaded or sexist it seems like women think its just fine to be looking online, but there must be something wrong with us guys. Just an observation.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2009 6:49:35 PM | Most of the guys in my age bracket have grown children. They aren't really looking to raise another young one. I seem to be relegated to the FWB or avoid completely list! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/12/2009 1:40:32 AM | Yes, but everyone has guidelines about who will fit in their life. I don't date single parents as I am free to be spontanious so prefer a woman who has that freedom. Just as some women don't want a guy with weekend kids.
Theres guys who prefer blondes or boobs or butts too its all down to personal choice. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/12/2009 8:28:19 AM | This was sent to me today....
Remember, dogs and cats are better than kids because they
(1) eat less,
(2) don't ask for money all the time,
(3) easier to train,
(4) come when called,
(5) never ask to drive the car,
(6) don't hang out with drug-using people;
(7) don't smoke or drink,
(8) don't want to wear your clothes,
(9) don't have to buy the latest fashions,
(10) don't need a gazillion dollars for college and
(11) if they get pregnant, you can sell their children.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/12/2009 10:26:44 AM | | i ask my self same question to be honest dont know wat its all bout i have a friend who dates a fella she with him 2 years and she has a 4 yr and he wont even be in same room as her child i just wouldnt be able to have he doesdnt need a father but he could be friends with him i dont knw its strange ............................. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/12/2009 10:30:43 AM | | well im a single mother and my child gets the best his father doesnt want to knw he wasnt planned for either of us but he did happen and just cause im not married it doesnt mean my child wil suffer in life like now he wil always have the best and i think u have some cheek implyin that without a father my child wouldnt have a chance my child is best off without his waster of a father how dare u try put people down bout things u have no idea a bout !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/26/2009 8:20:23 PM | | i dated a woman with 4 boys for a couple months unfourtunatly it didnt work out but we are still good friends. i actually feel as a parent myself that dating another parent is easier because they already know of the type of responsibilitys that come with children. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 7:09:13 PM | | I am a single dad, both live with me age 16 and 18 and have for over 4 years now.. I am looking for a lady that is great with children, put the family first and enjoy doing fun things often.. SO YES I WILL, date a lady with kids...not with 10 kids or little babies, but around the same age as mine give or take a few years...no problem.. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:15:38 PM | | i wanna answer u r quiz and let me tell u im a single parent of 2 kids and what i only looking for is to date a single mom the reason why? i dont think they have the time for any games or drama and i personally think they more secure of what they want for their kids. | |
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