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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/24/2006 8:47:43 AM | | I won't even consider dating someone that dosen't have or dosen't want kids, they just don't understand that a rugby game or school function might be more important than their needs | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/24/2006 11:48:04 AM | | I'm new to all this dating stuff because befor I would meet guys at the bar or club and we would talk hit it off and"oh by the way I have two kids...where did he go??"...I'm now trying to find someone on line..that way I can tell them I have kids with getting my hopes up first..read mt profile then msg me..but either way it all just sucks..I want to have someone to love that I didn't give birth to...don't get me wrong I LOVE my kids more than anything..if it came down to it my kids or my love life(or lack there of) MY KIDS hands down. I need to find a man who wants me and my kids not just me and my wonderful smile and my sexy lips and....lol well you get it...Love me...well us! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/24/2006 3:39:38 PM | | I would have no problem dating a woman with kids, and it is by no means a turn off. I plan on having kids with whoever I marry, so if there are already some, big deal. My main stipulation is that the kids would have to be young enough. What I mean is, are these kids young enough to be my own children? As a 30 year old 11 or 12 years old or under would be fine, but a 16 year old? That would be less than half my age. That would just be too weird for me, and I don't know if it would be a good situation to get in. But I also don't generally go for women that are that much older than me, so the likelihood of a woman I'm dating having a 16 year old isn't great. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/24/2006 10:14:57 PM | | Sure men date women with kids.Sometimes theres a lot of resentment from the children about having someone new in there lives.If that happens the best thing for all of you is to break off the relationship.Remember your kids have to come first and if that means waiting until their 18 before you date then thats what you have to do.To do otherwise would be very selfish and not healthy for the children. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/25/2006 7:29:58 AM | Some people you dont even give the courtesy of acknowledgement...and with every meeting site, there are "plenty of..shts"... They are  with their life and come on just to spew venom. They need lots of  Watch out for them, bless them silently and move on....fast! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/25/2006 7:38:45 AM | | Well yes here is guys out here that will date a women with kids ,regardless of the age ,but those women never seem to give me a second look,so i,d say its not the men out here,at least not all of us anyways... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/25/2006 7:39:14 AM | | Well yes there is guys out here that will date a women with kids ,regardless of the age ,but those women never seem to give me a second look,so i,d say its not the men out here,at least not all of us anyways... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/25/2006 11:41:27 AM | I see this is a older question but ... I dont believe most men have a problem with other children in a relationship. I have 2 children of my own and the last relationship I was in she had 3 ages varried from 5 to 11 and we were together for almost 2 years. a friendship or at least a open line of communication is needed with the other parent/parents though for the childrens sake (health and well being). Depending on you or the other persons jelousy and maturity children can cause stress in that type of relationship but talking about issues can relieve it.
In short I have no problems with other children in a relationship and hope there are some decent women out there with the same views
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/25/2006 11:46:20 AM | | I will admit though at the beginning i was a little affraid I didnt want to replace there dad but i wanted to be there for them and as i started to understand how they felt and thought that was when i started to open up to them and tried being a friend | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/26/2006 10:52:34 PM | | hey to all the ladies and when i say LADIES is what i mean not some sniffling little girl whom wants to get her way. you wondering where the single men are who are raising children also? looking for a man who will eccept you and your children? well alot of us is on this site looking for that special someone. now to turn this around alot of you women are PICKY but wait im not finished us men have same issue. the biggest prob is from both sides are taken at face value. what i mean by that is both wants the other party to be attractive. but im not saying to just settle for. i have had a time trying to find a lady in my area. cuz of me being a male and a parent im cut short b4 saying hello. but im sure at times some think im not attractive. well no matter this isnt the place for that. REMEMBER LADIES US MEN ON THIS SITE ARE LOOKING FOR YOU ALSO...... God bless | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/27/2006 6:57:30 AM | | i agree whole hardly. I have guys say they love kids but the minute they want to go out and i explain i can't because i need to take care of my kids they run. They act like i am no fun or not excited enough anymore because i have responsblilities to my kids. Oh well it is thier loss | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/27/2006 7:18:03 AM | | i myself would date a woman with kids.i always wanted kids but neve had them.but there ae problems..if you break up and have fomed a connection with the childen..you have no ights to ever see them again.this is painful for me and the klids.also alot of kids resent you from the first meeting.and the father is automatically going to stalk and threaten the new man in his kids life...and,not to stereotype..but alot of single moms are only attracted to the type of guy that left them alone in the first place! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/27/2006 7:54:33 AM | | yeah there are u just have to know where to fine them i mean me personally i'll date u if u do or don't have kids its how u look at the situation thats before u and figure out if u can handle it or not if not then atleast try and be there for the person and her kids damn it man if u can then hey more power to u and if not then try to for her and her kids place man i mean if it came down to it put ur self in that persons shows then that might help u with understanding what she is going throu trust me i should know i date 4 ladys before with kids and it turned out perfect | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/27/2006 10:31:27 AM | I"m totaly with you hun I meen honestly its sitter this sitter that
If someone can't except the fact that I have a beautiful little girl well that is thier fault's ohhhhhhhhhhh welll..I meen I can't always afford a sitter nore do i want m daughter to grow up with some sitter.
Men need to learn that it is the 2006 and there are alot of women out there that do have children and that some of us are so called tainted... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/29/2006 7:12:14 PM | well yes...we do exist...actually as a single father with a six year old girl...i can say that I think i understand where your coming from....single women without kids act,say, and think much like single men without kids...that is kids are baggage. I have a slightly differeent take on this though and forgive me I mean no offence as this is one opinion.....that is I have heard so many women say "if i could only find a decent hardworking responsible man...." when they meet one like myself(blowing my own horn a bit)....they dont know what to do.....they really want someone they can mold or fix.
My real beef though comes from explaining to all those that assume because I have custody that my daughters mom is dead.....when she is just like so many men and ran away from her responsibility or didnt know how to cope with it....so yes shedevil we are out here ....and as a single parent i am lonely frustrated and struggling through | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/29/2006 7:27:07 PM | | i ask myself the same thing some times before i had a baby i had no problem now that i have a baby no one wants to stick around I wish i could find a guy tos tick around but it seems like its not gonna happen | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 3/29/2006 7:47:05 PM | Well I haven't really put myself out there too much with the dating thing, I have pretty much been revolved around my daughters needs. But I had a friend that actually got alot of men to stick around and she has 2 kids. I haven't really noticed a problem with people having a problem that I have a child. Maybe I just haven't cared to pay close enough attention. I live for my daughter and noone else. The way that I look at it is if something drove them away it was my sense of humor....lol....I have a very dry sense of humor and that is not for alot of people. I tend to joke around much of the time, and am not very serious. So I would say in short but it's too late for that, I think there are alot of men out there that don't mind kids at all. Also like alot of them have said above they are raising children also.  | |
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