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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/4/2006 10:56:33 AM | | WELL LOOKS LIKE YOUR MUM SHOULD OF TAKEN THE COAT HANGER TO YOU.. PUT YOU OUT OF YOUR MISERY!!! YOU MUST BE A SAD INDIVIDUAL TO GET ON THIS SITE AND TELL WOMEN TO KEEP THEIR LEGS CLOSED....IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO SWEETHEART!!! AND THE MAN SHOULD OF WORN A RUBBER OR BETTER YET, GOT HIS SHIT CLIPPED... I AM GLAD YOU PASS YOUR JUDGEMENT AROUND LIKE YOUR SOME KIND OF PERSON WITH HIGH MORAL VALUES.. AND FOR THE RECORD.. WE ARENT LOOKING FOR THE MAN OF OUR DREAMS..JUST SOMEONE TO SHARE OUT THOUGHTS AND LAUGHTER WITH...... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/4/2006 11:44:03 AM | hello yes there are, Im one , Im in the Bronx, N Y
I have dated woman with kids , I would never put down
a single mother, Im sure there are many men who would
not mind , or would like a relationship with a single mother
I sure most woman close to my age, either have children
liveing with them or grown and outta the house,
Id be happy to meet these woman and if so the children
aswell. anthony | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/4/2006 1:47:16 PM | Sorry to hear about that; you should pull a Lorena Bobbitt on that guy.
The thing is that this is a dating site. Members do not have a lot of information to work with, so they have to filter the results out somehow. Dating someone with a kid, to be honest, has its complexities. The ex-spouse (if (s)he is still alive), dealing with kids when someone may not be ready to deal with them, revisiting the memories of their own evil step-parent, and the likelihood that someone would not be able to have kids of their own. Even if they did, imagine the dynamics between the half-siblings. And with the profiles being so generic, very rarely is someone's profile going to stand out so much that I will make the exception. Now there's this woman who has kids that I like, but I got to know her a little beforehand in a non-courtship manner, and so far she seems to stand out from the mediocrity that is Central Illinois.
If it seemed like I was generalizing, I am sorry. I kind of mixed the single parent problem with the unwanted pregnancy with a jerk problem. There is some overlap, but not as much as I implied. Nevertheless, I do feel leary about picking up the baggage of some guy who failed, someone I don't even know and will likely resent me. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/5/2006 7:37:24 AM | To me if I am interested in a person it doesn't matter if they have kids are not. I am recently divorced professional with a 10 year old son. I believe it would be hypocritical for me to say that I would not date anyone with kids. Even if I didn't have any it wouldn't matter to me how many kids a woman has if we liked each other. It adds a little more complication that has to be worked out.
In fact I love kids and mine is the one thing that pulled me through the awful pain and depression of my divorce. I now look forward not backward to a better life.
I hope that kind of answers the question. To sum up "It should not matter"
TR | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/5/2006 8:12:29 AM | Yes i am a 39yr old dad to 3 lovely kids that i adore love to bits but unfortunately don't live with me but do stop over, And yes i to want to find true love 1day with some1 caring as i but have not found her yet so plz feel free to prove me wrong and reply to me soon lol.  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/5/2006 5:44:49 PM | I have to say, there are definitely guys that don't care if you have kids. I will also agree that its hard for a guy with a kid to sometimes find someone that doesn't do the same thing. Myself, I have found only a couple of peeps that would date me, a lot of the time it was based on having a kid. It's really too bad for them, 'cause my kid rocks! He's smart, funny and can really enhance any person's life.
All I can say is that some people have different priorities. Some may feel like you are looking for a replacement for their father (or mother for that matter), and some may not feel ready for the responsibility. I was told once that it wasn't fair for me not to mention immediately that I had a kid. I found if I mentioned it, I wouldn't get any responses. Now, I really don't care if I get a response, 'cause I am comfortable with myself and knowing that if I have to hide my kid for a date, it isn't worth it.
All in all, everyone has to decide what is gonna make them happy. I will just be as open and honest as possible, and let them decide if they can be happy with me. If not, c'est la vie! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/6/2006 11:03:47 AM | Yeah, there are men out there that date woman with children. I am one of them. If it ends up that we hit it off, and the children want to warm up to me, hey why not. We live in a mixed world. No one is the same, so why should we expect single mom's to be any different then everyone else. They are entitled to live thier lives they way they see fit. So....ladies, don't get bumbed out. We are here.
Peace and Love everyone. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/6/2006 6:37:23 PM | I've been told that I am better looking without the kid by a male friend of mine. I told him that my boy is the hi hats to my drum kit. And that no guy or anyone as a matter of fact will be my choice over my boy. I feel that my son makes me look and feel gorgeous. And I love him for that. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has given me the incentive and energy to get off the couch and start my own business and keep our home alive.  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/7/2006 10:46:21 AM | | im finding it really hard to find guys that would date cause i have 3 kids, but the way i see it if u cant accept my kids then move along, my kids are my life. so thats all i can say i guess, everyone says im not their type but i am nice, well whats the problem am i that ugly, sorry im a little bitter right now. i hope to find the right guy soon. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/7/2006 12:50:15 PM | OF COURSE THEY DO!!! But hey for the ones who dont...you have to respect that, as some men want to share the experience of having a child with someone for the first time for himself and her....I have a daughter....I always be sure to mention it right off the get go. It definitley does make dating harder..not because guys dont want a gf with a child but because I'm more picky in whom I date because you have to be very cautious in who you let in your lives.
Here's a thought....I think most guys are scared off by us because in being Moms brings responsibilty, maturity, stability & independence...and on top of it all many of us have careers going all at the same time. Too many guys are irresponsible, inmature..and still living with thier own Moms..lol....there ya have it, theyre just intimidated...and if they dont like kids..then who the hell wants to date him anyways?
Keep lookin u'll find him.. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/7/2006 12:50:26 PM | OF COURSE THEY DO!!! But hey for the ones who dont...you have to respect that, as some men want to share the experience of having a child with someone for the first time for himself and her....I have a daughter....I always be sure to mention it right off the get go. It definitley does make dating harder..not because guys dont want a gf with a child but because I'm more picky in whom I date because you have to be very cautious in who you let in your lives.
Here's a thought....I think most guys are scared off by us because in being Moms brings responsibilty, maturity, stability & independence...and on top of it all many of us have careers going all at the same time. Too many guys are irresponsible, inmature..and still living with thier own Moms..lol....there ya have it, theyre just intimidated...and if they dont like kids..then who the hell wants to date him anyways?
Keep lookin u'll find him.. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/7/2006 3:21:50 PM | I am a single mom with a 2 1/2 yr old and a 12 and 10 yr old. I am having a hard time finding a good guy. I am not looking for a father for my children, they have that. I have a good job and can support myself, so that is not an issue. I just want a nice guy, who will care about my kids. I do not have a problem finding guys who want to go out a few times and play games and leave when they get what they want (I have learned my lesson on this the hard way) I want to find my best friend....okay where is he? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/8/2006 1:36:00 AM | Men do. And they are common.
HOwever single mums are usually also ex wives. Ex wives who are still venting from the past divorce. And even the most paitent man gets sick of that disgusting behaviour in a short time.
Single mums yes. Venting ex wives NO! Regardlesss of the kids or lack of. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/8/2006 2:40:18 AM | Altho im only 22 if i met someone with children no matter how many it may be i would love to be part of there family and would want them as my family. I Love KIDS weather they like me or not but thats just the way I am, beleve it or not there alot smarter and mature then most of the adults i meet and boy oh boy theres no fun like family fun like movies, games, walks, parks, beach and fishing i say the more the merrier could i am this way because I am from a family with 6 brothers 1 sister.
Were All human Enjoy Life While it lasts dont let anything stop you from what you want out of life there are alot of guys out there that beleve what i beleve. | |
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| prince charming ?
Posted: 6/8/2006 2:19:40 PM | hello , this might be the thing holding you back,
the prince charming ship has sailed, try to find
a regular in your town whos holding down a good job
start with that, and appreciate the little thing s
you do for eachother, also don t be so hung up on
look s, | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/8/2006 2:24:03 PM | hello; I worked with a young woman for a year , and didn t notice her
then on take you daughter to work day, I ran into a her and we had
a 2 year relationship, she look great with her little girl, she had a son
as well, she had to move outta state cause her job, who knows
we might still be together , even married today | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/8/2006 6:08:21 PM | Kids are the best!!! why wouldnt a guy date a woman or best interested in a woman with kids?? Its not like the woman are asking you to become "daddy" to her kid(s) or anyhting like that, they are looking for the same as you, someone to care for them and love them.
If they have kids it doesnt change the type of person that she is, it actually makes them better and stronger ppl!!! at least in my opinion. I would date a woman with a kid, because like i said, it doesnt change who they are at all, and i totally respect them!!!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/8/2006 7:40:44 PM | re: ^^^^ can we make more guys like you?
I've had a *lot* of men express interest in me but with limitations in regards to my role as a single parent.
And that sort of thing was what made me take my hiatus from dating  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/9/2006 1:35:26 AM | we certainly do, as some previous posts would testify
l went out with a woman ,who had four kids ,,she was 7 years older ,,
she only had two at home ,,when lmet her ,,,,we got on great
they are part of her life ,,so they become part of mine ,,
we ended up getting married ,,unfortunately it ended 7 years later ,,
but l had very little problems with her kids ,,,,,would date a woman with kids ,,no problems | |
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