| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/13/2006 2:24:07 PM | Kevin
That is not true, not all women run when they find out that a guy has a kid/s I never even thought about it from the day I found out that u had Helen I liked then loved you and still do for who u r and that means u having a daughter and even more now knowing everything that you have done and gone through yourself to give her the best life that you can. I just want you to know I think that your doing a good job and you have someone in your life that is not scared off by the faceted of you having Helen but that’s all I can say bc that chose is not mine. Ttyl.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/13/2006 5:51:39 PM | | I am 48 and I always wanted children and still do. I realize that as the years go on, the reality of having children is fading. If I met a woman with children, I would certainly welcome the woman and her children into my life. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/13/2006 8:31:43 PM | | I am a 20 year old single mother and when I tell guys that I have a kid they say its ok but dont want to spend time with myself and her and they mostly only want sex. Ive been getting so fed up with this im thinking about being a damn les. Are there any men out there who date single moms and not just for sex? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/13/2006 11:52:20 PM | i always thought that it was a packages deal it does not matter if it is a woman or man with children.it is a packages deal you take the whole packages or you take nothing at all
i never had a problem dating a woman with children,as long as she didn't have a problem dating a man with children
i have always dating a woman with children i always looked at it as a ready made family.who is missing a part of it.they are just waiting for the missing piece to come along.once that missing piece is found after time it will seen like it has always been there | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/14/2006 11:36:51 AM | That is one of the very reason I'm single is cuz my ex waits 7 years to tell me he wants me but not my kids and they r very good kids mind u .one incollege and the other makes stright A in high school.But he did'nt raise his me and his ex and her husband did more than he ever has so they r grown and he needs me nomore. How funny is that!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/14/2006 12:39:08 PM | | I'm a newly single guy. I have two boys of my own. I love being a father. From what I can see, most of the women my age that are single have kids of their own. If I'm to start a relationship with a woman that has kids, I will have to accept her as she is just as she will have to accept me. The whole thing with the kids though is just to go slow and not to get the kids hopes up that something WILL happen until it is beyond doubt that something IS happening (Love). | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/14/2006 1:12:43 PM | I would guess there are alot of guys out there that would date a single mother, now some might not understand that when you date a single mother it is a package deal your not just going to have a relationship with her you better have one with her kids too. And thats not easy sometimes, kids are loyal. So I think it's important to let the kids know I ain't there dad, I will love them like a son or daughter but I ain't there dad. My dad left when I was young my step dad is my dad but I never called him dad, I had no doubt he loved me like I was his son, and kids seem to understand that.
One thing I've seen on these ads is I'm not looking for my kids a farther figure, and I understand that but you better be willling to let a relationship develope between the kids and him. Alot of guys won't be willing to go that extra mile, so yes your options are cut down, but there are guys that would be willing. I personally don't pay a bit of attention to that part of the profile, first off see if me and her want it then see if the kids will except me, and yes that will take time. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/14/2006 2:54:28 PM | | I am having the same problem, I have a daughter she is almost 2. I am out with a guy he seems interested things are good until i say i am a single mom. That is pretty much the end of it. I alway wondered why, if they would stick around to listen maybe they would here this. She has a dad, (not a very good one) but he is still her dad. I am not looking to give her a new one, well if i could trade him in for a newer model, i would. Who wouldn't! lol Men are a mystery ladies, who knows! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:04:11 PM | most women I have dated have kids
my advise: tell the guy upfront. If he has a problem with it, move on.
After all, do you really want a loser with your kid?
(sorry if I step on toes here, but, kids are kinda important | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 1:02:54 AM | | Hi I understand what your talking about. It seems there are no guys out there for us single moms. And if there are they live to far away. My problem is the guys says he doesn't care that I have kids and stays around for awhile then says he has desided he doesn't know what he wants. They get scared of the family role and run off. Why is that. Come on guys if you are going to say you know what you want in life then stck with it. Don't be playing games we don't have time for it. So is there anyone that whats a great gal with three little boys???? | |
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Saige
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Joined: 5/4/2006
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 5:29:02 AM |
I think there are plenty of guys out there, that will date women with kids,Ive never had a problem finding them.It's finding the right one ,thats the problem.
Hey, that's my story! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 3:49:11 PM | yes I think Im opened minded about this subject, I was in 2 long term relationships
with woman with children, they were good relationship , I would be happy to meet
another woman with children , Im in NYC , the Bronx, | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 4:01:12 PM | Lovebug8528
that was so sweet of you acturly that was the fist nicest thing i read that a lady has posted in quiet sometime and it's acturly nice to come on the fourms and see some people who don't look down on us for, what were in or any of ours situartion | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 6:42:38 PM | | Im a fulltime single dad myself and I try to only date women with children because they know how hard it is to shuffle life and kids. I have 2 teenage boys and once a woman finds out that I have kids they bolt so I know what you are talking about. Hope you find what you are looking for and be sweet. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 6:48:38 PM | | Flirtygirl its not there aren't any guys out there for you single moms, its just that most single moms are looking for men who dont have children of their own, and most women are looking for a perfect guy with no flaws. I think that if there is a guy who will love you and your kids unconditionally and with all his heart he is perfect. I have raised my two sons for 5 yrs and I have found that most women want someone that has no emotional baggage and nothing that ties them to their past. I know this sounds crass but it is just my opinion. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 9:44:17 PM | | I agree because there are guys/gurls out here today that DO date single moms/dads and it's not just because they have a kid i mean nobody acturly would date just because they want get close to his/her kid nobody in their right state, of mind that is lol but if you just keep looking you will find somebody who won't mind the fact your a single mom/dad and you have your kid 24/7 like i do and there is NOTHING wrong with single dad/mom. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 10:23:30 PM | | To bad there arent men on this thread that live around my area that will give an single mom a chance but i can agree it does get lonely during nights when your lil one is asleep and everybody else is sleeping or some are gone for night, esp when the babys father is not around for some time. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/15/2006 11:48:29 PM | Before I say anything, I just want to say to all you single mothers who are still looking that I'm in awe of your ability to endure inner pain. I don't want to even think about how complex and knotted your inner lives must be. But one thing I do know: if I met a woman who I liked, and she was a mother, I would have that same awe. I would feel that I'd found an amazing person like THAT. Men have this instinct that is similar to what's found in lions and tigers and bears (no joke intended) which is what causes them to eat their young. The males who take over a group of females kill all the children not conceived by them. The whole thing is some kind of macho gene that hasn't left yet.
Well, I'm different, and there are other guys who are as well (I hope, otherwise... !).
Even if there's not enough to go around, at least know this, ladies: you all deserve a real man of that calibre (sp?).
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/16/2006 6:18:38 AM |
Men have this instinct that is similar to what's found in lions and tigers and bears (no joke intended) which is what causes them to eat their young.
What a CROCK. Men and woman have a tendancy to move away from what is good and honorable able delve into what is not. Its human nature. Our spirit pulls us the other direction. It's a battle. An in the dirt, hand to hand combat, WAR!!!!!
The above statement is just another excuse humans come up with to deny responsibilty in a world where they believe there is no God.
We must fight all these inner urges to become better men. And to do what is decent and right.
This may sound kookie in tdays world. Oh well........ | |
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dr_who
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Joined: 6/8/2006
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/16/2006 8:12:00 PM | | Some do. However, I have noticed something quite disturbing...I have meet a number of 20 something single ladies lately. It seems as though an increasing proportion have children as opposed to those who don't. I am NOT say saying they are the majority by any means, but of the ones I meet, an increasing percentage have children. Being 32, and possibly seeking my "initial" relationship, the thought of "instant family" just add dad, are somewhat unsettling. But some days I find myself wondering are there any left who don't already have kids? | |
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