| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:22:00 PM | GOT YOU LOOKIN:
"HELLO I AM A FULL TIME SINGLE PARENT OF A SIX YEAR OLD SON THAT I LOVE VERY MUCH. I AM GLAD DAS LIKE ME ARE HERE IF I WAS A DEAD BEET MY SON WOULD HAVE NO ONE I HAVE BEEN RAISING MY SON SINCE BIRTH.
WHY DOES A MOTHER HAVE A CHILD AND WALK AWAY? THANK GOD FOR US SINGLE LOVING DADS.
IF A CHICK ISNT IN TO ME BECAUSE I HAVE A CHILD SHE IS A SORRY PERSON AND WE DONT NEED HER. I HAVE BEEN LUCKY SO FAR EVERYONE I HAVE MEET LOVES MY SON AS MUCH AS I DO. THANKS TO ALL YOU GREAT GIRLS THAT ACCEPT US SINGLE DADS."
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/23/2006 4:16:05 AM | I have found it to be the same in reverse. I have two children and discovered the same attitude.
One person I met said it was fine etc Then after about two months started to moan about the time I spent with my kids! I only see them about 30% of the time compared with their Mother. | |
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Saige
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Joined: 5/4/2006
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/24/2006 3:05:00 PM | | a mate of mine wants to know if the amount of kids she has matters? she's got a silly amount, but reckons she'll only land a guy who has already got kids...the numbers involved could get frightening! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/24/2006 5:34:21 PM | Does it also matter how young the kids are? I'm pregnant now, and obviously I'm not going out scouting the bars for a date  but do I have to wait a whole year or two to even begin looking? Or are some guys understanding enough to date someone with a baby? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/24/2006 6:19:23 PM | I've tried dating a woman with 2 kids for 3 month's......the problem i had was that the little monsters cost a fortune and pretty much put an end to sex. It really sucked to be having once a month sex in the bathroom with a screaming spoiled brat pounding on the locked door....but i was so deprived not even that could make my erection go away. 
Then there's the fact that the monsters eat your food, destroy your house and hate you every step of the way.
I'd rather just play with myself than go through all that.  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/24/2006 8:23:53 PM | | well chryslergirl us men are scared of new things like women with kids but i have a teenage daughter myself that i love spending time with.so yes there are some of us out here who have no problems with dateing a women with kids herself | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/24/2006 8:56:33 PM | i know what you mean ive got 4 boys 3 still at home im not looking for a daddy for them just someone that would like to hang out and get to know me and not be scared off because im a single mom i would enjoy some adult male company once in awhile even if its over a cup of coffee im not going to lie and say im single with no children to get a guy to give me a chance that would be basing the beginning of a relationship on a lie so why not be up front later alpinette | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 1:12:49 AM | This message is in response to dariqueen.
I was not too long ago in a similiar situation as you. I gave birth to my daughter 10 months ago and was split from her Dad before I gave birth. Please take the time over the next year with your new baby. Get to know him or her and make your other two kids feel good about your own little family you have before you look to add another person...meaning a man to your life! I know how you feel, truly I do...but remember that our children are with us for life...take the time to look for Mr. Right.......not Mr. Rightnow because you feel paniced or rushed. The right man will like you for you and it won't matter if you have 10 kids...just give yourself time to get over the emotional consequence of having a child on your own. I am still. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 11:45:17 AM | | i have an 8 month old and i will get asked out but then i say i have an 8 month and i swear u would think someone was shooting at them they start stuttering and then ...they come up w/ excuses and i just want someone for me to hang out w/ and spend time my son comes first no matter what and when guys here that its done | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 1:58:35 PM | Thanks for your advice..I do agree with you. I'm not going to rush anything. I need to raise my kids, and do things to make me feel good about myself before I can move on to anything else. I just resent the fact that my ex is already seeing someone...doesn't matter how old his kids are | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 2:15:11 PM | | Actually, I just spotted another thread that might explain why I've been thinking about this already...about how not getting hugged has affected you. My problem is that my ex hated hugging, and any other touching/signs of affections. So it's already been 4 years since I've been around someone who would touch me, besides my daughter. I miss it. | |
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Joined: 6/5/2006
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 6:15:59 PM | | I totally agree with u ! I have 2 kids of my own as well ! I have to agree with u abt the fact that most men do like like the responsibility of looking after somoneelse's kids ! I think that should be a plus for a single mother,it shows that she is responsible enough to look after her two kids on her own. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 6:22:36 PM | SonOfSpam : Im sorry to hear you had such a horrible experience but really not all our kids are such animals lol....As for the sex, hmmmm I never have a problem when Im involved with someone to have sex at least once a day or night, depends.,but I make time for it and Im never deprived and I have 2 kids....I did laugh when I read your post and truly felt for you..Maybe she just needed to set her kids straight on the rules, as for kids costing a fortune, nobody but me pays for anything to do with my kids.... Again sorry you had a bad experience but all kids arent like that or parents for that matter...Good luck...... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 10:40:08 PM | | Yes they do. Wait, do twenty somethings count? Where I live, it seems those are the ones that want to date me, what's up with that? I KNOW there are men out there that are over thirty (where I live, not on this site). | |
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| RE: do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/25/2006 10:55:00 PM | Yes, they do exist. I'm one of them! My ex wife never wanted any kids..now, or in the future.. I would have waited a thousand years to have one. Anyway, I'm actually LOOKING for a woman that has a kid or two. I know it sounds crazy to other guys out there, but oh well, it's really what I want. Even if it is just someday away. | |
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| RE: do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/26/2006 1:28:15 AM | Hey katmajere
If thats what you want and you do NOT mind the fact of a woman your dateing or just starting to get close with one another as a kid than its entirely up to you and nobody should say anything about what you choose to do or how you want things, in your life because after all nobody can live any of our lives for us. | |
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| RE: do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/26/2006 2:02:27 PM | | There are men out there. I have met some and you just can't look at them like they are the next pay out for your children. Yes you would love to have a father figure for your child but that takes time. We can't push the issue on them. They have to make that decision for themselves. If they don't want to help you raise your child/children as a father figure then best of luck to them in their travels out the door. They will come...but don't search too hard. You will only be hurting them, your children, and yourself. | |
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